You will also find in the big city a lot bigger of a percentage of women are single, actively dating and taking dick on the side.
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Dating online applications work in favour of women, not so much men unless you're in the elite aesthetic caliber. Average men will have a hard time, and it might even be more stressful then it is fun.
A lot of girls are doing this despite what people want to believe. Whatever helps ease their mind, and what their missing out on.
Yup. What you said about the city is especially true- competition and image are EVERYTHING. If you're below 6ft and balding, you are truly ****ed. And if you are Asian or Indian, you're double ****ed.
Tinder is a meat market for women. Men can't use "game" in this scenario, it boils down to "What do you look like and what are your stats?". Guys want to pretend only "skanks" use tinder, and it's simply not true. I've known plenty of "good girls" that surprised me by telling me how they were ****ing and dumping a new guy each week from Tinder, they were bragging about it. To women, sex is just a game in their 20s. Tinder is a playground.
I've also had "shy girls" I had just met 30 minutes earlier say the dirtiest thins to me with a bit of prodding. The types of girls that are frankly dumpy and average and bookish. The ones guys eventually marry. Sorry, but those girls are also ****ing complete strangers because those men look good and come onto them aggressively. I never knew this until around my mid 20s when I got in shape, grew a beard and suddenly went up a tier in attractiveness. Girls would not tell me these things before. Once I realized how it went, it became very easy to see through the BS. Once I knew a girl liked me, I could say anything dirty or sexual and the most depraved stuff would start pouring out of her. Asking for all sorts of aggressive, kinky stuff when 2 hours before she was so sweet and nice and reserved. Now, I'm nothing special, some girls have just found me attractive. I am not one of the guys that clean up on Tinder- the 8s, 9s or 10s that women go nuts over. And no bitterness towards the dudes- can't hate on a guy who is utilizing his genetics. But I'm just sick of guys keeping the myths alive.
The problem, as you said, is that the average guy really doesn't know this is happening or he simply does not want to believe it. Neither does the average girl!
The average guy of course puts women on a pedestal. He thinks most women don't want to **** a hot guy in a club bathroom. His sweetheart never ever did those things...she never had a threesome, never made sex videos with her well endowed F-Buddy, never banged a total stranger in a bathroom stall in Europe with no protection. In his mind, none of this ever could have happened with his girl. But the average girl is JUST AS HORNY as the average guy, and just like the average guy, she thinks with her genitals first. Her genitals just have higher standards and more options. And because sex literally comes to her, it's so much easier to indulge.
The average girl thinks the average guy gets sex just like they do. I had a girl tell me once that women "approach" guys all the time. He example? Girls will smile at a guy from across the bar. She was dead serious. She also told me the average guy gets sex just as easy as the average girl. They really don't equate sex with effort at all. They can't comprehend it. Even fat, ugly girls are very choosey about guys, and even they get tons of messages on Tinder or OKCupid from men who are objectively better looking than them.
