Because you haven’t experienced something worst in your life. That’s why most of you are pathetic. Find a nice job or start business and make a lot of money and all chicks will love you then. Nobody will care about your hair then.
World have far worst things to handle than our hairs. If you go in hospital and live with young people with heart failure who can’t walk even 100 meters how much often you will think about your hair? I see daily young dudes who have hairloss to some degree and most of them have jobs, chicks, social life. So, probably it is not everything about hair. It is probably most of you don’t know how to live properly.
It's a lot easier said than done for me to accept my hair loss. I understand that there are millions below me on whatever metaphorical ladder you wanna think of but how does their pain lessen mine? A single mother losing her job has every right to hate her situation even if she's never had to hide from a fascist regime that was trying to exterminate her people. Or if she didn't have to survive in a pre historic nomadic tribe running from predators. **Suffering is suffering, there is no objective scale to quantify it.**
Now on top of that, people on this forums come from all walks of life. You simply don't know what everyone here is going through. There is more at play than just hair loss. This includes self image issues, self worth, confidence, and so much more. And those are only things that hair loss directly affects. I imagine that others on this thread have other problems not related to their hair loss, but their suffering is now multiplied due to Alopecia.
I know people who go to therapy about this stuff. And you know what therapists say? Do you know what educated professionals say when they help someone struggling with accepting Alopecia? Here'a a clue, it's not at all anything what you say. Your advice is absolutely terrible and that's because you have no clue how subjective struggles work. Therapists will work with their patients and understand why this is painful for them. What specifically they do, is specific to the patient. However, No qualified therapist will tell anyone that "look at least you don't have heart disease" because that's literally the worst advice you can give to a human being when they are struggling. STOP UNDERMINING PEOPLE'S PERSONAL STRUGGLES.
So to conclude:
1) Suffering is suffering. There is no objective scale to quantify it.
2) People on this forumn are guess what PEOPLE. They have so much going on in their life that you don't know about.
3) Educated professionals in therapy will never apply your terrible advice of "look on the bright side", because your advice stems from ignorance of how to help people with struggles. I don't blame you for being ignorant, I blame you for thinking you are credible and have authority when it comes to this.
Now instead of turning this into a thread where we undermine other people's struggles, let's get back on the discussion of a potential hair loss solution.
To all my balding brothers and sisters,
You do not need to feel shame for your suffering. There is no concrete list of things you are "allowed to suffer from" as the assholes who are brigading this thread want you to believe. If you are suffering, you are suffering. That's all that matters. Be strong. Be brave. And never listen to people who put you down for suffering.
Hang in there, guys. Like I said before, whether this product works or not, you guys had solid reason to have faith in this. There's good reason to be at least a little optimistic.
