everyone here seems to believe they would be banging models day and night if they were not bald/balding
Hey something we agree on.
In the end I know only what Ive done compared to what I do. I used to attract MUCH hotter women. Now I barely get looks. Its not confidence because honestly I always have the same expression on my face and still do the same "eye contact and smile" when interested. Only difference is now they reach in their purse for possible mace.
I highly doubt half the guys here would be doing better since most talk how they never really attracted women. Ill say if Ex was bald early in life like 16 yes he was screwed because NO girl under 30 was going to pursue him. On top of that the ultimate hits to his self esteem (not confidence) would have seriously planted the thought that no one ever would find him acceptable. I think he needs to get a job and/or a degree. In the end being int he house playing video games after 30 bald or not is not good. He is not getting younger and by the time he hits an age where the hairloss is not as big an issue things like past experiences, income, and ownership will.
I think his BEST option is to actually get a couple hot escorts. He needs to
1) get the initial bust out of him to ease his anxiety
2) get the virginity scare released so when he does meet a girl he is not jumping in blind
Sorry Ex not meaning to talk like you're not here but Ive said this before. Crap Ill bet if you tell them youre losing your V theyll cut you a MASSIVE deal.
In the end back to topic, most guys would probably get "better" than what they are but NOT models. I know I used to get really good looking women, now I dont and can NOT bring myself to take a fat girl simply because I am losing my hair. In the same sense though I dont expect a girl to be any less shallow than me, so I always say I dont hate THEM I hate my circumstances. I hate my parents for knowingly creating a less than optimal specimen and hate myself for giving a schit.
Whats odd is back when I WAS good looking I WOULD actually hit it up with less than attractive girls, but it was because it wasn't work. There was NO effort. I was not a womanizer but hey they wanted a good looking guy to fool/walk around with and I wanted easy sex. Now I don't think I could do the same because now it would take work and the pay off would not be worth the investment.