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Oknow

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Yep and at least im honest about it. I dont cover it up with "im open minded" lol

I do actually like women that are not white, quite like Arab women , but they happen to be the worse of the lot - very prejudice

The other day , I saw a very attractive black lady when I was having lunch

if a woman is attractive I honestly don’t give a sh*t
 

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I do actually like women that are not white, quite like Arab women , but they happen to be the worse of the lot - very prejudice

The other day , I saw a very attractive black lady when I was having lunch

if a woman is attractive I honestly don’t give a sh*t
Not based
 

doubleindemnity

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yeah tell that to yourself...
i guarantee you that a lot depends on behaviour when you go out... probably even most depends on it...


i can remind you again: i am talking about average normal people you see outside...
not ugly people and not yo boy chad...
of course chad has it easier to get the foot in the door (personally i know more women who wouldnt date chad, because they think he cheats anyway) and the uggo will have a hard time unless he goes with less attractive women... that is common sense...

I will believe it only when I experience it for myself. But every time I go out with a wing, who is no different to me except for height and hair loss, and use the exact same lines and techniques fed to me by the wing, the wing gets better results and I get blown out at 'hello'.
 

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I'll be honest with you so again please take no offense because it's not my intention but given the stats/pics that you have given about yourself I do not doubt that I would find all the women you are dating unattractive. They may be attractive for you and that is fine though.

I'ts just not possible that you're getting 200 matches with a high rate of quality women in London. Now if you tell me that you're focusing on a niche of indian women who are +30 and one of the qualities they're looking for in a man is financial stability then I can see how you are getting matches...

Even attractive guys don't pick up chicks daily or have these "hundreds of options" just available to them

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Lets use myself as an example here since nobody else wants to post solid proof
- im like maybe a 6 or a 7 after balding, i still manage to to have a decent appearance when buzzing my hair my hair off, 180cm height, good physique, lower then 10% body fat, good jawline, decent facial hair, green eyes etc etc

- i know for sure when i had hair i was higher on the scale maybe what you would consider a "chad" because i never even had to work out to get attention from girls, so im definitely less good looking now compared to back then- but those kind of girls were not matured an chased after looks

an im single for a while now , my gf even dumped me this year lmao. i dont go on dates every weekend or hundreds of matches of chicks wanting to hookup, i get rejected at bars and so on
its not as black & white as you guys make it out to be about 6ft chads vs us, everyone struggles on different levels. Those instragam influencers you think are getting all the women are getting unhappy/shallow wrecks
that you wouldnt want to bring home to your mom
Theres so much other factors involved, dating is just difficult at the end of the day wether your balding or not
The sad thing is that your looks go down the toilet when you remove your hat. All that work that you do on dieting, working hard, keeping the jaw in place etc. all useless without the hat. I know the feeling, man.

I don't think that @Oknow is lying but let's all remember that 'attractive' is subjective and 'internet standards'. So both sides of the argument could be right. That's just the gap between a guy with hair and a bald guy and we're almost oblivious to it. Also let's please finally dispense with the myth that financial success gets you anywhere at all on onling systems.
 

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The sad thing is that your looks go down the toilet when you remove your hat. All that work that you do on dieting, working hard, keeping the jaw in place etc. all useless without the hat. I know the feeling, man.

I don't think that @Oknow is lying but let's all remember that 'attractive' is subjective and 'internet standards'. So both sides of the argument could be right. That's just the gap between a guy with hair and a bald guy and we're almost oblivious to it. Also let's please finally dispense with the myth that financial success gets you anywhere at all on onling systems.
That's your own personal experience not everyone's thats gone bald, I don't actually wear a cap often unless my hair has gotten longer or I'm at gym. I can actually rock the buzz look believe it or not some guys actually can pull it off lol I am not sure what keeping my jaw in place means either? I mean I was born with a strong jawline

We all agree we drop points after we start losing hair, but how much of it because of lack of confidence an not the actual loss of hair?? If you had infinite charisma and charm you could probably take any non shallow looks obsessed chick home.
It's all subjective to age, location etc
 
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That's your own personal experience not everyone's thats gone bald, I don't actually wear a cap often unless my hair has gotten longer or I'm at gym. I can actually rock the buzz look believe it or not some guys actually can pull it off lol I am not sure what keeping my jaw in place means either? I mean I was born with a strong jawlineView attachment 171952

We all agree we drop points after we start losing hair, but how much of it because of lack of confidence an not the actual loss of hair?? If you had infinite charisma and charm you could probably take any non shallow looks obsessed chick home.
It's all subjective to age, location etc
Are you gay?
 
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