Balding guys just cant catch breaks

[WorldofWarcraft]

I'm actually going to agree with Neo1234 That was a good post.

Taug what type of people do you want to be hanging out with? (let me guess) the coolest most popular guys, the most good looking girls?
Well its unlikely that they will accept you straight into their group from nowhere. You need to find just one average guy as a freind and from then on you will eventually get introduced to his circle of freinds and the people he knows etc...
Thats the way it works. :wink: I see so many new people who start work at my place they come from another area and dont know anybody but they just act freindly and get talking to other people and in just a few weeks they have made loads of new freinds. Most people have no problems making new freinds this way, if you're shy it may be a little more difficult but you've just got to take the initiative and do it!

Your post is freakin gay. Who the hell bases their friendships on how good looking their friends are? Get an average looking friend and then move up to better looking ones? LOL

Guess what. Hanging out with cool people doesn't make you cool. Being cool yourself makes you cool. This isn't highschool. People don't base your coolness on your circle of friends. You gotta be cool on your own.

I would never hang out with you. That would be boring hanging out with some guy who only wants to hang out with me based on my looks, and will trade me in for a more handsome friend in the future.

Finding a true friend is difficult as an adult because everyone has jobs and lives. This isn't elementry school were you can hang out at your friends mom's house all day after school.

You need to get a hobby to find friends. As a musician, I meet crap-loads of people. Moreover, you gotta take the first step and say hi. Most people are flattered if you come up and talk to them, becuase it is a way of saying you think they are cool and that is why you are talking to them.

Now a true friend, one that looks out for you, would help you out in a time of need, those are very very very hard to find. Good luck with that.

 

[Guest]

i'm not lighthearted about it at all. i was actually making fun of both the guys who claim hair loss is life ending(taug) and the guys who claim it doesnt matter at all(blondeguy). they're both stupid extremes to live at.

I don't think it's a stupid extreme to not obsess over hair loss every day. It hasn't mattered at all in my personal experience, and based on your posts it hasn't mattered in yours, either.

come on now blondeguy. your position is more than not obsessing. that's my position- to not obsess over it every day. your position is ridiculous because you claim that very few girls dislike baldness and very few girls would pick a guy with hair over an almost identical guy when the only difference is that the latter guy is bald. that is ridiculous. sure, it's just one part of the equation, but to deny that it is a negative is to deny the truth. if shaved heads were really preferable to longer/full heads of hair then a lot more guys would be sporting them for reasons other than the fact that they are going bald.


now you can dismiss the importance of head shape all you want. i happen to think that i have a decent shaped skull for a shaved head, or a buzz, but i think that I look BETTER with long hair, and everyone except my now-ex girlfriend told me that. She was the only one who preferred the buzz on me when we were together so of course I let it grow it again. But most people look better with hair to frame their face, length regardless. The hairline is so important because it frames the face. people look at the hairline first when they look at the hair, and if it's non existent because of a horseshoe, it does hurt. and it's damned near impossible to keep your head shaved close enough all the time to prevent stubble from appearing and revealing the location of your hairline. most guys would have to do it at least twice a day, and who the hell has time for that or would even want to?

 

[roki]

I'm actually going to agree with Neo1234 That was a good post.

Taug what type of people do you want to be hanging out with? (let me guess) the coolest most popular guys, the most good looking girls?
Well its unlikely that they will accept you straight into their group from nowhere. You need to find just one average guy as a freind and from then on you will eventually get introduced to his circle of freinds and the people he knows etc...
Thats the way it works. :wink: I see so many new people who start work at my place they come from another area and dont know anybody but they just act freindly and get talking to other people and in just a few weeks they have made loads of new freinds. Most people have no problems making new freinds this way, if you're shy it may be a little more difficult but you've just got to take the initiative and do it!

Your post is freakin gay. Who the hell bases their friendships on how good looking their friends are? Get an average looking friend and then move up to better looking ones? LOL

Guess what. Hanging out with cool people doesn't make you cool. Being cool yourself makes you cool. This isn't highschool. People don't base your coolness on your circle of friends. You gotta be cool on your own.

I would never hang out with you. That would be boring hanging out with some guy who only wants to hang out with me based on my looks, and will trade me in for a more handsome friend in the future.

Finding a true friend is difficult as an adult because everyone has jobs and lives. This isn't elementry school were you can hang out at your friends mom's house all day after school.

You need to get a hobby to find friends. As a musician, I meet crap-loads of people. Moreover, you gotta take the first step and say hi. Most people are flattered if you come up and talk to them, becuase it is a way of saying you think they are cool and that is why you are talking to them.

Now a true friend, one that looks out for you, would help you out in a time of need, those are very very very hard to find. Good luck with that.

you got him all wrong , that's not what he ment re read it or something

 

[s.a.f]

I'm actually going to agree with Neo1234 That was a good post.

Taug what type of people do you want to be hanging out with? (let me guess) the coolest most popular guys, the most good looking girls?
Well its unlikely that they will accept you straight into their group from nowhere. You need to find just one average guy as a freind and from then on you will eventually get introduced to his circle of freinds and the people he knows etc...
Thats the way it works. :wink: I see so many new people who start work at my place they come from another area and dont know anybody but they just act freindly and get talking to other people and in just a few weeks they have made loads of new freinds. Most people have no problems making new freinds this way, if you're shy it may be a little more difficult but you've just got to take the initiative and do it!

Your post is freakin gay. Who the hell bases their friendships on how good looking their friends are? Get an average looking friend and then move up to better looking ones? LOL

Guess what. Hanging out with cool people doesn't make you cool. Being cool yourself makes you cool. This isn't highschool. People don't base your coolness on your circle of friends. You gotta be cool on your own.

I would never hang out with you. That would be boring hanging out with some guy who only wants to hang out with me based on my looks, and will trade me in for a more handsome friend in the future.

Finding a true friend is difficult as an adult because everyone has jobs and lives. This isn't elementry school were you can hang out at your friends mom's house all day after school.

You need to get a hobby to find friends. As a musician, I meet crap-loads of people. Moreover, you gotta take the first step and say hi. Most people are flattered if you come up and talk to them, becuase it is a way of saying you think they are cool and that is why you are talking to them.

Now a true friend, one that looks out for you, would help you out in a time of need, those are very very very hard to find. Good luck with that.

Looks like you totally misread my post! :-x
Where exactly did I say that people choose their freinds on how they look?
And where did I say get an average looking one and trade up to a good looking one? :roll:
I just presumed that whereas Taug has high standards in seemingly everything like looks and hair he'd also have high standards when it came to freinds and only be interested in the cool crowd.
Ps its much easier to make freinds as an adult because grown ups have better developed social skills.

 

[MSFB]

girls always have friends who are roughly the same 'good lookingness' as themselves. ive never ever seen a proper fit girl hanging out with a bunch of butters ones, and i never will.
we actually learned about this breifly in my psychology class, its called 'the matching hypothesis'.

now what has any of that got to do with male pattern baldness.

 

[Guest]

Looks do not come into it, maybe people are more attracted to good looking people on a subconscious level. (infact I'm sure this is true) but 99% of people are not that shallow that they would ignore somebody who they did'nt think was attractive. Maybe its the fact that you've been a loner/hermit for so long that people think you dont want to be sociable. If you had a job working with other people they'd have to talk and interact with you, I dont understand how you've managed to go to uni for so long without interacting with the other students.

I don´t understand that either. It is really strange and makes me feel like a freak even more. And yes, I am a loner, but how did I become a loner? Because I have no friends.....And I don´t have high standards for eventual friends. They should be cooler than me(shouldn´t be too difficult considering I am 25 year old virgin......) and not a nerd or something.

 

[WorldofWarcraft]

They should be cooler than me(shouldn´t be too difficult considering I am 25 year old virgin......) and not a nerd or something.

Listen, you can't be picky if you have no friends. You sound like a girl that won't date a bald guyl

 

[roki]

i wouldnt date a bald girl