It really amazes me that - apparently - a lot of men don't care about hairloss. Clearly Rogain is nearly worthless, but there is real value in dht blockers like finasteride and dutasteride; if there wasn't such (unfounded) concern about sides, millions of men could keep so much more of their hair.
I have, all my life, heard men say and unironically spell out that "looks don't matter for men."
They honestly believe that when it comes to the male gender, no one cares if you're fat, bald, excessively hairy, patchy facial hair, poorly-dressed and have bad hygiene. A guy I went to highschool with recently admitted publicly on facebook that he doesn't brush his teeth and "never had any trouble with the ladies" and he is now married to a 300lb+ woman. I asked what he would do if he started going bald and he literally said, "My family grows wicked receding hairlines!" Looool, no they don't.
When I started to really give a sh*t about my appearance to the point of total vanity in my late teens, it changed my life dramatically and most of it revolved around my hair. I cut it, got my teeth fixed up, started wearing better clothes and I got every job I was interviewed for (I've never NOT been hired since), I didn't get asked if I sold weed, and the kinds of girls I previously lusted over in the shadows were sitting down beside me in my college classes striking up conversation and going on dates.
Hairloss was always one of my worst fears and I never imagined it would start happening to me at 24, and fast if I didn't do something about. I was always aware of how balding men were generally seen as less attractive, negatively stereotyped, and I just hate the look, myself.
So it was a tremendous kick in the balls to see the rewards and self satisfaction of all my efforts to improve my appearance threatened to be undone by nature...