Why are men struggling on here so much...

[Norwoody]

agreed but looks>>>>>money. I've known high-earning career women and trust fund princesses who stuck with handsome losers. if you are in the highest percentiles lookswise, money is largely irrelevant in my experience

You got a sugar mommy?

 

[Feelsbadman]

You're actually off the mark quite a bit on this one. Women have a big problem securing the relationships they want, it isn't easy for them. A lot of those things are actually dealbreakers for guys who are thinking about marrying a woman and having kids with her.

Bad face and overweight? Sign of bad genetics, especially if she tries diet and exercise and still can't keep the weight off easily.
Short? Undesirable. Don't want your son to be another FeelsBadMan.
Bald? Undesirable for obvious reasons.
Race is contingent upon individual tastes but let's just assume you can date within your own race at a minimum.
Money? Big dealbreaker if a woman has no job and no income for a lot of guys, triggers gold digger alarms.

Hooking up of course those are all irrelevant, mostly.

this is why dating is fucked now
coz all.those average women have slept with or even briefly dated attractive men before being passed on.

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

You got a sugar mommy?

I had when I was early 20s, half korean, cute in a plain way, generational wealth and I was f*****g up my life back then, like a trophy boyfriend more or less. and then I lost my hair

 

[Oknow]

on my way home from a date - successful
She told me that she is happy I kissed her

 

[Feelsbadman]

on my way home from a date - successful
She told me that she is happy I kissed her

pics?

 

[Norwoody]

I had when I was early 20s, half korean, cute in a plain way, generational wealth and I was f*****g up my life back then, like a trophy boyfriend more or less. and then I lost my hair

She dumped you for going bald?

 

[Norwoody]

on my way home from a date - successful
She told me that she is happy I kissed her

Awh how sweet

 

[justinbieberscombover]

on my way home from a date - successful
She told me that she is happy I kissed her

Maybe she's the one

When I started texting/dating my girlfriend I didn't know what to expect. Now I'm almost sure I'll end up marrying her

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

She dumped you for going bald?

I left before the humiliation. it was a matter of time. I had become a nervous wreck. before I was happy go lucky, didn't care about a thing. hairloss made me introspective and sombre.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Maybe she's the one

When I started texting/dating my girlfriend I didn't know what to expect. Now I'm almost sure I'll end up marrying her

strong brag

 

[Feelsbadman]

i wish i could go back in time how tf do you stop missing someone?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

strong brag

Sorry I'll try to be more negative

 

[Feelsbadman]

Sorry I'll try to be more negative

just dont need to brag to us ugly bald men who will never get married. really messed up

 

[doubleindemnity]

Like I mentioned in my other thread, I want just one example of one ugly guy that has:

1) a nice haircut. achievable for everyone if you got on finasteride early enough /saved up enough money for a top tier transplant. There is no excuse for lack of finasteride/minoxidil knowledge anymore, almost everyone has an internet connection.
2) went to a dentist regularly and have nice teeth.
3) workout regularly/are in good shape.
4) dress stylishly/pay for nice, form fitting clothes.
5) went to a dermatologist regularly and don't have anything like major acne scars.

If you can find me just one single example of an ugly guy with all of these attributes, I will concede your point and admit I am completely wrong.

The height thing is a separate topic and outside the scope of this forum, obviously if you are 5'5" and live in a country like Germany where the average woman is like 5'10" you will need to change geographic location most likely.

Nobody disagrees with you there. A guy who has all that will likely not be ugly. He might be plain but not ugly. But not everybody can have 1. I am not a good candidate for a hair transplant and am afraid of finasteride. Many guys on here are in the same boat except they do not tolerate finasteride well, rather than being afraid. And this is exactly the point. When you have 1, you can work on all the others and in effect work your way out of depravity. As a bald guy, no matter how much work you do you're stuck.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Nobody disagrees with you there. A guy who has all that will likely not be ugly. He might be plain but not ugly. But not everybody can have 1. I am not a good candidate for a hair transplant and am afraid of finasteride. Many guys on here are in the same boat except they do not tolerate finasteride well, rather than being afraid. And this is exactly the point. When you have 1, you can work on all the others and in effect work your way out of depravity. As a bald guy, no matter how much work you do you're stuck.

the problem.is being "plain" isnt good enough for women in this day and age.

 

[Norwoody]

on my way home from a date - successful
She told me that she is happy I kissed her

Did you have sex?

 

[Oknow]

Did you have sex?

Not yet, kissed, held hands.

 

[Norwoody]

Not yet, kissed, held hands.

White girl?

 

[Oknow]

Maybe she's the one

When I started texting/dating my girlfriend I didn't know what to expect. Now I'm almost sure I'll end up marrying her

There is something different about her, connected right off the bat.

The problem is, I have 2 other women in the background, one texting me tonight telling me how she was sad that I didn't meet up with her for dinner tonight (long story short, sh*t first date, so replaced her date night with this one)

 

[Oknow]

White girl?

Yeah, they usually are - she is a successful one too. Doctor.