Who Is Hair Loss Worse For? Ugly Or Handsome

[Dante92]

the eternal war between Dante and Exuses

Incel Wars

 

[Dench57]

Dante's Inferno

 

[CopeForLife]

Wait, did you mean" Exodus" or "excuses" (shookwun approves)?

fixed (shookwun approved)

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Age means nothing though. Imagine a good looking guy stays at home due to various reasons and doesn't interact with anyone. If he keeps that up, he will be a 50 year old virgin. Virginity is also nothing to be ashamed about. I know you're thinking why should I listen to you, you've had a complete different life (hair, looks and so on) so cannot relate. But just because someone has not been through the exact same thing, doesn't mean they can't help or understand. We accumulate life experience, we see things. And I've seen many people change for the better who have been in a situation like you. Okay, the ceiling for improvement will be limited (assuming what you say is true about your looks), but a substantial improvement in quality of life will be obtained. You've given up before trying. By trying to be your best version and changing your outlook, you will suffer much less. Your career is going good and that's a big plus to getting everything together. Your currently trying to escape and it won't make you feel better long term. Confront your problems and "deal" with them as best as you can.

If you ever want, send me a pm of how you look. People on here have done so in the past and can vouch for me being trustworthy. I'll delete it asap, once viewed.

This guys heart is bigger than the moon.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I don't spend enough time on here, but when I can, I like to reach out to people who are being hard on themselves unnecessarily. Actually my long term aim is to get help of some other members and make a really good sticky about hair loss and overall aesthetics. Something realistic and simple to help all and not ridiculously lookist. Hopefully in a few months we'll get this going.

That is a great attitude to have.

Its really basic but I think a lot of us should follow this basic idiom: Be Kind to Yourself.

So many of us beat ourselves up and begin to hate ourselves. Its so unnecessary of us and wastes so much emotional energy.

You wouldn't believe the amount of people in this world who do hate themselves and hate the way they look - its really heart-breaking.

 

[blackg]

Dante's Inferno

I still love your work!

 

[rclark]

@CopeForLife triggered.

After lifting weights for 1.5 month now, I'm convinced that happiness has a lot to do with our brain chemistry.

As someone with mild bipolar disorder, I'll have moments when I feel very depressed for a few hours for absolutely no reason (so not even tiny problem, but nothing at all).

Last Sunday, after my girlfriend left, I knew that I should have felt very depressed. Because that is what usually happens.

And to my surprise, I didn't, those moments just don't happen anymore, my 'happiness level' mostly stays stable now.

And I'm sure it's because of the psychological benefits that gymcelling brings.

I'm sure other things contribute to my happiness though: having a stable job, having sex regularly, enjoying my hobbies, and of course, liking my reflection in the mirror, to name a few.

Are you happy with your reflection?

 

[rclark]

I still love your work!

He's the best Ninja Turtle around!

 

[rclark]

You can already do a Andy Milonakis and get a super realistic sex doll. Mirin his hair genetics this guy will NEVER go bald, he's like 40 btw. He has growth hormone deficiency which means he'll look and sound like an adolescent kid for the rest of his life. On the bright side he has hair forever.

Isn't that the guy from the Kroll Show?? I thought he was older, and he was in Scream TV Series (MTV)?

Am I wrong on that one?

 

[CopeForLife]

Age means nothing though. Imagine a good looking guy stays at home due to various reasons and doesn't interact with anyone. If he keeps that up, he will be a 50 year old virgin. Virginity is also nothing to be ashamed about. I know you're thinking why should I listen to you, you've had a complete different life (hair, looks and so on) so cannot relate. But just because someone has not been through the exact same thing, doesn't mean they can't help or understand. We accumulate life experience, we see things. And I've seen many people change for the better who have been in a situation like you. Okay, the ceiling for improvement will be limited (assuming what you say is true about your looks), but a substantial improvement in quality of life will be obtained. You've given up before trying. By trying to be your best version and changing your outlook, you will suffer much less. Your career is going good and that's a big plus to getting everything together. Your currently trying to escape and it won't make you feel better long term. Confront your problems and "deal" with them as best as you can.

If you ever want, send me a pm of how you look. People on here have done so in the past and can vouch for me being trustworthy. I'll delete it asap, once viewed.

virginity is must have to lose

once it's lost you're fine

doesn't matter with who u lost hooker or no

at least you will able to share a sporadic convo about sex and will not look like a weirdo

before I always was insecure when discussions about sex were arisen in my circle of friends even if they knew I was a virgin and never said anything about it (that were a good friends, the ones u miss Dante)

now when I tried quite a lot of sex it doesn't bother me either I have it now or not and never feel awkward when getting a talk about sex

 

[JohnsonDDG]

virginity is must have to lose

once it's lost you're fine

doesn't matter with who u lost hooker or no

at least you will able to share a sporadic convo about sex and will not look like a weirdo

before I always was insecure when discussions about sex were arisen in my circle of friends even if they knew I was a virgin and never said anything about it (that were a good friends, the ones u miss Dante)

now when I tried quite a lot of sex it doesn't bother me either I have it now or not and never feel awkward when getting a talk about sex

I lost my virginity at 19 when everyone around me lost it between 15-17. Let me tell you, even though 19 isn't that late it felt like an absolute eternity!

Those two or three years where I felt everyone was having sex were some crazy times. I used to go to bed praying to God to help me lose my virginity and help me escape this absolute pit of loneliness. It felt like I was slowly dying and if I didn't find someone to love very soon then I would die.

It sounds all melodramatic but at the time I was out of my mind.

And when the sex did finally come it was a little underwhelming, but it was the hugging and the talking that really made it all seem worthwhile because for one moment I was no longer alone.

 

[blackg]

virginity is must have to lose

once it's lost you're fine

doesn't matter with who u lost hooker or no

at least you will able to share a sporadic convo about sex and will not look like a weirdo

before I always was insecure when discussions about sex were arisen in my circle of friends even if they knew I was a virgin and never said anything about it (that were a good friends, the ones u miss Dante)

now when I tried quite a lot of sex it doesn't bother me either I have it now or not and never feel awkward when getting a talk about sex

Slayertalk.

 

[Dante92]

Slayertalk.

Seriously, it's depressing as f***. Best part is getting advice by good-looking fullheads. That surely helps ugly incels, no doubt.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Yeah, the Incel Triumvirate.

Don't believe me, then. LOL at this point I don't care, as a balding, ugly virgin with social anxiety I'm fucked either way.

I don't give a f*** about baldhurts wasting his best years, quite the contrary, it amuses me - as I said. I have no empathy for good-looking guys, not to mention those stupid enough to waste their time and undeserved luck and complaining even more than ugly guys. He has no excuses, and he makes me sick.

The thing is, if you're a below-average, socially-awkward, male you are very likely to be overly critical of your looks. Especially these days. Girls will pay you absolutely no attention, even when you try fat girls turn you down etc. It's entirely possible you are fucked no matter what you do. But it's also entirely possible that you're overly critical of your looks and with effort you could get average girls. I can't know without a pic, but I'm just saying I see a lot of guys who are far to harsh on their looks. I was at one stage and I'm average.

I remember on a social anxiety forum years ago there was this guy who used to completely blame his SA on his looks. He would say he has no chance of improving on it because of how ugly he was.

One day he made a thread and posted a picture. He was a solid 7, no joke. I couldn't believe it, made me feel bad about my looks to be honest.

 

[CopeForLife]

There are only three true incels on this forum: you, @CaptainForehead and @Exodus2011 .

The rest are all closeted major slayers. Even David's slowly getting there.

Seriously though, the worst situation is when you have a combination of relative ugliness (I still don't believe Dante is as ugly as he says) and crippling social anxiety.

@Baldhurts suffers from social anxiety but he still has girls throwing themselves at him from time to time.

I was like him in high school and my first years of university.

Girls would sit next to me asking how I was doing and I would nervously tell them to leave me alone.

I would become all red and lost for words very easily, which made girls "facepalm" in front of me.

Once I got over my social anxiety, the hardest was done for me: I could enter the realm of the slayers.

David is close to see a shrink because he is forced to shop fat girls (FredTheDutchman approved) so he is far away to be a slayer (still he isn't an incel, give him decent look and he will slay like a wild).

I am incel as well.

The only communication I do with girls now is communicating through the cashier when ordering food or waitresses and even they behave weird – giggling and re-asking what I ordered think it is sign my face is ugly or so.

So I cut even this communication and use food delivery nowadays.

 

[CopeForLife]

Nevertheless I never got mocked about my appearance like @Dante92.

I mean besides bald jokes which wasn't thrown with purpose to humiliate me or so – just ignorance of fullheads.

 

[Dench57]

I have my books
And my poetry to protect me
I am shielded in my armor
Hiding in my room
Safe within my womb
I touch no one and no one touches me
I am a rock
I am an island

And a rock feels no pain
And an island never cries

 

[CopeForLife]

I think @Dante92 should man up, grow a pair and make at least 10 approaches.

 

[blackg]

I don't give a f*** about baldhurts wasting his best years, quite the contrary, it amuses me - as I said. I have no empathy for good-looking guys, not to mention those stupid enough to waste their time and undeserved luck and complaining even more than ugly guys. He has no excuses, and he makes me sick.

This is why you sometimes piss me off.
Your empathy is so one dimensional.

 

[CopeForLife]

lol bald gymcel as is