What's the point of being young, when you're bald!?

[ChrisW1980uk]

I would love to see a current picture of S4L. I don't think he is entitled to women half his age and I'm sure there is alot we don't know about the guy but at the end of the day, after all the name calling and ganging up if either one of you woke up tomorrow with a head marred by obvious scars and not enough hair to hide them you'd probably get a lump in your throat too big to swallow and wind up spending the rest of your days hiding underneath a hat. And you guys advocate doing something about our problems instead of just complaining and that is just what he did... he got a transplant to try and improve his situation and it went horribly wrong. Who amongst you could just brush that off and move on as though nothing has happened?

I can tell you now, I'd be down and it would take me time to get over it. I'm not saying I wouldn't care. If I didn't care about hair loss I wouldn't even be here with my minor hair loss. If I was in S4L's situation, I would be unhappy and upset at the limited options, his only option would be as you say a hat, or alternatively a hairpiece.

S4L started the name calling, not me. I've just highlighted how inconsistent his argument is in some respects. What I take exception to, is his apologising for BBSA's homophobia, saying the site has a "gay agenda" and trying to equate being gay with being a "child rapist".

 

[uncomfortable man]

Yes, he is not the first eccentric personality to grace the gourmetstylewellness.com.

CCS
IBM
Macimate
HPM

And so many others I'm brainfarting on right now.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Fair point, I remember some of those guys from my lurking days.

 

[DannyBoyy]

I would love to see a current picture of S4L. I don't think he is entitled to women half his age and I'm sure there is alot we don't know about the guy but at the end of the day, after all the name calling and ganging up if either one of you woke up tomorrow with a head marred by obvious scars and not enough hair to hide them you'd probably get a lump in your throat too big to swallow and wind up spending the rest of your days hiding underneath a hat. And you guys advocate doing something about our problems instead of just complaining and that is just what he did... he got a transplant to try and improve his situation and it went horribly wrong. Who amongst you could just brush that off and move on as though nothing has happened?

Yes i wouldnt like having scars on my head i mean who would? but i wouldnt hide im so use to people bullying or "hating" me BEFORE hairloss is what made me not care anymore IF they use baldness against me when ALL my hair goes then so be it...i will just ignore them like i did when i had hair...NO ONES perfect you can say you look better with hair i probably look better with other things done to me to but you ARE who you ARE why change cause off some immature person? calling you names.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Well when you go bald big guy then you can either live up to those words or eat them. Only time will tell...

 

[DannyBoyy]

Well when you go bald big guy then you can either live up to those words or eat them. Only time will tell...

I suppose so but i know i wont care i know its easy to say but my hair is that short and the front is pretty much gone (back still there i think its thinning now) it looks like im bald from a distance when i look in a mirror etc...but i know i wont care my family friends know it will happen they dont care...i couldnt careless about a stangers comment..haters gonna hate...if people always cared what others think you never get anything done...i know it be weird at first cause i have always had hair...but i know i will be fine.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Good for you then, but that's you. People are different and that's OK.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Good for you then, but that's you. People are different and that's OK.

Yeah i know thats the point off the forum im just trying to help cause when my hair first started to go there i worried i was the same but i just got to the point where i didnt care no more...and seriously people dont care some do but thats life...why im here cause i know how you guys feel.

 

[uncomfortable man]

cause i know how you guys feel.

You don't know how I feel. That is the point. You haven't been what I've been through so how could you possibly know?

 

[DannyBoyy]

You don't know how I feel. That is the point. You haven't been what I've been through so how could you possibly know?

*sigh* i obviously dont mean EVERYTHING what you been through i just ment not wanting to go bald cause people may judge...damn i just cant win all it is negative negative negative.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I know the feeling. I'm seen as some overly-sunny poster on here, yet everyone who knows me in real life would say that I'm dark and dour. Shows just how negative these forums are that I of all people seem like a positive person!

 

[uncomfortable man]

Danny, I can appreciate that you understand how it feels to loose hair. I didn't mean to trivialize your situation. You may do just fine if you found yourself in my shoes, hell you may even handle it better than me but there is no way to quantify that because alas, everyone is different.

 

[zeroes]

I know the feeling. I'm seen as some overly-sunny poster on here, yet everyone who knows me in real life would say that I'm dark and dour. Shows just how negative these forums are that I of all people seem like a positive person!

+1 to me as well, although I am turning things around in real life.

You just have to laugh at some of the comments people make on here.

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Danny, I can appreciate that you understand how it feels to loose hair. I didn't mean to trivialize your situation. You may do just fine if you found yourself in my shoes, hell you may even handle it better than me but there is no way to quantify that because alas, everyone is different.

Dannyboyy is what 18? 19? You are mid 30's?

I think the biggest problem you have with dannyboyy is that he is much younger than you are and he is able to move on with his life, unlike yourself.

Besides hair, you always complain about your to skinny and pale, no reason why you can't work on both of those.

I personally admire dannyboyy and guys like Jonjo Shelvey, they just get on with life.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Zeroes, it's not just the outlandish claims, it's the leaps of logic that astonish me. Like you, I'm in a much better place mentally than I have been for all of my life. Not there yet, but life is a journey. I think UC Man said he was 40.

 

[DannyBoyy]

+1 to me as well, although I am turning things around in real life.

You just have to laugh at some of the comments people make on here.

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Dannyboyy is what 18? 19? You are mid 30's?

I think the biggest problem you have with dannyboyy is that he is much younger than you are and he is able to move on with his life, unlike yourself.

Besides hair, you always complain about your to skinny and pale, no reason why you can't work on both of those.

I personally admire dannyboyy and guys like Jonjo Shelvey, they just get on with life.

Im 21 (i turned 21 on the 30th October) and thanks for the nice comment.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Happy Birthday for last week fella! 21 is a great age and can I echo Zeroes comments, you have far more cojones than I do!

 

[DannyBoyy]

Happy Birthday for last week fella! 21 is a great age and can I echo Zeroes comments, you have far more cojones than I do!

Haha well thank you.