Why are men struggling on here so much...

[Feelsbadman]

I'm not singling anyone out, just giving a differing view to OPs statement that guys are struggling on this forum only.
You will find someone that is a match eventually, aslong as you don't become a serial killer or a pedophile offender one day - but even they get chicks. The world is pretty fucked up place

Take the crimepill

 

[vondoom]

I'm not here to say that it's black and white or that it's over. My recommendation to anybody is to get to be the best they can physically and mentally and live life at its fullest.

The topic we have in hand here is "why some men are struggling so much here if Oknow is killing it as a 5ft11 indian guy in his 30's NOT particularly rich" - his words not mine. And obviously there can be a reasoning as to why that happens and it's all I tried to present. It's just dishonest and mocks my own struggle on finding someone I consider a good match making it look like it's my own choice not to be sleeping everyday with the girl that I like.

I find nothing wrong with admitting that I currently have certain limitations and I'm working on it...

that is an issue we discuss here nearly every day... of course you cant choose attraction, so the few things you can do are: get better, adjust your target, let it be...

i still think most dudes just want to date way above their level... it is possible, but difficult...
i say that without knowing what anybody here looks like, of course...
of course i might be wrong...
but i also wouldnt be surprised if men are also influenced by social media and sh*t and want the best looking women, same way women are influenced and want yo stereotype chad dude...

 

[BurningCoals]

You will find someone that is a match eventually, aslong as you don't become a serial killer or a pedophile offender one day - but even they get chicks. The world is pretty fucked up place

During Ted Bundy’s trial there were women who dressed up as his victims, and he even got married in court

 

[Feelsbadman]

During Ted Bundy’s trial there were women who dressed up as his victims, and he even got married in court

crimemaxxing

 

[Oknow]

i wait til one of them posts here and tells us about the hot women they are getting left and right...

dont really know about races... in europe i of course had no issues... in asia it is way more difficult to get a relationship, especially on that lasts and isnt just to show off...
for what i see here recently is that foreigners date other foreigners like west/west, west/south asian...
lack of success and some just got tired of the locals antics^^


though i bet south east asia is a walk in the park for everyone...

Location is super important

Lots of places in Europe and the world are not ethnic friendly.

I would struggle to date in Australia , not surprised @Feelsbadman is struggling

 

[Oknow]

I'm not here to say that it's black and white or that it's over. My recommendation to anybody is to get to be the best they can physically and mentally and live life at its fullest.

The topic we have in hand here is "why some men are struggling so much here if Oknow is killing it as a 5ft11 indian guy in his 30's NOT particularly rich" - his words not mine. And obviously there can be a reasoning as to why that happens and it's all I tried to present. It's just dishonest and mocks my own struggle on finding someone I consider a good match making it look like it's my own choice not to be sleeping everyday with the girl that I like.

I find nothing wrong with admitting that I currently have certain limitations and I'm working on it...

The problem is, you are assuming I don’t struggle, I do.

August and September I was in a drought. One date a month.

I persisted with the apps, updated my profile, changed settings until finding what worked.

I’ve gone from that to now having 5-10 matches a week, turning down dates, going on several in one week etc went on 2 last week, 2 again this week

You need to find what you can change that is within your control and be pragmatic about it.

There are options for bald guys , systems etc do whatever you can to be competitive.

DATING IS NOT EASY

 

[Isaac Newton]

and the dudes are chad?

No but they're alright looking. The women are clearly a league lower

 

[Isaac Newton]

Even attractive guys don't pick up chicks daily or have these "hundreds of options" just available to them

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Lets use myself as an example here since nobody else wants to post solid proof
- im like maybe a 6 or a 7 after balding, i still manage to to have a decent appearance when buzzing my hair my hair off, 180cm height, good physique, lower then 10% body fat, good jawline, decent facial hair, green eyes etc etc

- i know for sure when i had hair i was higher on the scale maybe what you would consider a "chad" because i never even had to work out to get attention from girls, so im definitely less good looking now compared to back then- but those kind of girls were not matured an chased after looks

an im single for a while now , my gf even dumped me this year lmao. i dont go on dates every weekend or hundreds of matches of chicks wanting to hookup, i get rejected at bars and so on
its not as black & white as you guys make it out to be about 6ft chads vs us, everyone struggles on different levels. Those instragam influencers you think are getting all the women are getting unhappy/shallow wrecks
that you wouldnt want to bring home to your mom
Theres so much other factors involved, dating is just difficult at the end of the day wether your balding or not

Dating is hard for men in general, yes, and you look good strong yes homo

 

[Isaac Newton]

How the f*** can you make statements about my dating pool without knowing the details?

That’s you projecting your bigoted ideas and more of a reflection of your narrow minded perception of the world.

Thank f*** there are plenty of people out there who are different and a lot more open minded.

Posts like yours are dangerous, a young Indian man could read it and develop an inferiority complex with dating.

I’m successful because I have the courage to go outside of my comfort zone and create opportunities.

it’s not always been easy either, I’ve had sh*t periods too but I’m very good at turning things around.

Dude I hate using the term but you're coping.

Unless the girls are decent compared to your own looks we have no idea whether you are successful. Again reminder that the 5'4 skinny nw6 I Kno TECHNICALLY got laid as well. But a mate doesn't mean anything if she is ugly compared to you

 

[Isaac Newton]

They don’t seem to understand that everyone is different, and has different preferences. It’s not as simplistic as they make it out to be

When I date women from different backgrounds, they are the open-minded, liberal types where I have met lots who actually find darker skin guys hot - where the women come in all forms.

The good thing about dating apps, is where it is a lot more of an effective way to filter out the closed minded people and open minded ones. The trick is to not hide anything in your photos.

So yeah, these guys make me laugh, talk a lot about being enlightened, but their mindset is so closed minded and rigid.

I also find it super annoying when people make comments about how dating within the same/similar race is easier, it isn’t, some of the women I’ve met with the worse attitudes have been Indians/Middle easterners.

Lol at putting women down just because they don't wanna destroy their racial bloodline

 

[Oknow]

Lol at putting women down just because they don't wanna destroy their racial bloodline

Tbh people can have preferences, if they don’t like Indians, that is fine but discriminating just because you are a certain nationality where otherwise are attracted to them is bullshit.

Case in point - the other day I had a woman ghost me, after finding out i wasn’t Mediterranean, but Indian.

 

[Isaac Newton]

Tbh people can have preferences, if they don’t like Indians, that is fine but discriminating just because you are a certain nationality where otherwise are attracted to them is bullshit.

Case in point - the other day I had a woman ghost me, after finding out i wasn’t Mediterranean, but Indian.

Sorta legit. Nothing wrong with racial preferences

 

[Oknow]

Sorta legit. Nothing wrong with racial preferences

MASSIVE fine line between racial preferences and prejudism, bigotry

You can find a certain race physically unattractive, that’s not racist and no different to not liking a certain hair or eye colour. Where I’ve seen women cross the line is where they do find me attractive but discriminate against my heritage.

Besides I’m more British culturally than Indian

 

[Norwoody]

well yeah... so are most of you...
if you approach with some “i want pussy” stare, you know how it will go...
thats why most cold approaches that go straight “you are so pretty” also dont work...

you got it, bro!^^

Please share us more of your wisdom on women, I know you are an expert and have a lot of success

 

[Isaac Newton]

MASSIVE fine line between racial preferences and prejudism, bigotry

You can find a certain race physically unattractive, that’s not racist and no different to not liking a certain hair or eye colour. Where I’ve seen women cross the line is where they do find me attractive but discriminate against my heritage.

Besides I’m more British culturally than Indian

Just the idea of a certain ethnicity can be attractive tho. I have a thing for your women actually, as long as they are actual british women (anglo saxon) and not (((british women)))

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Just the idea of a certain ethnicity can be attractive tho. I have a thing for your women actually, as long as they are actual british women (anglo saxon) and not (((british women)))

I really like Indian women but also fancy women of every other ethnicity

Think I just love women tbh

My girlfriend is white though

 

[Isaac Newton]

I really like Indian women but also fancy women of every other ethnicity

Not based. Also do you have a scat fetish by any chance?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Not based. Also do you have a scat fetish by any chance?

Nope

I don't have any fetishes

 

[Isaac Newton]

Nope

I don't have any fetishes

Sorry bro but r/whoosh

 

[Oknow]

Just the idea of a certain ethnicity can be attractive tho. I have a thing for your women actually, as long as they are actual british women (anglo saxon) and not (((british women)))

I can tell you like white women