Oh just shave your head its cool! GO TO HELL!

[swingline747]

UC Man, do you really feel actual hate from people over this? I've never seen it go that far.

Yeah its not like baldies go around getting spit on or have to drink from different fountains (yet), you just don't get as hot of a selection of tha ladiez

 

[DannyBoyy]

I know how you guys feel i remember it was GREAT when i had hair...i remember i was bullied over all sorts pretty much all the time...wait...wait...this dont seem right nah i must be wrong life is much better with hair i never had ANY trouble at all...

 

[swingline747]

I know how you guys feel i remember it was GREAT when i had hair...i remember i was bullied over all sorts pretty much all the time...wait...wait...this dont seem right nah i must be wrong life is much better with hair i never had ANY trouble at all...

yeah but to each their own. Bullying is a adolescent thing, in years younger than when hair is your concern.
BUT
then you get a bit older and out of that section of your life, you start to come into your own and ACTUALLY enjoy things. Your looks become refined, you begin getting the attention from the girls you always sought. You become more cunning and learn how to now use them to your advantage, THEN BAM. Life finally hits you with a lump of **** again and now you deal with hair loss and those old thoughts of younger days start to creep back in.

Unless you are being bullied at like 22+, but then you may want to rethink your life status

 

[DannyBoyy]

yeah but to each their own. Bullying is a adolescent thing, in years younger than when hair is your concern.
BUT
then you get a bit older and out of that section of your life, you start to come into your own and ACTUALLY enjoy things. Your looks become refined, you begin getting the attention from the girls you always sought. You become more cunning and learn how to now use them to your advantage, THEN BAM. Life finally hits you with a lump of **** again and now you deal with hair loss and those old thoughts of younger days start to creep back in.

Unless you are being bullied at like 22+, but then you may want to rethink your life status

Adolescent? i was bullied until i was about 18 (not for balding)...and my baldness started at 16 funny thing is i have never been picked on for being bald...and shouldnt this prove a point? that only kids and "kid" like people aka immature like people (i dont mean ill people) take the mick?...so WHY take offence to it? one thing if girls are not attracted to bald guys nothing wrong with that but dissing?...surely in your 20s you should understand life by then and how the world works? you get arseholes etc etc...i had to learn this at a very young age...i mean between 16 and 18 i was worried about being picked on for going bald but i was still "finding" myself back then...even though i stopped worrying when it got obvious i was balding (weird i know).


I understand its **** to be picked on trust me i know but the way guys in there 20s,30s go on about it here they must not of had any bullies or anything like that AT ALL or something to feel the way they do about "society" and baldness...must of been sunshine and roses and never saw "hatred" before they went bald...seriousy get out of your tunnel vision for baldness and just look around you will she "hatred" for alot more stuff then baldness...its life guys you can sit here and moan you have your right to vent but whats that gonna do? it only make it worse...you gotta become peace with it only way you win im not saying give up on a cure or anything but until then just become peace with it and yourself...cause its this mindset where if it wasnt your baldness you probably be on another site with what ever other problem you may have venting...easier said then done but its either moan and groan give your "bullies" what they want...or be happy and dont let it get to you and piss them off.

 

[swingline747]

Adolescent? i was bullied until i was about 18 (not for balding)...and my baldness started at 16 funny thing is i have never been picked on for being bald...and shouldnt this prove a point? that only kids and "kid" like people aka immature like people (i dont mean ill people) take the mick?...so WHY take offence to it? one thing if girls are not attracted to bald guys nothing wrong with that but dissing?...surely in your 20s you should understand life by then and how the world works? you get arseholes etc etc...i had to learn this at a very young age...i mean between 16 and 18 i was worried about being picked on for going bald but i was still "finding" myself back then...even though i stopped worrying when it got obvious i was balding (weird i know).


I understand its **** to be picked on trust me i know but the way guys in there 20s,30s go on about it here they must not of had any bullies or anything like that AT ALL or something to feel the way they do about "society" and baldness...must of been sunshine and roses and never saw "hatred" before they went bald...seriousy get out of your tunnel vision for baldness and just look around you will she "hatred" for alot more stuff then baldness...its life guys you can sit here and moan you have your right to vent but whats that gonna do? it only make it worse...you gotta become peace with it only way you win im not saying give up on a cure or anything but until then just become peace with it and yourself...cause its this mindset where if it wasnt your baldness you probably be on another site with what ever other problem you may have venting...easier said then done but its either moan and groan give your "bullies" what they want...or be happy and dont let it get to you and piss them off.

I was bullied in my youth. The ONLY white kid in an ALL MINORITY school.
Then the one year I did go to a white school, I was the ONE POOR KID.
Come high school I wisened up and started to get big/smarter than everyone else.
After High school was GREAT. I had looks, smarts, cunning and determination.

To not be bullied and have a decent adolescence then lose your hair is one thing BUT to deal with ridicule then claw yourself out only to then be pushed back down and try to claw out of another hole sucks. Sucks BAD.

Did you ever think though that for some venting is a way to deal with it. You release some of that anger on here instead of by outbursts at actual people.
You may think you are trying to enlighten people on this part of the forum but you may be making it worse. You are entitled to your argument of course but I think in the Impact forum its far less necessary and actually welcome.
There is nothing wrong with pissing and moaning here, do you really think half the people who whine here actually mope around public whining like this? If people feel like they want to gripe out a bit just let them. Are there worse situations? Yes, but its relative to where you stand and the company you keep.

 

[DannyBoyy]

I was bullied in my youth. The ONLY white kid in an ALL MINORITY school.
Then the one year I did go to a white school, I was the ONE POOR KID.
Come high school I wisened up and started to get big/smarter than everyone else.
After High school was GREAT. I had looks, smarts, cunning and determination.

To not be bullied and have a decent adolescence then lose your hair is one thing BUT to deal with ridicule then claw yourself out only to then be pushed back down and try to claw out of another hole sucks. Sucks BAD.

Did you ever think though that for some venting is a way to deal with it. You release some of that anger on here instead of by outbursts at actual people.
You may think you are trying to enlighten people on this part of the forum but you may be making it worse. You are entitled to your argument of course but I think in the Impact forum its far less necessary and actually welcome.
There is nothing wrong with pissing and moaning here, do you really think half the people who whine here actually mope around public whining like this? If people feel like they want to gripe out a bit just let them. Are there worse situations? Yes, but its relative to where you stand and the company you keep.

Like i said dude in my comment its ok to vent it is your right to vent but most here are not just "venting" and letting the anger out are they? its like they have developed a anger to "society" about this...which is not good they got to find peace otherwise it always be there eating away at them...everyone vents its normal its ok at times but i i was hoping you got what i ment specially in a place like this...come on you get what i mean.


And the bullying sorry to hear that its just surely bullying as a kid or teens makes you realise that world can be bad? and there is arseholes out there? its not like you leave school and it goes away i know for a FACT that somewhere in the future someone gonna try and make me feel bad...i just know but thats life.

 

[swingline747]

Like i said dude in my comment its ok to vent it is your right to vent but most here are not just "venting" and letting the anger out are they? its like they have developed a anger to "society" about this...which is not good they got to find peace otherwise it always be there eating away at them...everyone vents its normal its ok at times but i i was hoping you got what i ment specially in a place like this...come on you get what i mean.


And the bullying sorry to hear that its just surely bullying as a kid or teens makes you realise that world can be bad? and there is arseholes out there? its not like you leave school and it goes away i know for a FACT that somewhere in the future someone gonna try and make me feel bad...i just know but thats life.

See I see it another way.
Im going with the benefit of the doubt most are like me. They like to come online and throw a verbal ****fit then go about their day.

I think to assume everyone is festering in a corner is a bit presumptuous but then maybe its me who's wrong. You never know.

 

[DannyBoyy]

See I see it another way.
Im going with the benefit of the doubt most are like me. They like to come online and throw a verbal ****fit then go about their day.

I think to assume everyone is festering in a corner is a bit presumptuous but then maybe its me who's wrong. You never know.

See i never said EVERYONE was "festerering in the corner" please dont put words in my mouth im on about the ones who say things like they want to die cause of it for a example...please dont assume i think EVERYONE here is like it specially with people like house around on here and some i made friends with on here.

 

[VeprSuper]

I think there are some corner festerers here but they are the minority.

 

[swingline747]

I think there are some corner festerers here but they are the minority.

Yea but those are also people you CANT help. They will always be pissed about something. Its not even worth plopping in positive words of wisdom.

 

[der29]

only black men can pull of bald. everyone else is destined for eternal solitude.

 

[swingline747]

only black men can pull of bald. everyone else is destined for eternal solitude.

Thats not really true.

Theres a VP here in my building who is shaved, older and white.

Also there is our President BUTTTTT we were all in a room and I noticed they have very small foreheads.
Perhaps because I never saw them with hair either it helps them but I think If your forehead and nose arent HAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE like mine (I have like the super guido nose) then you can do it.

Spanish guys can usually pull it off well to.

Maybe it comes down to the inmate look and that most minorities already........ IM SORRRRRRRRRRRRRRY (its cool I have a black friend!)

 

[jasenwm]

Thats not really true.

Theres a VP here in my building who is shaved, older and white.

Also there is our President BUTTTTT we were all in a room and I noticed they have very small foreheads.
Perhaps because I never saw them with hair either it helps them but I think If your forehead and nose arent HAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE like mine (I have like the super guido nose) then you can do it.

Spanish guys can usually pull it off well to.

Maybe it comes down to the inmate look and that most minorities already........ IM SORRRRRRRRRRRRRRY (its cool I have a black friend!)

You sir are a racist SOB!!!!! I like it! my best friend is black I'm not racist I hate everyone equally. I agree with you,if you have a tanned or darker skin color it looks much better if your slicked. The blinding shine on white guys heads is alful,like myself this is why I wear a system.

 

[VeprSuper]

I think it's more about head shape than race. I've plenty of rough looking bald black dudes.

 

[Primo]

I think it's more about head shape than race. I've plenty of rough looking bald black dudes.

I agree it's first and foremost about the combination of good headshape and muscular bodybuild. Darker skin pigment is just a bonus on top, the occasional use of a sun bed or some good quality fake tan will give you that gentle, subtle tan if that's what you really want, but a skinny body with a bad headshape is never going to look good regardless of what colour you are.

A good body build definitely helps equalise and proportion an awkward headshape in my opinion.

Look at East African men, Somalians, Ethiopians, Eritreans etc... Many of them with awful headshapes and skinny and scrawny to go with it. They look just as unaesthetic as any of those skinny caucasian bald guys you see.

 

[swingline747]

I agree it's first and foremost about the combination of good headshape and muscular bodybuild. Darker skin pigment is just a bonus on top, the occasional use of a sun bed or some good quality fake tan will give you that gentle, subtle tan if that's what you really want, but a skinny body with a bad headshape is never going to look good regardless of what colour you are.

A good body build definitely helps equalise and proportion an awkward headshape in my opinion.

Look at East African men, Somalians, Ethiopians, Eritreans etc... Many of them with awful headshapes and skinny and scrawny to go with it. They look just as unaesthetic as any of those skinny caucasian bald guys you see.

I have a decent head shape and a good body BUT a huge forehead and nose. there are so many variables.

Plus many of the shaved white guys (and some spanish) who look good you can still see that crew or 5:00 shadow of a good hairline.

its a strange combination and very FEW guys actually look better bald than with hair. Even bruce willis the supposed bald of balds looks better with hair.

Its also perspective I think. I noticed with my ehad shaved some pics I would look REALLY good at a certain angle but a full front face shot was WAYYYYYYYYY to much face and just looked AWFUL, even my GF told me they were bad.
With hair it framed that face on view and creates some depth at certain angles. I wish I was famous, I would make wigs for guys stylish and just ROCK them everywhere.

 

[der29]

I agree it's first and foremost about the combination of good headshape and muscular bodybuild. Darker skin pigment is just a bonus on top, the occasional use of a sun bed or some good quality fake tan will give you that gentle, subtle tan if that's what you really want, but a skinny body with a bad headshape is never going to look good regardless of what colour you are.

A good body build definitely helps equalise and proportion an awkward headshape in my opinion.

Look at East African men, Somalians, Ethiopians, Eritreans etc... Many of them with awful headshapes and skinny and scrawny to go with it. They look just as unaesthetic as any of those skinny caucasian bald guys you see.

east africans have a caucasoid skull type which is why they look awful. the only aesthetic bald guys are black men because they have that short and wide broad skull. if you are bald and white better start buying and looking into skin pigmentation. bald and white = sexually invisible to all women.

 

[CaptainForehead]

The worst hit are probably south asian men inspite of their darker skin. Are there Indian men who look good bald ?

 

[Primo]

east africans .... look awful. the only aesthetic bald guys are black... if you are bald and white better start buying and looking into skin pigmentation. bald and white = sexually invisible to all women.

 

[KeeperOtf]

One thing for sure I would never shave my head with no facial hair or piercings.
Everytime I see a man with an egg instead of a head make me laught.
I understand what you mean, my boss is a girl too so you better look good XD