Yet another reality check

[JZA70]

Thanks... But still having no hair seems to be a huge turn off

I'm not going to argue that. Hair loss is a turn off no matter how good looking you are.

Even good looking guys like Zidane and Ljungberg probably still get rejected just because of their balding, especially if they weren't famous footballers.

There's a lot of women out there that won't even consider you if you're balding, no matter how good looking you are. That's the sad reality.

You look very masculine but a lot of women these days like feminine gay faced twinks.

 

[Scalpology]

Thanks... But still having no hair seems to be a huge turn off, I hear a lot of people saying that I don't look bad, but never from the people I would like to date (no offense ). I'm guessing that girls think along the lines of 'oh he looks alright, but I don't think I could date him'.

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Not really... I do have a few girls talking to me but they are 3s and 4s. I think that picture lies a bit, because you can't see the back of my head, where the horseshoe line is visible, and also the picture was taken by professionals, with a high resolution camera and good lighting.

In any case, I believe that baldness is an issue by itself, independently of looks. Guys tend to rate me higher, which might be the reason why most deny the unattractiveness of baldness; it's something that seems to be more inside the head of women.

So are you incel or do you get laid?

 

[bald29]

So are you incel or do you get laid?

Incel I would say, but just because I don't want to bang 3s or 4s. Getting laid is easy, the impossible task for me while bald is to sleep with the hotties.

 

[resu]

All of you look a lot more manlier than me, the struggle is real if even you guys get automatically rejected.

 

[SayifDoit]

I used to look like a male model when I had hair, as you can see it's nicely cut and highlighted. Now I look like genetic dawg sh1t at the age of 22.

Christ man your hair is godly hah...
It looks so dense, your forehead is like miniature aswell.
You'll probaly be repeating yourself but I would love to know the background of male pattern baldness in your family and how you actualyl started loosing it..

 

[JZA70]

Christ man your hair is godly hah...
It looks so dense, your forehead is like miniature aswell.
You'll probaly be repeating yourself but I would love to know the background of male pattern baldness in your family and how you actualyl started loosing it..

Ugh should've never posted that pic, kills me reading some of these replies.

My hair was godly. Quite simply, the only person that lost hair in my family was my moms dad, that's it. Both her brothers got out fine and my dad is fine.

I started diffuse thinning about 19-20, never noticed it until half the hair was gone. Asked mom if anyone in her family was bald, yeap her dad lost his hair young too.

I was SO f*cking close to living a good life, it kills me everyday thinking about what my life would have been like if it weren't for this sh1t.

 

[CaptainForehead]

I used to look like a male model when I had hair, as you can see it's nicely cut and highlighted. Now I look like genetic dawg sh1t at the age of 22.

Damn, that explains the anger. If it's any consolation, UCMan was even better looking. You have a manly chin, doesnt the bald look suit you?

 

[JZA70]

You have a manly chin, doesnt the bald look suit you?

Not sure, wouldn't wanna rock the look even I could pull it off.

Curious to see pics of UCMan. Might explain why he's so depressed.

 

[CaptainForehead]

He had posted an old pic of him with hair. Someone might have the link.

 

[Scalpology]

I was shocked to hear you only approached 3 girls. WOW! Are all men so high inhibition? Well, that's good news for me then, less competition. I've approached in the hundreds I think. Never done online dating, only damaged goods there (fatties, mommies, uggos). Legit sexy bimbos only drive around in their Cayennes or equivalent cars. That's the aim!

I'm starting to realise that 90% of men are shy/anxious and betas in heart. Even if they drive M3 or M6 series BMW. They think like unfortunate ER that girls should approach them, but when they actually see a bimbo hotty with hourglass body and DSL's they freeze like losers and fail to start a conversation.

Heh

 

[Scalpology]

Only one single date with an architect girls who later told me she wouldn't date a man who does not own a car and is losing his hair.

Sometimes not owning a car is BETTER than owning one. If I don't own one, I say I drive Taxi's everywhere or that I don't need a car.

If you own a **** car (non-luxury, older than 2010) it officially means that you are poor/beta. So if you can't afford a newer BMW, Porsche or Audi, or something, then don't buy anything at all.

I'm currently actively researching and looking for what would be the best pussy magnet car. So far I think it has to be white, relatively new and some of the German or Italian brands. Any suggestions?

What is your ROI with your hundreds of approaches Scalpology? If you don't mind me asking.

1 gf.

And there are not only damaged good online, because 99% of girls are on dating websites (Yes Facebook counts as a dating website). Unless you consider 99% of women are damaged goods.

Well, not 99%, but most of them are. And the ones who are fine are there just for needy beta attention.

I've read that even the best players in the world (Krauser for example) who only do that only get like 2% of success approaching women.

The problem with these ***gots is that none of them are truly ripped or look like Jeremy Meeks. If you play the approach game you can't look like a polite businessman or some hipster or some common ***, you have to look like a zero inhibition gangsta with a deathwish. Something that she'd imagine seeing only in a movie. That's what gets the bimbo pussies wet. You have to actually believe you are better than all the other men, even rich ones, and to truly believe that you have to be better. You have to have zero inhibition, no stuttering, ability to kiss her on the spot, rape if necessary. That means face of Jeremy Meeks, body of Gleg Pitt, style of Columbian drug lords or Yakuza. Girls dream of such sexy strangers, but pretty no man can pull it off.

Being ripped is an absolute requirement. She must see you have basis for your confidence, otherwise she will realise you're trying some cheesy pickup ****. If she sees a ripped alpha with a masculine face, she will assume that the said alpha assumes she is in his league.

 

[DoctorHouse]

If you don't have competence, you can never be confident. Once you gain competence you will achieve confidence. Women like competence and if you don't have that, your confidence will never help you. Ponder on that one now my young grasshoppers.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Interesting Fred, I would have thought you would get less success online, as looks are the top thing in an online profile, as opposed to face to face where you can use your personality.

 

[JZA70]

So if you can't afford a newer BMW, Porsche or Audi, or something, then don't buy anything at all.

I always get a kick out of young losers who buy POS BMW's & Audis worth 5 grand and drive around like they're hot sh1t.

If you're not rich then don't act like it. You haven't earned the right to be praised by society.

Lol @ people putting themselves in decades of debt just to be something they're not.

 

[aero1976]

If you're not rich then don't act like it. You haven't earned the right to be praised by society.

Hate to break it to you but "society" doesn't give a crap if you are rich or poor. Once you drive by in your Porsche they have already forgot about you if they even noticed you for that moment.

 

[JZA70]

Hate to break it to you but "society" doesn't give a crap if you are rich or poor. Once you drive by in your Porsche they have already forgot about you if they even noticed you for that moment.

Hate to break it to you but society DOES care if you're rich or poor. That's almost as blue pill as telling me society doesn't care what you look like as long as you have a good personality. Looks, money & status. You're judged on your looks, you're judged on your income, and you're judged on who you are, if anyone to society.

Ever see those videos on YouTube where a guy try's to pick up a girl in a POS car and get's turned down than comes back a few minutes later in a Lamborghini and the girl gets in. Why did she turn down the guy in the POS car but go with the guy in the nice car ?

Money is one of the key components that dictate your social worth and how society will judge you. Yes, it may only be for a second while you drive by, but never the less it's still a key factor.

 

[aero1976]

How about the guy in the Ferrari on YouTube who couldn't pick up a girl. The only people in society who care about you do not care what your hair looks like. THE REST JUST DONT GIVE YOU A THOUGHT. Sorry to break it to you.

 

[JZA70]

How about the guy in the Ferrari on YouTube who couldn't pick up a girl. The only people in society who care about you do not care what your hair looks like. THE REST JUST DONT GIVE YOU A THOUGHT. Sorry to break it to you.

Sounds like you pulled the delusional ignorance card. I don't get where you're going with this..

 

[aero1976]

No, maybe the more enlightened card with age. 99% of women don't care what you drive and most only require an average income. You are condemning everyone with no money. Thats why I spoke up. I believe you are misinformed.

 

[JZA70]

No, maybe the more enlightened card with age. 99% of women don't care what you drive and most only require an average income.

Owning a nice car, for the most part, is a representation of how wealthy you are, and a lot of the time a high status is also assumed.

I know a handful of people personally between the age of 20-25 that have loans on their cars in excess of 30-40k. Their monthly payments are VERY expensive and the payment terms are even worse, some of them being 8 years long.

Now you have to ask yourself, why would these people put themselves so far in debt for a nice car if society didn't care ?