Hi, while I get the gist of what you are saying, there's a slightly exaggerated misconception with the categories you have come up with,
consumers who don't have a vested interest in a product will largely be Indifferent (roughly what you explain as category 3),
While there may be people who fit into your first 2 categories on a whole they will be few and far between, so saying that they, ''make up the vast majority of people on this subject'', seems a bit of an overstatement, While people Taking finasteride to keep their hair sounds largely rational, I'm not sure about the notion that they are all somehow '' defending finasteride to the death regardless of any evidence that it is not safe''
I don't think you are in an awkward position, you may have misread the general consensus though, by being influenced by the likes of forums and youtube
I like the guy's channel, but he tends to comes across as having borderline body dysmorphia, he openly mocks the excessive's he goes to,
''Death Star Delts'' so large he can no longer raise his arms and stay afloat while working as a lifeguard, for example.
He also mentions his trial and error steroid use would have likely accelerated his hair loss, which is why he originally became interested in the subject in the first place, So while I agree his channel is entertaining and he makes good content, to a large percentage of people on planet earth, his lifestyle choice of steroid Abuse, Bulking up until you can't move and then combating his hair loss with Finasteride, RU, and Microneedling until his head bleeds is also fairly bonkers.