Guys My Exgirlfriend Is Chad's Cumdumpster Now.

[INT]

A bunch of superficial guys blaming Girls for being superficial.
If you want to have woman, you need a healthy mindset. And if you rate woman just by their looks, you will always end up with woman rating you the same way.
As a Girl I would also not date a woman- and society hating incel.

If you wanna Bang a 9/10 from Tinder you need to be a Chad for Sure, but if you just want a solid girl in your life, you don't need to be the perfect guy like the top 10% of man.

Let's see if anyone is able to reply to this without using terms like cuck, beta, blue-pilled, chad.

 

[Me Vs DiffuseThinning]

A bunch of superficial guys blaming Girls for being superficial.
If you want to have woman, you need a healthy mindset. And if you rate woman just by their looks, you will always end up with woman rating you the same way.
As a Girl I would also not date a woman- and society hating incel.

If you wanna Bang a 9/10 from Tinder you need to be a Chad for Sure, but if you just want a solid girl in your life, you don't need to be the perfect guy like the top 10% of man.

All solid girls believe that they deserve Chad now.

 

[INT]

All solid girls believe that they deserve Chad now.

Incel narrative based on a useless dating website study.

 

[OneDay_NW0]

All solid girls believe that they deserve Chad now.

Do you have some woman as friends? Do they all have Chads as Boyfriends?

Man, even with a good sense of humour alone you're a good catch for a lot of girls.

 

[Me Vs DiffuseThinning]

Incel narrative based on a useless dating website study.

That dating website just happens to be the top dating website for college aged girls in all cities.

 

[Me Vs DiffuseThinning]

Do you have some woman as friends? Do they all have Chads as Boyfriends?

Man, even with a good sense of humour alone you're a good catch for a lot of girls.

I wish you were right man. But everywhere i look in my city, I just see guys dating below, and woman dating up. I don't see any looksmatch couples.

 

[OneDay_NW0]

sure...

 

[INT]

That dating website just happens to be the top dating website for college aged girls in all cities.

Not all women are college aged girls. Not all women are on that dating website, or on dating sites in general.

 

[Me Vs DiffuseThinning]

Not all women are college aged girls. Not all women are on that dating website, or on dating sites in general.

I'm in my mid 20s. I have no interest in women that are older than me....

 

[OneDay_NW0]

Just take a pic in tanktop at the gym and a pic with a strangers cat and a random pic showing you have a social life and you'll have some matches.
But I know, that works for every place in the world except your witched hometown and it's absolutly not your fault or because you look like sh*t an a tanktop.

 

[INT]

I'm in my mid 20s. I have no interest in women that are older than me....

How about my other point?

 

[Me Vs DiffuseThinning]

Just take a pic in tanktop at the gym and a pic with a strangers cat and a random pic showing you have a social life and you'll have some matches.
But I know, that works for every place in the world except your witched hometown and it's absolutly not your fault or because you look like sh*t an a tanktop.

I would bro, but I'm bald as f***. Chicks are more okay with older guys being bald as they have already settled into life and have their sh*t together.

 

[itsjustsimon]

Just take a pic in tanktop at the gym and a pic with a strangers cat and a random pic showing you have a social life and you'll have some matches.
But I know, that works for every place in the world except your witched hometown and it's absolutly not your fault or because you look like sh*t an a tanktop.

Yeah dude, a couple of days ago I saw Tinder profile of 4/10. She had 1500 matches in a couple of weeks and said to me she was very picky. She is from a small town in eastern Europe where you can swipe every girl on Tinder in a couple of hours.

Chiks on instagram are even worse. Another girl that I was dating a couple of weeks ago said to me that she uses likes as "signals" she is available. No sh*t, just heard from straight from the horse's mouth.

Been PUA for a couple of years and seen at all. Can't unsee this sh*t, sometimes I would like to think like you but I just can't and never will again.

Dating sux in 2019, thanks to social media. Women are cold af nowadays because they have millions of options at their fingertips. Maybe there are some unicors but I don't meet them often, like... never.

 

[Rudi]

Don't fall for this incel broscience

This place surprises me more and more.
Its just stupid being on Tinder etc.

I prefer to go out in real life. Ok, I live in a prime holiday region (winter and summer tourism). Its pumping in the bars. In the end of the day the gender ratio is roughly equal thus I do not understand the complaints here.
Its no secret that women get contacted by virtually every guy within a radius of 50km. Obviously is this an ego boost. A normal girls feels like a princess and thus expects a prince. But she won't get one. These women find real nightlife frustrating...guys, for obvious reasons.
Don't feed their egos!!

Delete Tinder, go out and see what happens. When a woman tells you she is on Instagram or Tinder wish her a nice evening and walk away.
There is a lid for every pot!

PS. Joyclub is an exception

 

[OneDay_NW0]

I would bro, but I'm bald as f***. Chicks are more okay with older guys being bald as they have already settled into life and have their sh*t together.

Ok, if you wanna pimp your look, do the following:

pimp up your teeth with crest 3D
pimp up your jawline with 'mewing' and mastic gum/falim gum
pimp up your body with serious training and eating
if you wanna boost it, take testosterone ( you can get it with doctor prescription)
pimp your beard (and eyebrows) with minoxidil (works much better than on head)
get adult-clothes (if you're insecure ask a woman to go shopping with you)

And pimp up your mind with those books you hated to read at school (and other of those books for bragging). Stop masturbating 10 times a day and do your homework instead, so you can tell the girls you're a serious student and will end up studying one day (instead of those 100 years students).
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Or stay the same and blame society...
I started the whole list 2 years ago and it was the best decision of my life. Of course I am still looking for actual hair-researches because I would take hair, if something interesting arrives the market. But I would also get some cool wings to fly, If I had the choice.

 

[Moosey]

All solid girls believe that they deserve Chad now.

Maybe its because we live in different countries, but i almost always see women dating less attractive men, even the very hot ones.
I have a average looking 23 year old virgin friend who hasnt asked out a single woman in his entire life and shows absolutely zero signs of alpha behaviour.
We both worked some labour job at a big company with other students. There was a girl there who is literally a 9/10. 8/10 face, beautiful hair, and literal 10/10 body. My friend did nothing extraordinary. They just talked some at work, got friends and all 3 of us started hanging out, drinking etc.
This lasted for 6 months where my friend showed lots of cuck behaviour towards her.
Fast forward 2 months more (8 months in total), she dumped her 6'6" successfull chad boyfriend for my 23 years old, shy, submissive virgin friend.
How did my average-looking, virgin friend do that? He didnt do anything. He was just being nice to her and thats it.
Am i saying thats how the world works? No. Im saying that not all women are evil superficial creatures, and that you can have a nice, pretty or even hot girlfriend without being a chad of having lots of money. Some, or even many women like nice people. People can actually fall in love with your personality, believe it or not. "Hur its an exception one in a million durr" yadda yadda: No. I see this all the time. The biggest pussy slayer in my friends circle is 5'7". One of my best looking mates is a 24 year old virgin. One of the hottest girls in my friends circle had only one boyfriend in her life and he was some average looking joe as well.
The world isnt black and white. Everyone is different. If you only pursue superficial b****s and take tinder as a measurement for real life, then thats all you are going to get. Is this only one side of the story? Obviously. When i was on steroids, i didnt even need to lift a finger and the girls would come to me. Now im off cycle and stopped lifting and i get no attention from women anymore. Thats the other side of the story.


Do you need the ability to attract and f*** every woman in the world? You are never going to be satisfied.
Are you happy with finding a nice and pretty girlfriend you love? Easy, you just need to go out and search some. Meet people, open up to them and maybe things are going to work out. Its not really not that f*****g hard.
But of course, you can just stay at home and complain about the dating scene on a hairloss forum. Thats much easier

 

[Rumspringa!]

I thought this was a forum to talk about current and upcoming treatments for hairloss, not indulge "incel/chad/stacey" bullshit. There has never, in the history of mankind been an easier time to meet people and/or get laid. If youre not taking advantage of that then you have noone to blame but yourself.
And if youre really hopeless at home, go travel the world, you'll be surprised all the amazing people you'll meet.

 

[INT]

Nice, feel good stories and anecdotes. Yet all the data suggest otherwise:

A man's personality only matters to a woman if he meets her basic looks cutoff first
Fugère et al. (2017) conducted a study examining the mate preferences of (n=80) women and their mothers.

The women and their mothers were presented with three color photographs of three different Caucasian males varying in physical attractiveness, together with one of three trait profiles which varied on traits commonly reported by women in previous research as desirable in a male partner (i.e: kind, funny, caring, industrious, dependable, mature etc.).

Each man's photograph (unattractive, moderately attractive, attractive) were paired with the varying trait profiles mentioned above, with the profiles being manipulated to vary in desirability.

The women rated the photos and profiles on desirability based on three questions: "how attractive do you find this person," "how favorably do you rate his personal description," and "how desirable would you find this person as a dating partner for yourself", on a 1-7 scale of desirability with the mothers rating the photographs and profiles on their level of desirability as a potential partner for their daughters.

It was found that physical attractiveness was more strongly correlated to the women's ratings of desirability for the men then their personality profiles (with the mothers being less selective on looks then their daughters, except when it came to unattractive men,) and that a certain level of attractiveness was seen as a 'necessity' for both the young women and their mothers.

Quotes:

• Regardless of the trait profiles associated with the target photographs, the attractive and moderately attractive men were rated as having more favorable personalities than the unattractive man.
• These finding suggest that when offspring or their parents rate physical attractiveness as less important than other traits, respondents assume that potential mates will possess a minimally acceptable level of physical attractiveness.
• Because of the positive association between attractiveness and pleasing personalities, it may be that we not only expect attractive others to have more favorable personality characteristics but that we also expect those with more favorable characteristics to possess at least a minimally acceptable level of physical attractiveness.
• Although personality ratings impacted mothers’ perceptions of the target men more so than daughters’, personality ratings were strongly influenced by men’s physical attractiveness.

References:

• https://www.springer.com/gp/about-s...han-personality-when-choosing-a-man-/12197284

A study with 80 participants... Also if you look at the research you get the impression that this is just a Bachelor thesis. Also a written description of someone's personality cannot be compared to actually meeting someone.

 

[Ikarus]

After seeing how thirsty the men are on this website for a girlfriend, I am glad my libido is non-existent... Although, I sometimes do wish I had a boyfriend (I can’t stop watching movies about relationships!), I’m not desperate and I would much rather let the universe take its lead.

 

[INT]

You're right this shouldn't be in this section.

But despite being "the easiest era in the history of mankind to get laid", young men are getting "laid" less and less. Below isn't some "incel' study, this is legit.

Celibacy in young unmarried US men is now 28% and rising, particularly affecting ethnic men
The best information we have to judge trends of celibacy in North America comes from the NORC GSS, more fully known as the National Organization for Research at the University of Chicago General Social Survey. This is a long running social survey in America which every two years asks a representative group of thousands of Americans questions to gauge numerous aspects about their lives.

One particular area of questioning surrounds sexual relationships. The NORC GSS data has provided some of the most striking signs that celibacy, and in particular male celibacy is skyrocketing in recent years. In fact, male celibacy overall is now at 28%, which is almost triple what it was a decade ago.

The biggest cultural shift that has coincided with this increase in male celibacy is the rise and dominance of online dating, and given the studies referenced above, the effect it is having should be no surprise. However, the trend of increasing male celibacy started even since the 60s according to other data, indicating the sexual revolution which freed women's hypergamy may have been the first step in this direction.

The majority of increased celibacy is being born by ethnic men, while ethnic women by contrast are at their lowest rates of celibacy in history. This trend matches the known racial data covered above, where ethnic men are punished by women in a way that ethnic women are not punished by men.

Interestingly, overall, female celibacy also seems to be rising indicating many women are now dropping out of the dating market altogether. This is represented also by the small proportion of online dating users who are female.

If trends continue without a new cultural shift to compensate, it may well be that America begins to resemble Japan, where >40% of young unmarried men and women are not only not in relationships, but they are virgins.

Figures:

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NORC GSS celibacy rates as graphed by Washington Post (image being used as temporary placeholder - will be replaced in a few days -July 13, 2019)
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NORC GSS celibacy rates by race as graphed by SpottedToad, showing the largest increase in celibacy is being encountered among ethnic men, which should be no surprise in the context of other studies (image being used as temporary placeholder - will be replaced in a few days -July 13, 2019)
References:

• https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/aug/02/less-sex-please-were-millennials-study

Just because there are more celibate men (and women) does not mean that that is due to dating now being more difficult. It is just that the traditional dating setting is slowly dying out.