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Jockson · Oct 25, 2012

That's one long sentence Danny!

uncomfortable man · Oct 25, 2012

There is a fundamental difference between your friends taking the piss and complete strangers laughing or sneering at your bald head. The first is light hearted and the second is intentionally insulting. I said it before but "haters" come from jealousy and envy, so nobody is hating on us in that regard, it's more of a prejudicial hate. Just recognize the difference if you can.

DannyBoyy · Oct 25, 2012

uncomfortable man said:
There is a fundamental difference between your friends taking the piss and complete strangers laughing or sneering at your bald head. The first is light hearted and the second is intentionally insulting. I said it before but "haters" come from jealousy and envy, so nobody is hating on us in that regard, it's more of a prejudicial hate. Just recognize the difference if you can.

Yes dude the "haters" i am on about ARE strangers i wouldnt be saying "haters" if they were my friends would i?

Exodus2011 · Oct 25, 2012

meh its pointless

danny is on my ignore list now

gravesen · Oct 25, 2012

I don't even understand how a can tall guy can be bullied.

Exodus2011 · Oct 25, 2012

Its unlikely but not impossible graveseen

i know one actually who was bullies for the way he walked and talked and looked

but dam is it rare

Scarred4Life · Oct 25, 2012

uncomfortable man said:
So what? Let them know I'm insecure about my baldness. I would rather hide than let them see me that way, even if they know (or suspect) that I'm bald. When people can evolve to the point where they don't judge me for my lack of hair then I can safely take the hat off but until then my beanie remains a statement in itself about where bald men stand in society.

I agree. It is better to cover your baldness and be thought of as being bald, than to remove your beanie and remove all doubt.

DannyBoyy · Oct 25, 2012

Exodus2011 said:
Its unlikely but not impossible graveseen

i know one actually who was bullies for the way he walked and talked and looked

but dam is it rare

Funny thing is i never said i was bullied i said i was judged and called a name but not bullied im saying it now but with brackets cause im quoting one off yous who said it and never got what i was trying to say so i carried on saying it but yeah tall people (im not on about size now) have never been bullied (sarcasm) always short people (funny enough though most off the short people i know are popular but hey what do i know) but anyway you seem to know my life quite well though i wasnt depressed just down (apparently) i wasnt called names for being tall it was like you was there anyway why am i replying to you im on your ignore list now even though you doing sly sarcastic comments about me.
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gravesen said:
I don't even understand how a can tall guy can be bullied.

So tall people cant be bullied? im not on about size now obviously i just mean in general you know being bullied but happens to be tall.

Scarred4Life · Oct 26, 2012

Maystor said:
You mean a 50 year old not willing to settle for anything less than a hot, young woman with no flaws? Well yes, I wouldn't like to be in his shoes.

That's because bald people are used to being alone because they are shunned by society. So, why should they settle for a woman who isn't young and hot? Why add having to hang out, and pay for, an ugly woman to the list of problems for bald guys.

DannyBoyy · Oct 27, 2012

Scarred4Life said:
That's because bald people are used to being alone because they are shunned by society. So, why should they settle for a woman who isn't young and hot? Why add having to hang out, and pay for, an ugly woman to the list of problems for bald guys.

So you can go round ignoring so called ugly people because they are "ugly" but when they do it to you ignore you etc they are the bad people? you know the very thing you are moaning about (women apparently ignoring you cause off your baldness and scars etc) you are doing it also... and you going for young huh? and you are 50?...aahhh makes sense now why you cant get the ones you trying to get...

Jockson · Oct 27, 2012

Scarred4Life said:
That's because bald people are used to being alone because they are shunned by society. So, why should they settle for a woman who isn't young and hot? Why add having to hang out, and pay for, an ugly woman to the list of problems for bald guys.

Because hair or no hair, young hot women are not attracted to 50 year olds period. Of course, if she isn't young and hot that automatically means "ugly". Makes sense.

DannyBoyy · Oct 27, 2012

Maystor said:
Because hair or no hair, young hot women are not attracted to 50 year olds period. Of course, if she isn't young and hot that automatically means "ugly". Makes sense.

Lmao exactly dude.

Exodus2011 · Oct 27, 2012

"this message is hidden because DannyBoyy is on your ignore list."

Scarred4Life · Oct 27, 2012

DannyBoyy said:
So you can go round ignoring so called ugly people because they are "ugly" but when they do it to you ignore you etc they are the bad people?

Again with the word twisting. It is okay for woman to ignore bald guys as far as being interested in them romantically. It is not okay for them to ignore them as customers. Nor is it okay for ugly people to be ignored as customers. If an ugly or bald person walks into a store, they should not be ignored. But either one can be ignored by people romantically. That is the difference.

DannyBoyy · Oct 28, 2012

Scarred4Life said:
Again with the word twisting. It is okay for woman to ignore bald guys as far as being interested in them romantically. It is not okay for them to ignore them as customers. Nor is it okay for ugly people to be ignored as customers. If an ugly or bald person walks into a store, they should not be ignored. But either one can be ignored by people romantically. That is the difference.

They ignore you as customers? wow where do you live? sounds like a horrible place and i wasnt "twisting" anything you didnt say nothing about customers not lately anyway.

uncomfortable man · Oct 28, 2012

A young woman working as a bank teller laughed at my ID when I had to show her to complete my transaction. I asked her what was so funny and she gave me this ****ing coy look. I was so insensced by her reaction that I wanted to ask to speak with her manager and ask him if it was store policy to laugh at customers to their face.

Exodus2011 · Oct 28, 2012

uncomfortable man said:
A young woman working as a bank teller laughed at my ID when I had to show her to complete my transaction. I asked her what was so funny and she gave me this ****ing coy look. I was so insensced by her reaction that I wanted to ask to speak with her manager and ask him if it was store policy to laugh at customers to their face.

why didn't you?

id go back there and talk to the manager, thats very rude and should be dealt with appropriately

Scarred4Life · Oct 28, 2012

DannyBoyy said:
They ignore you as customers? wow where do you live? sounds like a horrible place and i wasnt "twisting" anything you didnt say nothing about customers not lately anyway.

Go back and read my threads. I will be in a store and need assistance. I will be ignored. People will come in after me and be asked if they need assistance.

I will be at the front of the line at a bank, post office, etc and someone will stand next to me at the front of the line (basically taking cuts) and the teller will call them ahead of me.

I will be seated at a restaurant and ignored. People will come in and be seated after me. They will be greeted and their order taken while I cam still ignored.

Exodus2011 · Oct 28, 2012

Scarred4Life said:
Go back and read my threads. I will be in a store and need assistance. I will be ignored. People will come in after me and be asked if they need assistance.

I will be at the front of the line at a bank, post office, etc and someone will stand next to me at the front of the line (basically taking cuts) and the teller will call them ahead of me.

I will be seated at a restaurant and ignored. People will come in and be seated after me. They will be greeted and their order taken while I cam still ignored.

wait i thot you used concealer that made it unnoticeable?

is this when u went without it?

Scarred4Life · Oct 30, 2012

Exodus2011 said:
wait i thot you used concealer that made it unnoticeable?

is this when u went without it?

Yes. It was before I had transplants, even after which did not give me anything close to a full head of hair.

Then as time went on and I lost even more hair in between the transplanted hairs I looked worse and worse.

I only started using concealers about 5 months ago, and even then, I get better service if I wear a cap because of my receded transplanted hairline.

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