I only care what I think.
You talk about HRT as if this decision has some kind of moral and ethical overtones. But in terms of moral assessment, the decision to take HRT is the same as the decision to get braces or undergo plastic surgery. That you stigmatize any of this is your personal problem, not mine.
I like the perspective of non-binary people who see estrogen and testosterone as hormones that allow you to look a certain way based on how you want it to look. But you treat HRT as if it is the most life-changing thing in the world.
And anyone who does not agree with your primitive view of things is subject to accusations of abnormality, mental illness, and so on.