I wouldn't say i'm a closet transgenger, but rather i don't really care about sex or my gender as long as life is enjoyable, considering the fact we are only allowed to exist for a short time before we disappear forever, so losing my libido is no big deal that i would fuss about. Alot of men on here (on this forum) are pretty dumb like you said, complaining about a bit of libido loss and choosing to stay bald because they are scared lol, but for me personally baldness is worse than cancer, because it's an ongoing 'disease'? that affects your quality of life and the amount of enjoyment/peace you can get out of it, only that the suffering is prolonged due to the fact that it's not fatal. Actually there is a theory that balding is linked to heart disease and possibly that could be a big reason spironolactone works so well since it's used to treat /heart failure aswell. It's possible, but the heart must play a role in hairloss too. It's said that thinning hair is an early sign of pre heart disease.