I think those type of women are in every town. You just need to keep looking. It's basically hit or miss like every other success story in life. I think you struggle because your generation has too many options. It's too distracting to make a decision with so many options. And the problem is most people will just break up very quickly without trying to make it work because you have endless options. Times are different.
Sometimes it's just easier to date your own race to avoid using the excuse it's the race card. You can see really how right you are by making a commitment for the next 3 months to exclusively date your own race and come back here and let us know what happened.
i would but too risky
You obviously have trust issues. Too bad.
lol no.
also hpyothetically what if i did and u saw how truly ugly i was whast would u tell me?
I tell it like it is. I don't candy coat anything. I will give you my honest opinion and I would have you delete your photo as soon as I give you my opinion.
But im saying that if you confirm i'm hideous right, then what? how does that help my situation get what I mean
It will be a lesson on the reason you can't move on is you just don't have trust in anyone including yourself. It's like stripping off a band aid that will hurt at first but the faster you rip it off the quicker you get it over with.
what?
Never mind. I don't know why I even bother. Dante was just like you but he did show his photo to me and I did help him. He was able to move on from here and he did change for the better. You just don't seem to want to make any effort. I never showed his photo to anyone else.
I just dont really see how it would help anywat
You don't know until you try. That is your problem you never trust yourself to take chances so you will never learn how to move on. Don't you want some credibility?
I do trust myself to take chances, I don't trust anonymous people on an internet forum.
LOL, how ironic since you post a new thread everyday asking for advice from those same anonymous people. I guess if we keep feeding the troll, you will keep posting. I wish you the best and hope you find someone on here you can trust. At least I have a few people I can count on here when I need some guidance. After all this is a support forum. Enjoy your misery loves company. Maybe someday you can move on.
How does posting and asking for advice the same as posting your own pictures to an anonymous person online?
yea this is what i was thinking if i show him a photo and he sees how ugly i am what can he say to better my life?