I saw so many significantly balding men with attractive partners today

[Feelsbadman]

"Women don't like perfect guys"
LMFAO

 

[DoctorHouse]

"Women don't like perfect guys"
LMFAO

You never answered me, who do you trust the most in this forum? It's not a hard question really.

 

[Oknow]

marriage and birth rates have declined because in the past all a man had to do was have a job and he could attract a wife . now women work and dont need a man to support them. so therefore they chose their partner based on looks . the problem is though good looking men wont settle so you have a tonne of single frustrated women waiting for the prince to come back and then a tonne of ugly/average dudes who cant get any.

the problem is where what I read on here does not match what I see when out and about

I see so many PLAIN dudes with attractive slim partners just going about my day

like today I saw a dude , heavily diffuse thinning, chubby, average height with a slim average/moderately looking girlfriend

When I do see it, it does make me feel like sh*t to be honest, because looks wise I would say I’m better looking than some of them and yet long term single

 

[Oknow]

But they are in a R/Deadbedroom situation and she's only around for his resources.

you don’t know that

it’s funny cos I saw lots of these people being affectionate with their partners publicly

 

[Oknow]

I never see this.next time could you take pictures as evidence?

I don’t feel comfortable doing that, it’s creepy as f***

People should go outside , and have a look for themselves

easily saw 10+ couples where the woman was attractive and the male partner was balding in London

 

[Oknow]

I think perfectionism is overrated and dangerous. It also keeps you from living a normal life. Unfortunately social medial just turbo charged the condition and with that came a rise in depression, anxiety and suicide. I will say this time and time again, it's what comes out of your mouth that matters. Your words can be very powerful.

I think you are right too

makes it easier to be hard on ourselves too

I’m pretty sure I’ve lost a few opportunities being so in my head during our interactions, and not coming across as relaxed enough for them - my perfectionist personality

 

[DoctorHouse]

I don’t feel comfortable doing that, it’s creepy as f***

People should go outside , and have a look for themselves

easily saw 10+ couples where the woman was attractive and the male partner was balding in London

This place is living in bubble where there are no exceptions. You are not going to change some of these guys minds no matter what you say. It's just best to use your time more wisely and try to avoid this place as much as you can. You were much better off all those years you stopped posting here. Now you got addicted again. But you have to admit when you were on here back then, it was so much better here.

 

[Feelsbadman]

the problem is where what I read on here does not match what I see when out and about

I see so many PLAIN dudes with attractive slim partners just going about my day

like today I saw a dude , heavily diffuse thinning, chubby, average height with a slim average/moderately looking girlfriend

When I do see it, it does make me feel like sh*t to be honest, because looks wise I would say I’m better looking than some of them and yet long term single

do you have a mental handicap or something?
everyone has already responded to this already
how do you know what their relationships are like ? maybe they are cucks?
also no one else sees this

 

[DoctorHouse]

do you have a mental handicap or something?
everyone has already responded to this already
how do you know what their relationships are like ? maybe they are cucks?
also no one else sees this

LOL, mental handicap. Look in the mirror my good friend. We never had a poster on here before who rinses and repeats his posts over and over again. You should just "copy and paste". It would be a huge time saver.

 

[Feelsbadman]

LOL, mental handicap. Look in the mirror my good friend. We never had a poster on here before who rinses and repeats his posts over and over again. You should just "copy and paste". It would be a huge time saver.

That's got nothing to do with my response
@Oknow believes that because he "sees" a balding man with a girl they must be having this awesome great relationship and men should have no problem getting a girlfriend
you got to be a simpleton to think that.

 

[DoctorHouse]

That's got nothing to do with my response
@Oknow believes that because he "sees" a balding man with a girl they must be having this awesome great relationship and men should have no problem getting a girlfriend
you got to be a simpleton to think that.

I got news for you long term relationships are becoming more extinct. People are starting to realize you don't have to "eat steak" every night. Thanks to social media, you can order whatever you want whenever you want. So get out there and get your share too.

 

[Oknow]

This place is living in bubble where there are no exceptions. You are not going to change some of these guys minds no matter what you say. It's just best to use your time more wisely and try to avoid this place as much as you can. You were much better off all those years you stopped posting here. Now you got addicted again. But you have to admit when you were on here back then, it was so much better here.

I’m admittedly starting to think of my hairloss a lot more since coming back.

I think the problem with a lot of these guys is that they think in extremes - black and white way, when I know from experience dating is random.

for example - I was chatting to two women over video chat recently, one after the other.

Girl one, didn’t want to meet up after the chat. Didn’t feel the right vibe, whatever that means.

Second, super complimentary and super into me. Also hotter than girl 1. Liked this girl a lot but she is in the states and wants me to move over to be with her. Can’t do it.

Where’s the logic in that?

 

[Oknow]

That's got nothing to do with my response
@Oknow believes that because he "sees" a balding man with a girl they must be having this awesome great relationship and men should have no problem getting a girlfriend
you got to be a simpleton to think that.

im just highlighting that attraction is more complex than people think. If these balding men can get a partner, why can’t anyone else in this forum too?

 

[DoctorHouse]

I’m admittedly starting to think of my hairloss a lot more since coming back.

I think the problem with a lot of these guys is that they think in extremes - black and white way, when I know from experience dating is random.

for example - I was chatting to two women over video chat recently, one after the other.

Girl one, didn’t want to meet up after the chat. Didn’t feel the right vibe, whatever that means.

Second, super complimentary and super into me. Also hotter than girl 1. Liked this girl a lot but she is in the states and wants me to move over to be with her. Can’t do it.

Where’s the logic in that?

Funny you say that. Most of all my best connections in my life where never in my home state.

 

[Feelsbadman]

im just highlighting that attraction is more complex than people think. If these balding men can get a partner, why can’t anyone else in this forum too?

YES THEY CAN GET A PARTNER SO f*****g WHAT? HE MIGHT BE A CUCK AND GETTING CHEATED ON WHO KNOWS
IT MEANS NOTHING.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I got news for you long term relationships are becoming more extinct. People are starting to realize you don't have to "eat steak" every night. Thanks to social media, you can order whatever you want whenever you want. So get out there and get your share too.

When you look like me you can't.

 

[DoctorHouse]

When you look like me you can't.

You got nothing to lose. PM me a photo of yourself. No fakes. And I will give you my honest opinion and if you are right I will never doubt anything you say. I promise I will not show it to anyone. If not me then someone who you trust the most on here.

 

[Oknow]

Funny you say that. Most of all my best connections in my life where never in my home state.

yeah totally took me by surprise with this girl.

She is in the Midwest, super down to earth, straight forward, friendly and positive.

Very different to women in London who are super self entitled, superficial, judgmental on average - I think that’s why I’ve been struggling to meet someone for so long.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

the problem is where what I read on here does not match what I see when out and about

I see so many PLAIN dudes with attractive slim partners just going about my day

like today I saw a dude , heavily diffuse thinning, chubby, average height with a slim average/moderately looking girlfriend

When I do see it, it does make me feel like sh*t to be honest, because looks wise I would say I’m better looking than some of them and yet long term single

The reason you see plain guys get attractive girls is because there are significantly more attractive women than men. Women have 2 factors that ultimately could hurt them for meeting male standards. Being fat and having a bad face. Fat is fixable and women hide imperfections in their face with makeup. Men have many genetic factors that can absolutely screw them over. Short, bald, small dick, low iq, race, and face. Women are far more selective than men but only about 10% of men meet all the female standards (6ft, Norwood 2 at worst, white, big c***, good face, above average iq to make money).

The reason the standards are the way they are is male vs female nature. The male mating strategy is quantity. They aim for as many partners as possible and to get many partners so standards are naturally low. Female strategy is quality. Only the quality genes are accepted so standards are high. Thanks to social media, women have access to more options and can raise standards even more. So now having blatant genetic flaws like being short or bald will come with SEVERE consequences.

 

[Oknow]

The reason you see plain guys get attractive girls is because there are significantly more attractive women than men. Women have 2 factors that ultimately could hurt them for meeting male standards. Being fat and having a bad face. Fat is fixable and women hide imperfections in their face with makeup. Men have many genetic factors that can absolutely screw them over. Short, bald, small dick, low iq, race, and face. Women are far more selective than men but only about 10% of men meet all the female standards (6ft, Norwood 2 at worst, white, big c***, good face, above average iq to make money).

The reason the standards are the way they are is male vs female nature. The male mating strategy is quantity. They aim for as many partners as possible and to get many partners so standards are naturally low. Female strategy is quality. Only the quality genes are accepted so standards are high. Thanks to social media, women have access to more options and can raise standards even more. So now having blatant genetic flaws like being short or bald will come with SEVERE consequences.

I don’t like using the race card but I sometimes think that’s the only reason why it’s hard.

I’m successful in my career, well educated, have hair , tall , average build but I’ve always found I’ve had to jump through x20 hoops than my white friends, who often have less going for them. Coincidentally, a lot of the balding guys I saw today with partners, were white men on average.

When I do shack up with a white woman they tend to have a dark skin fettish - I’m not the first non white guy they have been with.