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[meetjoeblack]

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Acceptance is where to start. If you can't accept it, accept thatand stfo and let's get on with it.

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You got what people on body building.com call a bald manlet and he has game to pick up girls in a book called the game by neil strauss. Shave away the excuses. One pua said, you can't be half a gangster. Knock and the door will open.

Another great book is a first rate madness. It goes on about jfk, fdr, churchill, and others who were not mentally well. It went onto argue that these individuals were suffering from mental health issues all of which helped them be the great crisis leaders we know them as. It hints at a possible reason behind mental anguish and how purpose can rise above all that.

Forget your story or suffering. Start fresh. This comes from a guy who suffered acne even acne scars before accutane which led to hairloss. If this wasn't enough I lost family in my sis and dad in a accident due to drunk driving. I am numb to pain and rejection. I am done acting like a panzy like most people online. If my hair falls out I shave it. I move on. You should too.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Don't tell me what to do.

 

[Scarred4Life]

Wow all this BS. What next, someone who is dying from cancer should just believe it isn't true and they will cure themselves?

Again people, denial is one of the stages of grief, and we tend to see a lot of that around here.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Wow all this BS. What next, someone who is dying from cancer should just believe it isn't true and they will cure themselves?

Again people, denial is one of the stages of grief, and we tend to see a lot of that around here.

So we should do what people like you should do? be depressed? hide under wigs? or hats? take all sorts off meds for the REST off your life to keep some hair? what ever makes you happy but its not for me we are NOT in denial because YOU cant handle it dont mean others cant get that in your head.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Some people have more of a reason to be depressed than others, why can't YOU get that?

I'm sure S4l would do just fine if he were to switch places with you.

But how will you fair living life in a forty year old's body with obvious scarring on your dome from botched hair transplant's that you can't just shave off?

Take a moment to think about it and try to put yourself in his shoes for some perspective.

 

[Jockson]

But how will you fair living life in a forty year old's body with obvious scarring on your dome from botched hair transplant's that you can't just shave off?

Take a moment to think about it and try to put yourself in his shoes for some perspective.

You mean a 50 year old not willing to settle for anything less than a hot, young woman with no flaws? Well yes, I wouldn't like to be in his shoes.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Some people have more of a reason to be depressed than others, why can't YOU get that?

I'm sure S4l would do just fine if he were to switch places with you.

But how will you fair living life in a forty year old's body with obvious scarring on your dome from botched hair transplant's that you can't just shave off?

Take a moment to think about it and try to put yourself in his shoes for some perspective.

I said MANY times that hair etc can be a b**ch to deal with we are not saying its not we are not walking round saying its all good no one is taking the piss etc etc i UNDERSTAND but PLEASE tell me what feeling depressed or feeling sorry for yourself is gonna do? please tell me...go on...the scarredforlife guy HAS a woman who is intrested but is pushing her away saying she must have mental problems if she likes him....just wow....put my self in his shoes? ok you put yourself in someone with cancer shoes or someone in a wheel chair shoes we could do this until the cows come home but its not gonna make things better now is it?

 

[uncomfortable man]

None of you would, which is why I think it's BS that some of these people here are trying to cram confidence down his throat when if the tables were turned those same people wouldn't want to leave their closet let alone the house looking like him.

 

[DannyBoyy]

None of you would, which is why I think it's BS that some of these people here are trying to cram confidence down his throat when if the tables were turned those same people wouldn't want to leave their closet let alone the house looking like him.

Lmao so what? we stay in the room for ever? will you think about WHAT you are saying? but it IS what it IS i wouldnt hide if i was him you dont HAVE to believe me but i wouldnt how would wasting your life away make things better? MANY people with worse problems would rather have what he has then what they have.

 

[uncomfortable man]

So what? Let them know I'm insecure about my baldness. I would rather hide than let them see me that way, even if they know (or suspect) that I'm bald. When people can evolve to the point where they don't judge me for my lack of hair then I can safely take the hat off but until then my beanie remains a statement in itself about where bald men stand in society.

 

[Ori83]

Which reminds me... where the hell hat prisoner is?!!? :S ... damn i miss that guy!

 

[uncomfortable man]

So many good guys on our side that we have lost

 

[DannyBoyy]

So what? Let them know I'm insecure about my baldness. I would rather hide than let them see me that way, even if they know (or suspect) that I'm bald. When people can evolve to the point where they don't judge me for my lack of hair then I can safely take the hat off but until then my beanie remains a statement in itself about where bald men stand in society.

Well have fun hiding and letting them win...damn i wish i did what you are doing -________-

 

[uncomfortable man]

Well have fun hiding and letting them win...damn i wish i did what you are doing -________-

**** you you condescending asswipe! And you think you are helping people here?! What can a twenty year old kid with minimal to no hair loss teach a 38 year old man who has been living fully bald for over a decade about life? Nothing, that's what! Walk a mile in my shoes before you come on here and judge me and trivialize my suffering you grease smudge.

 

[DannyBoyy]

**** you you condescending asswipe! And you think you are helping people here?! What can a twenty year old kid with minimal to no hair loss teach a 38 year old man who has been living fully bald for over a decade about life? Nothing, that's what! Walk a mile in my shoes before you come on here and judge me and trivialize my suffering you grease smudge.

Yeah dude cause you need to lose hair to go through **** or bad times etc >___> dude please you lost your hair not your legs etc get over yourself dont talk like you the only one gone through bad times etc you been through crap? join the club and what crap do you get? weird looks? name calling? oooo no god forbid dude i had it BEFORE hairloss you really think im gonna let it get to me? and yes dude i tried to help but people like you are just negative im sorry you been through your rough times but seriously its HAIR not ****ing cancer and you think im not helping? so what you want me to be like? depressed like you? please.

 

[Exodus2011]

Yeah dude cause you need to lose hair to go through **** or bad times etc >___> dude please you lost your hair not your legs etc get over yourself dont talk like you the only one gone through bad times etc you been through crap? join the club and what crap do you get? weird looks? name calling? oooo no god forbid dude i had it BEFORE hairloss you really think im gonna let it get to me? and yes dude i tried to help but people like you are just negative im sorry you been through your rough times but seriously its HAIR not ****ing cancer and you think im not helping? so what you want me to be like? depressed like you? please.

ok what were you made fun of for? OTHER than height, which really isnt being made fun of . . . . . .

 

[Scarred4Life]

So many good guys on our side that we have lost

They have probably killed themselves from the emotional toll being bald takes.

 

[DannyBoyy]

ok what were you made fun of for? OTHER than height, which really isnt being made fun of . . . . . .

I have told you before (and yes i explained to you about height aswell YES i know it was jealousy YES I KNOW hence why i LAUGHED IT OFF but they still did it but you didnt get what i ment when i tried to explain it) but yeah i been bullied for other things i HAVE told you before.

 

[slipy]

careful, it's very likely that when you'll be bald you're gonna have to redefine your conception of being bullied. don't think it will resemble the petty bs you ''faced'' for being tall.

 

[DannyBoyy]

careful, it's very likely that when you'll be bald you're gonna have to redefine your conception of being bullied. don't think it will resemble the petty bs you ''faced'' for being tall.

Lmao i laugh how you dont get what i ment when i said i was "bullied" for being tall... im not comparing it to being bald (obviously) like i said i laughed it off because it was cause off jealousy but it still happened but when i said it i was making a point at the time "haters gonna hate" they will hate ANYTHING which proves my point when they "bullied" me for being tall called me names etc.

I WAS bullied though for other things i have explained myself here before and what i was bullied for maybe most here were bullied when they lost their hair well i had it ALL my school life (when i had hair) so if the bullies do come back when i DO go bald? then bring it im not hiding like some on here do.