Would you care about your hair so much if you were married?

[Guest]

only that it implies I ever argued with that in the first place.

what else could be implied by it? every post of yours concerning relationships focuses on assigning some arbitrary rating scale of women's appearances. if that isn't the only thing you focus on in women, it's certainly close to it.

and it's not meant to be insulting so please don't take it that way, college. a lot of guys do think like you.

 

[Guest]

if fact, i think women prefer guys their own height, but they want men with bigger penises, which tall guys tend to have, and that out weighs the equal height wish

Penis size is almost entirely unrelated to height; hand, feet or nose size; or any of the other things you might have heard. Penis size is sort of like nose size -- there are many very tall men with small noses and very short men with enormous ones. In reality, penis size is even less related to height than noses are. Size is determined purely by individual hereditary factors.

 

[Thinning]

Whoa settle down. Your post was incredibly rude and vulgar and you should consider deleting it. Where did I say 5'6 " 130 is fat? I simply asked if you considered that fat. Did you read that or just skim and see that and start frothing?

And yes you may have everything going for you in life, except hair. That's the key. Some people may have everything going for them in life, except slimness.

I saw your post about how you used to pull in all kinds of hot women with hair and now you have to settle for a cut girlfriend. Me thinks that's your fault and not your hair's fault. Anyway, maybe you should have started treatment earlier. Maybe you should have been born with better genes.

If making fun of fat people for their situation makes you feel better about your own, then keep at it I guess. But a boost in self-confidence may be better for your overall well-being.

And I say this as someone with almost a full head of hair and just about everything else going for me as well.

I dont want anybody elses genes, Im 6'1, very athletic, have a great career, wealthy family, Im more gifted than almost everyone I know. You wish you had my genes, lol. I just want a full head of hair.

BTW I started treatment when I was 20 years old, thats why Im a Norwood 2.5 at age 35. So maybe you shouldent assume so much, because you dont have a clue what you are talking about.

And where have I been making fun of anybody? Im just speaking the truth, and if it hurts than too bad.

 

[Thinning]

if fact, i think women prefer guys their own height, but they want men with bigger penises, which tall guys tend to have, and that out weighs the equal height wish

Penis size is almost entirely unrelated to height; hand, feet or nose size; or any of the other things you might have heard. Penis size is sort of like nose size -- there are many very tall men with small noses and very short men with enormous ones. In reality, penis size is even less related to height than noses are. Size is determined purely by individual hereditary factors.

Hey could you homos keep your penis talk off the board? Go to some gay site if you wanna trade pics of your dicks you weirdos, lol.

 

[Guest]

if fact, i think women prefer guys their own height, but they want men with bigger penises, which tall guys tend to have, and that out weighs the equal height wish

Penis size is almost entirely unrelated to height; hand, feet or nose size; or any of the other things you might have heard. Penis size is sort of like nose size -- there are many very tall men with small noses and very short men with enormous ones. In reality, penis size is even less related to height than noses are. Size is determined purely by individual hereditary factors.

Hey could you homos keep your penis talk off the board? Go to some gay site if you wanna trade pics of your dicks you weirdos, lol.

Hahahahhahahahahahah so funny. Does that make you feel more masculine to talk like that?

 

[Guest]

I dont want anybody elses genes, Im 6'1, very athletic, have a great career, wealthy family, Im more gifted than almost everyone I know. You wish you had my genes, lol. I just want a full head of hair.

BTW I started treatment when I was 20 years old, thats why Im a Norwood 2.5 at age 35. So maybe you shouldent assume so much, because you dont have a clue what you are talking about.

And where have I been making fun of anybody? Im just speaking the truth, and if it hurts than too bad.

Yes I want your genes lol. Except your hair genes. You're pretty conceited but whatever, this thread has gone a bit off topic.

sometimes people like you make me wish that hair multiplication would never come out. people like you who think they have everything going for them except hair, etc and have to insult others. i would really like to keep that from you.

 

[CCS]

just a reminder to everyone:

JayMan has almost no hairloss. His hair is about 1/4 inch higher than a low teenager hairline.

 

[Guest]

just a reminder to everyone:

JayMan has almost no hairloss. His hair is about 1/4 inch higher than a low teenager hairline.

hey college,

what point are you trying to make? i'm confused. i'm on finasteride to maintain my current level of hair, not to regrow.

but what does my hair have to do with this discussion?

 

[CCS]

Why do you want to maintain your hair? and why are you on this site. After all, "hair loss won't stop you from getting women, nor will any worthwhile women dump you for it. Only your confidence and inside matter." Are you telling use that you are just vain? You wish HM would not come out so that some people could stay bald. What about the other men who you don't see as villains?

I see two reasons for your villafying some people here:
1. They are hurting your confidence by telling you stuff that you don't want to believe, and you are trying to believe something less depressing so you can live happier.
2. You are happy with your current amount of hair, but don't want to believe that any of your success was given to you. You base your self esteem on the believe that you earned everything good in your life. (if you are like many people, you say everything bad either does not matter or is not your fault) When these guys complain that they have real problems they can't do much about, you can't take as much credit for your success, so your defense mechanism is to villafy them.

I could be wrong, but saying you wish HM would not come does show a lot of emotion that must come from somewhere.

I agree that there is no need to attack fat people. And I don't. But the topic of this tread (or am I on a different thread this argument spilled onto?) was some guy saying he wished he was fat instead of bald because at least he could loose weight whereas he can't make his hair grow. That is no jab at fat people. But it is a fact. I'd accept 50 pound for a cure too. I believe we got further off topic from there.

 

[powersam]

i dont really think any of jaymans posts in this thread could really be classed as villification.

 

[HARM1]

Thinning : You really are not that smart. You know, there are people that can not get slim just by holding back on food an runing, their genetics prevent it from them.

 

[Guest]

i dont really think any of jaymans posts in this thread could really be classed as villification.

seriously. i just objected to slandering fat people on here. you'd think that balding people would have empathy for the appearances of other people. apparently some don't.

College:

why do i want to maintain my hair? because i care about my appearance, as does everyone else. it's true that hair loss only matters to superficial women and that confidence and personality matter 10x more than hair.

why am i on this site? because i want to keep my hair and help others do the same.

as for HM, i wish that everyone on here who is a nice and good person like powersam and andrew etc could get it. but if somehow people like thinning and moose weren't eligible, i wouldn't shed a tear. is that mean to say? considering how they act, i don't think so.


and they aren't hurting my confidence at all. as you said, i have most of my hair and should be able to maintain it. no one has ever commented to me that i might be balding and upon my mentioning to them, most say that it's very minor if at all, or that it's in my head. so i don't know why you think i have confidence issues. and if i did they wouldn't stem from my hair.

i don't villify people with problems on here unless they are making fun of other people. if thinning hadn't insulted fat people i would be expressing empathy for his situation.

basically you have me totally misunderstood, and powersam and others on here can attest to that. if you see my posts in the tell your story forum and others you will see that i tell people to get on propecia etc because i want to help them.

and what success of mine are you talking about? the success of being born with genes that are better than some people's on here? luck not success. i've been on propecia a month.

I do object to your relationship and girl advice posts when you did say that you have never been in a relationship, and I've said as much. Your posts regarding those subjects should be taken as pure opinion and should most definitely not be taken as factual

 

[CCS]

ANYONE's opinion should not be taken as factual, whether they have been in a relationship or not. Your opinions from, say 30 relationships cares as much weight as mine from 30 rejections. I have experience, just a different kind. I also have experience looking at who matches up with whom. It is hard to see how hair loss factors in since most bald men where hats all the time. But I have seen that both partners usually look about as good, with 10 or 20 percent being moderately mismatched, but not enough that other factors could not account for it.

I agree that moose does not deserve hair. But I think Thinning's statement that he wish he were fat instead of bald because at least he could lose weight, does not make him a bad person.

Maybe I did not read the whole thread. Would you quote his worst statement for me? I don't want to read the whole thread.

And good work telling all those people to get on finasteride. I just think you should tell the people who have been NW2+ for at least a year with smooth skin below the NW2 reason that finasteride will not regrow hair below the hairline, and that if it has only been 2 years, other combo treatments might, expecially with RU.

 

[Guest]

ANYONE's opinion should not be taken as factual, whether they have been in a relationship or not. Your opinions from, say 30 relationships cares as much weight as mine from 30 rejections. I have experience, just a different kind. I also have experience looking at who matches up with whom. It is hard to see how hair loss factors in since most bald men where hats all the time. But I have seen that both partners usually look about as good, with 10 or 20 percent being moderately mismatched, but not enough that other factors could not account for it.

You're a stats guy so you should know that you need an adequate sample size to make affirmative statements like you do. your own experiences and anecdotes are not even close to being an adequate sample size. it's also possible that your opinions about women and relationships are clouded by your current hair situation and your feelings about it, right?

i do think that the opinion of someone in a relationship discussion who has been in 30 relationships does carry a lot more weight than the opinion of someone who has never been in relationships. how could you even say otherwise?

this is kind of equivalent to you arguing avionics with an aviator while you have read a book on it.

but i haven't been in 30 relationships., but i have been in a few. and the opinion of a person who has been in one carries more weight than the opinion of someone who has been in none. relationships are complex and cannot be learned from a book or an article or observation.

I agree that moose does not deserve hair. But I think Thinning's statement that he wish he were fat instead of bald because at least he could lose weight, does not make him a bad person.

i had no problem with that statement. i have a problem with him making fun of fat people in other posts like he did here:

"When I see fat women I get pissed because all women have to do is be thin and keep themeselves looking nice and men will give them anything they want. What a waste to be such a slave to their appetite that they grow into disgusting proportions and then complain and whine about how nobody wants them."

What was the reason for this post? Oh, there wasn't a point? you don't say.

then he makes posts saying that he doesn't want fat chicks and that's why he cares about keeping his hair. yeah that's really necessary. it's not that hard to look for his posts college, just use the find button in IE or Mozilla and go through the 7 pages he posted on to read them. most of his posts are short. he made some incredibly rude and dumb comments and has made them in other threads as well.

thinning clearly has confidence issues.

And good work telling all those people to get on finasteride. I just think you should tell the people who have been NW2+ for at least a year with smooth skin below the NW2 reason that finasteride will not regrow hair below the hairline, and that if it has only been 2 years, other combo treatments might, expecially with RU.

I'm not going to recommend treatments like RU that haven't been proven to work. I never tell them that finasteride is guaranteed to regrow hair below the hairline. I tell them that it is very possible it will maintain the hairline that they have.

 

[Guest]

Thinning : You really are not that smart. You know, there are people that can not get slim just by holding back on food an runing, their genetics prevent it from them.

yes this is very true. but this post also misses the point. the point is not that you shouldn't make fun of fat people because they can't help it. the point is that you shouldn't make fun of fat people because it's rude and uncalled for. there is no doubt that some fat people can help their current situation, but it's irrelevant. i'm beginning to think that thinning harbors a deep psychological resentment towards fat women. we could explore this further in another thread if he wants.

 

[CCS]

I agree that Thinning's attacks in those quotes on fat people were very off topic and rude, and that the bald fat men on here don't need any extra stuff to be self conscious about when they come to this sight to deal with their feelings about their hair. I usually don't read an entire thread unless I'm looking for a cure. I just post my advice to the original author, or read other's comments if they are interesting people and were the last to post when I look at the right side of the page on the main index.

however, i do think if Thinning has hateful feelings towards some groups, he does need a place to vent, at least in his own thread on "his story" or maybe in the "dealing with hairloss". He just should not insert it randomly in other threads. TheMoose should not be allowed to attack transvestites, only because I don't see how his hairloss could make him hate them. Now if he said he once was a transvestite and had to give it up because he lost his hair, and now he is jelous of them all and hates them, then i think he should be allowed to start his own thread on that, but not be allowed to attack them in other threads.

 

[Guest]

thinning has informed me that he makes over 300k per year. surely he can afford a shrink to help him deal with his hate issues?

and basically you admitted i was right without saying as much.

one thing that i always do is back up what i say. people may disagree but i introduce evidence to support my statements and most of the time i am still standing at the end.

 

[CCS]

I don't think I said he has hate issues. I said it is possible he does, and that either way, he should post his own thread in the right section, and not make of topic statements in other threads.

I was tempted to argue about the percentage of over weight people who can reach a healthy weight, but I chose not to because that would be off topic. It is possible Thinning just took an off topic part of a thread further off topic without thinking it through, or it is possible from his many posts that this is just what he likes to talk about.

I think my posts that balding does affect dating is completely on topic in the threads I posted it, though many people disagree with me.

If you are rick, no woman will tell you she is dating you for your money. So how do you know, whether you are dating her or I am looking at many rich men with girlfriends who look better than they do, what her motive is? If you are bald and have a pretty girlfriend, what makes you so sure you don't also have something else she wants, and it is not just your personality?

Everyone keeps saying that all I want is a PRETTY woman. Well that is not true. I want a woman who is pretty AND has a lot going on the inside. I can already get one how is good on the inside, so of course I'm going to complain about what I don't have. Women don't have to choose between a good looking guy and a guy who is good on the inside. Any chess player is happy to play with another chess player, but just because you think someone looks good does not mean they think you look good. You can aways find people of all appearance levels who have something in common with you, but you can't get a supermodel unless you have one of the non-transitive properties that puts you in that league. Chess likes chess and watches Simpsons-Simpsons are reflexive properties, money and looks are transitive. Pretty women can find other pretty men with their same qualities. Also, unlike the inside, we can see the entire outside right away. Whereas we don't feel pain when someone with something in common with us turn us down because we did not know she had that in common, we know up front that we want the pretty woman, but can't have her. So that is what we complain about, even though it is not the only important thing. Furthermore, many people can satisfy your other commonality needs, but you need a satisfactory person to meet the appearance needs, which are the ones that are not reflexive.

 

[Guest]

ill respond to it better later,

but for now i'll just say that i think the reason thinning makes fun of fat people so much is because it makes him feel better about himself and his own situation. i really think it's as simple as that.

 

[shh5455]

My thread has been hijacked. :cry: