NY Mag Article: 'I Love Watching Men Worry About Balding'

[VeprSuper]

Four days, Swingline??? For shame!

 

[swingline747]

Four days, Swingline??? For shame!

I know Im a slacker.

 

[shookwun]

Money only matters when you make enough. If you think raking in 40-60,000 annually will make a substantial difference then you're highly delusional.


When you're making 150k + then we'll talk about the importance of money helping you get laid.

....I dont even understand this whole money concept tbh. I make over 100,000 and it doesn't make any difference within my sex life.

 

[maher]

Have you seen this crap? Jessica strikes back. Good job, fred :doh: She also tweeted some other ****.



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Spelling? For some of us, english is our 2nd, 3rd or even 4th language. I actually took my time to read some of her work. She cant write for ****- So, whats her excuse?
Haters gonna hate? really? cant you do better, Jess??

 

[SayifDoit]

While women have been 'persecuted by cat calls'
Only lol.
Entitled individuals who perceive themselves as victims are the biggest idiots on the planet. Modern feminism at its finest. She made a couple tweets BTW.

 

[Exodus2011]

Money only matters when you make enough. If you think raking in 40-60,000 annually will make a substantial difference then you're highly delusional.


When you're making 150k + then we'll talk about the importance of money helping you get laid.

....I dont even understand this whole money concept tbh. I make over 100,000 and it doesn't make any difference within my sex life.

damn wata your occupTion?

 

[Nadester]

The secret is to just showoff those bucks.....
Make it rain b**ch and all

 

[swingline747]

Most guys can't chose to be tall, so thats out of the question. Being fit is definitely doable. And a requirement like being an athlete is ridiculous. However, these three things are demanded of women.

Have you seen this sh!t?

[video=youtube;-QwUWgxjee0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QwUWgxjee0[/video]

I want to make a video asking about girls tits and how big they are...... then have guys making these faces. I think it would be hysterical and show the double standard when after I get blasted online I can show this vid lol.

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whoa my original comment on the article went through FINALLY!
would appreciate some replies there before Im hammered by kunti women lol

 

[Wolf Pack]

I have no issues with women wanting certain things in a guy, even if hair. It's personal preference, I have mine.

What is annoying is mistreatment that some of you peeps have experienced through hair loss and also white knights. I really hate Mr Nice Guy who rips other men to get closer to women (never works). Look at some of the men sucking up to that girl who said all that about baldness.

 

[Wolf Pack]

A preference that the man will never be able to change. Like "sucks that you're bald, now you'll never have me!" while there would have been no problem if the guy was NW1.

Remember that the vast majority think like that for no good reason, I explained it before, it's like the height factor, they say they want a tall guy because other girls say it all the time.

It's not a preference, it's hating, they want to put us down and make us feel bad, because we don't meet their collectively-fabricated criteria. Women and NW1 men get a kick out of it.

In the end, it's about power, men who don't have hair are inferior to the full heads. Women and NW1 will make sure to remind us of that fact whenever they get the chance.

Good point. In the rest of my passage I mentioned women hating is where there is an issue. I haven't experienced this as a Norwood 2-3, but I have seen it happen. Often in a jokey way but point is the guy is seen inferior. Yes Norwood 1 guys would feel superior. In the same way a good looking guy would feel superior or a guy with muscles, nice car e.t.c. Honestly I feel it's no different for hair loss.

This is natural though unfortunately, attraction can't be forced either. Even if the media portrayed bald guys as cool, do you think it would make a difference? No way.

I like european features in a girl the most or asian, how can a black girl become this? This is the way it rolls.

 

[maher]

If the media starts telling girls bald men are sexy all the time, if they cast bald actors were cast for Christian Grey type roles or in their vampire movies, then women would start creaming their panties over bald men, I would bet my life on it.

Because women are that weak-minded, they will believe anything the media tell them to believe. Despite all the self-hate that could be seen in my posts when I was bald, I will say it again: bald men are not fundamentally ugly, and women could fall in love with a bald man with no problem.

But if the mainstream media and the TV shows they watch show them that it should not be that way, then it won't be for them. "No bald men sorry! I want to live the same romances as the girls in Grey's Anatomy! And in Grey's Anatomy, the guys they chose to date all had hair so..."

I disagree. By default, balding will only rarely or never be sexy. Its not a trend thing, its deeper. Unlike these big, enormous beards that were considered disgusting only few years back are now considered "hot" and sexy by most women.

 

[Wolf Pack]

If the media starts telling girls bald men are sexy all the time, if they cast bald actors were cast for Christian Grey type roles or in their vampire movies, then women would start creaming their panties over bald men, I would bet my life on it.

Because women are that weak-minded, they will believe anything the media tell them to believe. Despite all the self-hate that could be seen in my posts when I was bald, I will say it again: bald men are not fundamentally ugly, and women could fall in love with a bald man with no problem.

But if the mainstream media and the TV shows they watch show them that it should not be that way, then it won't be for them. "No bald men sorry! I want to live the same romances as the girls in Grey's Anatomy! And in Grey's Anatomy, the guys they chose to date all had hair so..."

I'll have to disagree here Fred. I appreciate your angle. Yes we all have our types, but then you hear people "say he/she is hot but not my type." That shows we appreciate attraction universally.

I don't think women would fall for it. Do you think if media showed bald women 24/7 men would suddenly like them more? Baldness does make most people lost points in the looks department, in fact even things like scars, asymmetrical face have their charm but losing your hair, not so. For the majority of us anyway.

Even before media became big, women were loving men who are tall, good looking, full hair e.t.c. It's only natural and this all happened centuries ago. The reason baldness didn't become extinct is because there are multiple genes involved and it's quite widespread. Also if you go back to when humans first came on the scene, survival and reproduction was more important. Later there was more emphasis on attraction I imagine when we understood our world better - that's when bald men probably felt the pain.

The media give us what we want.

 

[shookwun]

Baldness would slowly become abolished if your mothers didn't **** the guy they met in the club wearing the toupee.

 

[swingline747]

I'll have to disagree here Fred. I appreciate your angle. Yes we all have our types, but then you hear people "say he/she is hot but not my type." That shows we appreciate attraction universally.

I don't think women would fall for it. Do you think if media showed bald women 24/7 men would suddenly like them more? Baldness does make most people lost points in the looks department, in fact even things like scars, asymmetrical face have their charm but losing your hair, not so. For the majority of us anyway.

Even before media became big, women were loving men who are tall, good looking, full hair e.t.c. It's only natural and this all happened centuries ago. The reason baldness didn't become extinct is because there are multiple genes involved and it's quite widespread. Also if you go back to when humans first came on the scene, survival and reproduction was more important. Later there was more emphasis on attraction I imagine when we understood our world better - that's when bald men probably felt the pain.

The media give us what we want.

Ive tried saying all this before, never gets through. Baldness doesnt go extinct though because
1) most men lock their women down early before it sets in
2) theres always an ugly woman too. dont forget that.

 

[hellouser]

Ive tried saying all this before, never gets through. Baldness doesnt go extinct though because
1) most men lock their women down early before it sets in
2) theres always an ugly woman too. dont forget that.

Sounds like the only way for me to 'lock down' a woman is to get a hair transplant and do it quickly before the hair before the hair transplant starts to fade as well.

Does anyone else question their existence with social expectations like this; 'You must be good looking, rich, a head full of hair and hot wife in order for your life to be validated by everyone else'

Sometimes I just want to check out of society... a bullet to the head would be a permanent solution though. Sigh.

 

[Exodus2011]

not to mention girls can carry the gene too . . . . or a white bald guy cud just get with an easy asian woman, like my dad *sigh*

 

[Lollerme]

A preference that the man will never be able to change. Like "sucks that you're bald, now you'll never have me!" while there would have been no problem if the guy was NW1.

Remember that the vast majority think like that for no good reason, I explained it before, it's like the height factor, they say they want a tall guy because other girls say it all the time.

It's not a preference, it's hating, they want to put us down and make us feel bad, because we don't meet their collectively-fabricated criteria. Women and NW1 men get a kick out of it.

In the end, it's about power, men who don't have hair are inferior to the full heads. Women and NW1 will make sure to remind us of that fact whenever they get the chance.

That makes no sense, so according to you if I don't want a ginger girlfriend, I hate gingers.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Ive tried saying all this before, never gets through. Baldness doesnt go extinct though because
1) most men lock their women down early before it sets in
2) theres always an ugly woman too. dont forget that.

Good points, forgot about that. Even ugly women won't tolerate a balding male, depends how ugly we talking.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Yes, if redhead girls don't disgust you, then yes, it's just hating. You have no reason not to have a redhead girlfriend. That's what I mean, bald men are not disgusting, they do not repulse women. But women just hate them because society told them to do so. Yes bald men are less attractive, of course it's evolutionary, but my point is that baldness is not a deal-breaker. Women decided it was a deal-breaker under the pressure of society and Hollywood culture. That's why you see the "No bald men sorry" on dating websites. What's with those preferences anyway? Like us men are allowed to be picky. I maintain that baldness hate is nothing but a social construct, even if I know that Wolf Pack and swingline disagree with me on that.

I agree with Fred. Those of you disagreeing do indeed make the valid point that aesthetically, baldness is a negative; what you are missing is that it is not that big of an aesthetic negative. In addition, there are other much larger factors at play which determine whether a man is "attractive" to women or not. Remember, women are not like men. Whether a man finds a woman attractive is almost exclusively determined by her appearance, it doesn't matter if she has no friends, or is an introvert, or if she living with her parents, or if she is poor, if she has no career ambitions, and so on. Not so for attractiveness of men to women.

The cherry on top: it is allowed, even expected of leading men, to wear clothes which suit them. But not a wig (which is essentially a kind of clothing).

 

[doublebatman]

I agree with Fred. Those of you disagreeing do indeed make the valid point that aesthetically, baldness is a negative; what you are missing is that it is not that big of an aesthetic negative. In addition, there are other much larger factors at play which determine whether a man is "attractive" to women or not. Remember, women are not like men. Whether a man finds a woman attractive is almost exclusively determined by her appearance, it doesn't matter if she has no friends, or is an introvert, or if she living with her parents, or if she is poor, if she has no career ambitions, and so on. Not so for attractiveness of men to women.

The cherry on top: it is allowed, even expected of leading men, to wear clothes which suit them. But not a wig (which is essentially a kind of clothing).

I think baldness isn't as aesthetically damaging as some would make out but then again its entirely dependent on the person. I'm sure Michael Jordan didnt lose much sleep when he starting going bald, Brendan Fraser on the other hand...