Women below 30 are shallow, and balding is unattractive. Deal with it.

[Beingbaldsucksass]

Macimate, while I agree with you about the ugliness of baldness, (and most of the people are in this forum,that's why we treating it) but your crap about small eyes and brows are just a bounch of bullcrap, btw I sew ugly guys get girls with confidence, but tall and not balding, girls love height and hate baldness, bald guys are considerd freaks within girls

 

[Benjamin36]

If I was as concerned as some of you guys about being bald and looks I would seriously consider getting a wig or something. Although, I'm not sure how confident I would be because I would constantly be paranoid of something happening, but I guess they must make them pretty good nowadays.

 

[Quadzilla99]

Actually, no. I know my ****.

Do you think this guys small eyes are a good or bad feature?

Male models and men who are considered attractive usually have smaller eyes and low-set eyebrows.

Brah, I don't care what you find attractive in a man...if checking out dudes and ranking which bodyparts of theirs you like best is your thing go for it. Enjoy your avatar of Brad Pitt in a tanktop. I mean America, land of the free.

I was just questioning your hair brained assertion that eye size correlates to testosterone levels.

But keep believing in your "confidence", I'm sure it'll help you when you get insta-rejected because of your face. Delusional, is what you are.

tbh I've got an 8/10 face and I've been bodybuilding since the age of 14...not someone who thinks confidence is all you need. Lets see how more failure you can pack into this thread.

 

[Zeroman]

Brah, I don't care what you find attractive in a man...if checking out dudes and ranking which bodyparts of theirs you like best is your thing go for it. Enjoy your avatar of Brad Pitt in a tanktop. I mean America, land of the free.

I was just questioning your hair brained assertion that eye size correlates to testosterone levels.





tbh I've got an 8/10 face and I've been bodybuilding since the age of 14...not someone who thinks confidence is all you need. Lets see how more failure you can pack into this thread.

prove u have an 8/10 face

post a pic up here

otherwise its just tooting your own horn

 

[CaptainForehead]

I was just questioning your hair brained assertion that eye size correlates to testosterone levels.

http://www.livescience.com/18484-finger-length-masculine-faces.html
http://www.news-medical.net/news/20...ard-males-with-masculine-facial-features.aspx


Large eyes are indeed associated with femininity

 

[Jeremy K]

I have found quite the opposite to be true.

Aesthetically speaking, women have their preferences as to what they desire, but what they say they want, and what they actually want often don't correlate. Their attraction is like a mechanism, and it is not triggered by looks. Despite their words and desires, their attraction mechanism is instinctive and not something that they can contemplate and rationalize. How many times do you hear a woman say that they want a certain type of man, and then end up with the total opposite? A guy can be a 10, pass for a model, and she might be interested, but if she talks to him and she is put off by his body language, then it is over.

I never had any luck with the ladies in High School. In my early 20s I did a lot of research on the biology and psychology of attraction, and also built up my self-esteem so that I could exude genuine, unwavering confidence. Upon researching, I had realized that I was doing just about everything wrong, and was letting my intellect get in the way of my instincts, which was sabotaging my chances.

Now, I would consider myself to be a 5 or a 6 in terms of looks. I've been called "handsome", but never "hot". I have long hair, and back then it was mid-back length and very thick, and I had a scruffy reddish beard to go along with my dark brown hair. I am also 6 ft and ridiculously underweight. If you'd put me on a stage with 10 other men and tell a woman to pick one without meeting any of us, I'd probably be one of her last choices. I often heard "I won't date a man with hair longer than mine", and get comments on my weight, but I learned to disregard the comments because they were irrelevant. In fact, someone that I started a relationship told me just that when we first met, and a week later she admitted that she was having sexual dreams about me, and a few weeks later we were an item. I then asked "I thought you didn't date men with hair longer than yours?" Through body language, I commanded their attention and their attraction. It wasn't what I said, but how I said it. I went from never even so much as having a date in my life, to having 8 different women attracted to me at one time, a guy they'd probably never even consider based off of looks.

Then came male pattern baldness, several years of isolation and obsession, and my confidence was shot, and thus, I haven't had a date in over 5 years and women don't so much as look at me, and it's not because I'm bald, which I'm not, it's because my body language stinks and I have no confidence in myself.

And confidence is not strutting up to a girl and rattling off some lines, and then beating yourself up when she rejects you. Men are going to be rejected no matter what. Confidence is being able to look her in the eye, command the situation, and if she rejects you, it doesn't phase you and you move onto the next woman. I was honestly on a level where a woman could tell me that I'm the ugliest person she's ever seen and it wouldn't have phased me one bit. Now I'm at a point where I'd take it to heart and start seething with rage.

So, I've been on both ends. The same guy went from 22 years of futility, to 2 years of dating around and being a "ladies man", back to 5 years of futility, and all because of my mindset, body language, and self-confidence.

You don't have to agree with that, and that's fine, but that's what holds true in my experience. The results are tangible.

 

[virtuality]

^
You are probably right in pretty much everything you said...

I don't think there is a secret formula that works. For me, it's all about being in good mood and putting myself in the market. It works every single time.

 

[Benjamin36]

Most girls, no matter what age, like a guy who is fun. So if you are always in a good mood, and adventurous, you will get a lot of girls interested.

 

[Michael84]

Most girls, no matter what age, like a guy who is fun. So if you are always in a good mood, and adventurous, you will get a lot of girls interested.

That's true. And it works in the back way also: if you are attractive but don't have an appropriate character or some "fun" inside, then you're doomed regardless of your appearance and amount of hair.

 

[MGZ]

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[uncomfortable man]

What started as a wake up call quickly degenerated into a homo-erotic fantasy. Close thread. Now.

 

[agent00]

This is not true. A BEAUTIFUL (and when I say beautiful I mean it because I work in the entertainment business) young actress posted on her Facebook on how she has a big crush on surfer Kelly Slater. I googled Kelly Slater expecting a Fabioesque head of hair only to discover he's bald.

I still think girls value a nice body over a head of hair any day.

 

[RP3X]

its all about the hair... girls notice it alot more...

my mum and sister have been feeding me vitamins / veg and repeaterly saying your loosing your hair cos your not getting the right vits/iron.... i have told them 100 times its not that, but it does not matter.

and girls always look at my hair if its short or im covering hair loss.... they note it 1st thing cos u can see there eyes creep upwards lol

 

[Primo]

Seriously who care what a few shallow, c*m-guzzling w****s think anyway??

Sure there a few out there who may only be interested in certain types of men, but are those type of girls, with their tacky, fake hair, fake personlities and fungus filled vaginas really the type you want to settle down with?? uke:

Problem with a lot of gourmetstylewellness.com guys is they give these type of women WAY TOO MUCH RESPECT and care far too much about their "opinions" and what they apparently "look for in a man".

The truth is women, especially women under 30, are like rollercoasters, up and down emotionally all the time, they have no f*cking clue what they really want! They say they only like a certain type of man, and then end up getting with a completely different one altogether!

For example a few months ago this girl shrieked a very loud and audible "ewwwww!' at my receding hairline in front of her 3 friends after work, yet 3 days later that same shallow wh*** was on her knees blowing me after a few drinks on a night out! :hump:

Like Jeremy K said earlier on you have to command the situation and talk to these girls for the trashy sl*ts they are, if you bowdown like a pussy, care about every little comment they make/"what they want in a man" and try too hard to be Mr Nice Guy they will rinse you like a b**ch...

Most these girls don't even have respect for themselves, so why should you respect them? They want to be disrespected and taken advantage off, they don't want some tame, insecure Mr Nice Guy who looks in the mirror and worries about his NW1 hairdo every minute.

 

[macimate]

That's true. And it works in the back way also: if you are attractive but don't have an appropriate character or some "fun" inside, then you're doomed regardless of your appearance and amount of hair.

No. If you're attractive people will assume positive traits about you and attach them to you almost no matter your behaviour.
The "halo effect" is scientifically proven.

Ugly guy walks up to a girl in a bar: "You're gorgeous" - "Eww, get away from me you creep, who goes up to someone like that!!"
Handsome guy walks up to a girl in a bar: "You're gorgeous" - "Wow, you're so confident and daring. I bet you're used to taking the control in your everyday-life".



Also, it's worrying to see how many of the posters on here are still so incredibly deluded. Whatever. You guys can't be helped. Reality-denialx1000.

Try getting treated for your asperger guys.

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I have found quite the opposite to be true.

Aesthetically speaking, women have their preferences as to what they desire, but what they say they want, and what they actually want often don't correlate. Their attraction is like a mechanism, and it is not triggered by looks. Despite their words and desires, their attraction mechanism is instinctive and not something that they can contemplate and rationalize. How many times do you hear a woman say that they want a certain type of man, and then end up with the total opposite? A guy can be a 10, pass for a model, and she might be interested, but if she talks to him and she is put off by his body language, then it is over.

I never had any luck with the ladies in High School. In my early 20s I did a lot of research on the biology and psychology of attraction, and also built up my self-esteem so that I could exude genuine, unwavering confidence. Upon researching, I had realized that I was doing just about everything wrong, and was letting my intellect get in the way of my instincts, which was sabotaging my chances.

Now, I would consider myself to be a 5 or a 6 in terms of looks. I've been called "handsome", but never "hot". I have long hair, and back then it was mid-back length and very thick, and I had a scruffy reddish beard to go along with my dark brown hair. I am also 6 ft and ridiculously underweight. If you'd put me on a stage with 10 other men and tell a woman to pick one without meeting any of us, I'd probably be one of her last choices. I often heard "I won't date a man with hair longer than mine", and get comments on my weight, but I learned to disregard the comments because they were irrelevant. In fact, someone that I started a relationship told me just that when we first met, and a week later she admitted that she was having sexual dreams about me, and a few weeks later we were an item. I then asked "I thought you didn't date men with hair longer than yours?" Through body language, I commanded their attention and their attraction. It wasn't what I said, but how I said it. I went from never even so much as having a date in my life, to having 8 different women attracted to me at one time, a guy they'd probably never even consider based off of looks.

Then came male pattern baldness, several years of isolation and obsession, and my confidence was shot, and thus, I haven't had a date in over 5 years and women don't so much as look at me, and it's not because I'm bald, which I'm not, it's because my body language stinks and I have no confidence in myself.

And confidence is not strutting up to a girl and rattling off some lines, and then beating yourself up when she rejects you. Men are going to be rejected no matter what. Confidence is being able to look her in the eye, command the situation, and if she rejects you, it doesn't phase you and you move onto the next woman. I was honestly on a level where a woman could tell me that I'm the ugliest person she's ever seen and it wouldn't have phased me one bit. Now I'm at a point where I'd take it to heart and start seething with rage.

So, I've been on both ends. The same guy went from 22 years of futility, to 2 years of dating around and being a "ladies man", back to 5 years of futility, and all because of my mindset, body language, and self-confidence.

You don't have to agree with that, and that's fine, but that's what holds true in my experience. The results are tangible.

The biggest load of deluded nonsense I've ever read.
You're not being noticed because you're ****ing unattractive, it's that simple. You can rationalise all you want, it's not going to help you. I have a couple of friends who are the most misogynist, cold-hearted sons of b****s who get laid MUCH MORE than any of the more socially adjusted, confident, smooth guys in my social network. What do the guys who get laid with legit hot women have in common? A handsome masculine face, and at the very worst a thick NW2 hairline.
I know ONE guy in the periphery of my social group who's dating above his looks-league. How so? He's a CEO at 24 and drives a Porsche.

 

[Benjamin36]

No. If you're attractive people will assume positive traits about you and attach them to you almost no matter your behaviour.
The "halo effect" is scientifically proven.

Ugly guy walks up to a girl in a bar: "You're gorgeous" - "Eww, get away from me you creep, who goes up to someone like that!!"
Handsome guy walks up to a girl in a bar: "You're gorgeous" - "Wow, you're so confident and daring. I bet you're used to taking the control in your everyday-life".

But

If that same good looking guy walked up to a girl to say that in a soft spoken, quiet voice, while looking down at his feet and unable to make eye contact, he probably wouldn't get as much of a great response either.

 

[macimate]

But

If that same good looking guy walked up to a girl to say that in a soft spoken, quiet voice, while looking down at his feet and unable to make eye contact, he probably wouldn't get as much of a great response either.

See what you did here? You assumed because the guy is ugly, that means he's insecure, speaks with a low tone of voice and doesn't hold eyecontact? LOL on you brother. Halo-effect in full force.

But the fact of the matter is, NOBODY WITH A TAD OF SOCIAL KNOWLEDGE DOES THAT. So it holds no relevance here at all. Everyone knows how to project "confident" body-language. "Confidence" isn't a magic pill. It's bull**** you've been fed by media and your mothers. Just like you've been brainwashed into believing looks play no role at all when it comes to women selecting partners.

You think this guy is going to get laid by a hot woman because he speaks in a confident masculine tone while maintaining eye-contact?

Right.


A billion guys all over the world have been fed the same bull**** and do the exact same ****. The only differential here is the attractiveness of their faces..THAT my friend, is a magic pill - a handsome face.

 

[Beingbaldsucksass]

Confidence is bull****, I'm just now at a bar right now and a short bald guy trying his luck, but fail miserably , I can see the rejection, it's paintfull , I'm nw2 no one can tell I'm balding yet I'm misrable, can't even connect.

 

[Benjamin36]

See what you did here? You assumed because the guy is ugly, that means he's insecure, speaks with a low tone of voice and doesn't hold eyecontact? LOL on you brother. Halo-effect in full force.

No I didn't. I was describing a good looking guy who had little self-confidence, which is common by the way, not being successful with the opposite sex. I have personally seen tons of ugly guys get hot girls, and the only thing they have going for themselves is self-confidence.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Confidence is bull****, I'm just now at a bar right now and a short bald guy trying his luck, but fail miserably , I can see the rejection, it's paintfull , I'm nw2 no one can tell I'm balding yet I'm misrable, can't even connect.

A bar is a horrible place for a non-aesthetic guy to try his confidence skills. You basically have to get beyond a womans natural barriers. She has to see you in action so to speak. Someone gave the (sound I think) advice to pick activities/jobs where there are lots of women around, and they can observe you in your element.

In a bar, a woman has to make a snap judgement, and it wont be favorable if you are not pretty.