just lol if you dont look like tyson fury (hair havers on suicide watch)

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Anyway a lot of balding men in their 20's do pursue martial arts as a hobby/side hustle to fit into the image of a hyper masculine man that they see in the mirror (and wish to identify as), or that they see from bald fighters that they end up taking as an inspiration.
That's a whole lot of assumptions on your part without any quantifyable proof whatsoever, be it regarding to an assumed over representation in the fighting community, or their motivations. On top of that amateurs are not stereotypical for a sport, since they are by definition the ones with the least visibility. I am not convinced.


And then you have insecure baldies like Joe Rogan saying bald men are the most attractive and only supporting bald fighters lol.
Never heard him say that. Just heard him say that balding sucks and he gets that, but that you have to roll with it or something. A bit naive but not the worst opinion to have. Anyways JR is an unrelated topic.
 

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That's a whole lot of assumptions on your part without any quantifyable proof whatsoever, be it regarding to an assumed over representation in the fighting community, or their motivations. On top of that amateurs are not stereotypical for a sport, since they are by definition the ones with the least visibility. I am not convinced.



Never heard him say that. Just heard him say that balding sucks and he gets that, but that you have to roll with it or something. A bit naive but not the worst opinion to have. Anyways JR is an unrelated topic.
I never intended to convince you, as I'm sure you already know I don't care what you think, just talked about what I've seen. It obviously triggered something in you which made you react a certain way, but that's internal projection. Anyway I'm bored, I thought we were already done and moved on from this topic.
 

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TBH I notice that at the gym too, that the actual meatheads tend to be compensating for bad hair, age, looks or height. If you fall into the attractive bracket, most people just maintain a fit body. Wouldn't surprise me about fighters too. That said there are some who just love fighting arts or taking roids and getting big purely as a hobby - they have my respect as it's all about them.
 

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do you really all analyse which women goes out with what kind of dudes? and which hair/beard/shape/clothes and whatnot attracts the most?

what always helped me the most was/is: not giving a f*** about what anyone else thinks... you will do way better, believe me...

just go out and have fun, talk if you want, if not then dont, just dont try to hard...
honestly usually works best for me and i go out every week... no rejections and nothing... some 23yo invited me home last weekend (i of course didnt go)... it surprised me, but well...

or just talk to anyone, sooner or later you will know know which women is not going to reject you...
 

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Yeah but you can at least be there so they don't have to die alone. And you are right some people can't be fixed. I will disagree with you that a person that is ugly, short and balding has no chance because I have seen a few family members of mine overcome that obstacle and have nice looking wives who worship their husbands because they treat them well.

Doctor that's quite a negative view perhaps based on own experience...hot wives can find better looking guys to "treat them well" so it's more to do with love and personal connection imo. That said physical chemistry for women is based not only on emotion but also looks, so ideally in a relationship a guy would want to be more all round. Having a wife who loves you but doesn't find you necessarily attractive may translate to less sex or a more mechanical form rather than one of a dopamine rush or simply just boredom on her part.
 

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Doctor that's quite a negative view perhaps based on own experience...hot wives can find better looking guys to "treat them well" so it's more to do with love and personal connection imo. That said physical chemistry for women is based not only on emotion but also looks, so ideally in a relationship a guy would want to be more all round. Having a wife who loves you but doesn't find you necessarily attractive may translate to less sex or a more mechanical form rather than one of a dopamine rush or simply just boredom on her part.
This. Women reluctantly date/marry ugly men. It leads to dead bedrooms and infidelity. A man has to have the minimum atteaction requirements to get love. It wasn't really this bad back in the day but now it's horrible.
 

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This. Women reluctantly date/marry ugly men. It leads to dead bedrooms and infidelity. A man has to have the minimum atteaction requirements to get love. It wasn't really this bad back in the day but now it's horrible.
you can always leave a dead bedroom situation...
in my experience, things also didnt really change, everyone just has way more things to do and you dont have too many options to go out anymore (so less chances to meet women)... but thats it...
 

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do you really all analyse which women goes out with what kind of dudes? and which hair/beard/shape/clothes and whatnot attracts the most?
Yes, ofc I do statistics every time I leave the house since I rarely see bald guys with women. (including myself)
 

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but it is awesome how they find excuse after excuse... main reason i come here^^
please back it up with “statistics”...
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just doesnt say why... unless you are a dwarf, or significantly smaller than most women, youre good to go...

what women dont like about manlets, is usually that they can be pretty aggressive and act like they are in constant competition with everybody else and need constant verification from the partner...
Wrong. They don't want to pass on bad genes with a short man.
 
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