Ot. Women Hypergamy Statement True Or False?

[Stanx22]

@WhitePolarBear Thanks for making me hit the 100 dislikes !!! IN ONE MONTH !! Gonna celebrate.

 

[shookwun]

I'm just mansplaining of course!

Again, not my idea, actually the idea of a woman, a psychiatrist, and after asking around, I discovered that she was mostly right, of course.

Many older women (like my mom) have told me that they would have loved to be stay-at-home moms, but that was impossible, because the societal pressure for them to go to work was too strong.

That's how I think I know, I talk about it to people who know. Groundbreaking.

Not surprising, before feminism, women were shamed for wanting to be like men, after feminism, women are shamed for not wanting to be like men.

Don't believe for a moment any of them wouldn't love being a in-house mother taking care of your children while cooking and cleaning.

 

[Stanx22]

I agree it was a bit strong, let's remove the "f*****g w****s" then.

My point was that staying home to take care of the kids, doing the laundry and cooking is actually enjoyable to women.

But they'd like to believe us that it's not so they can cash in on the victim narrative.

Not my idea, I read it in a book written by a female psychiatrist: The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.

Yeah, because that's actually what they're here for. Males to provide and protect and women to give birth to the kids and take care of them. Doesn't matter if we speak evolutionary or religiously here, they both agree on this.

 

[shookwun]

I often time see many women in there twenties, thirties and even early fourties walking s


trollers with there other girlfriends any time of day through the parks and neihbours hoods. having fun, laughs and gossiping between all the ladies while there husbands are at work.



Please LOL


A little bit of work, husbands is on days off then her real party begins while they wine, dine and go on trips together with the family.

Keep in mind I live in a city where people who work at oil sites on average are making 75-150,000 as contractors. For those working for the actual client themselves 150,000-250,000.


Yeah such a hard life. Waiting for hubby to come home, cook him a little meal then repeat it all over again. Lets not forget the husband is the one who does all the yark work, and out door clean up. I am sure dusting the house or calling a filipino maid is very difficult!


Please, it's a big responsibility if we take in considerating the potential for divorce, but actuall work itself? I never knew raising a kid was considered a 'job'

 

[Dench57]

I'll ask my grandmother tomorrow if her life was sh*t in the 1950's. Of course it wasn't.

Unless you think staying at home and raising children is a horrible fate to women.

It's not. Men will just project their own interests and aspirations on women so of course to them, staying home will seem horrible.

Most women like to make us believe that they hate it so they can play the victim through a subtle power-play.

It would be like men being paid to play video games and f*** w****s all day while saying:

"Oh god, this is so demeaning, I hate this! Sex is dirty and what a waste of time those video games are! You see how distressed this makes me! Please cater to my needs and avoid hurting my feelings now!"

The second part is true of course, because women had no control over their fertility.

Second-wave feminism would never have liberated women if it wasn't for the inventions of the birth control pill and the washing machine.

ok fair enough I worded my post poorly

life wasn't sh*t for all women

i mean in the broader sense that women had little control, little choice of their destiny. if you weren't living within society's parameters (get married, stay at home, raise children, cook dinner, shut the f*** up) then you were ostracized. women had little freedom to choose their own path. would you like to have lived like that? men have always been free to do mostly as they pleased so in my mind second-wave feminism was legit. birth control pill was a good thing. legalizing abortion was a good thing.

do you have sisters? i wonder if your strongly (almost muslim, as salaam-alaikum) conservative views on women's rights would be different if you had sisters. i have two and have healthy relationships with both, as with my mum. perhaps that is why I would always want them to liberated and free to do with their lives what they want. i have that choice, why should they not?

 

[Dench57]

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motherfuckers

women should be free to choose their own life, i don't give a f*** and its none of my business if a woman doesn't want to be a stay-at-home mum raising a family while her husband works 9-5

men should be free to choose their own life, i don't give a f*** and its none of my business if a man does not want to work 9-5, eating sh*t in a boring job just so he can pay the mortgage, getting married to a woman he doesn't really love and raising some f*****g annoying kids

dogs should be free to choose their own life, i don't give a f*** and its none of my business if a dog wants to be a cuck and get married to a cat and provide for its six kittens instead of ripping their heads off and playing with their mangled entrails like a dog is supposed to



just do you baby girl


Dench57 approved

 

[Dench57]

Poor individual choices always end up affecting other people's lives negatively

convince me

 

[blackg]

The difference is I am not writing fawning/sychophantic comments to Fred (not offence, Fred) or anyone else (no offence everybody). I just agree with a specific point someone makes and leave it at that. Again, blackg is being (clumsily) chivalrous - which - well, you should kind of feel patronised, but in the spirit of not agreeing with me, I'm sure you'll tell me you weren't

You go hard, girlfriend!

 

[blackg]

Yep. And shaming words SHOULD exist. Shame is a good thing. Shame tempers behaviour. Of course, blackg and types like him think they're urbane and sophisticated to think "anything goes, judge nobody" and the corollary of this is that anyone who dares use shame is old-fashioned and straight-laced. Really, nothing is "no consequences". Sex is a significant act. No question. That's why it's so great.[/QUOTE

Yep. And shaming words SHOULD exist. Shame is a good thing. Shame tempers behaviour. Of course, blackg and types like him think they're urbane and sophisticated to think "anything goes, judge nobody" and the corollary of this is that anyone who dares use shame is old-fashioned and straight-laced. Really, nothing is "no consequences". Sex is a significant act. No question. That's why it's so great.

Shaming words only reflect poorly on the one using the words.
It shows a lack of class and understanding of modern/alternative/gender neutral lifestyles.

Anyway, it's best to mind your own business in all areas of strange sexual practices.
Shut your blinds and watch TV instead.
What someone does in his or her (or a gender ambiguous) backyard is NOT any of your damn business!!

Give my lifestyle some thought.

 

[hairblues]

People in the west see it as weird, for me, no of course. I said it's considered weird by people who don't know it, but it's not if you understand it correctly.

All religion is weird to me

L Ron Hubbard, Jesus, Mohamed

It's all variety of the same vegetables to me.

 

[hairblues]

I'm just mansplaining of course!

Again, not my idea, actually the idea of a woman, a psychiatrist, and after asking around, I discovered that she was mostly right, of course.

Many older women (like my mom) have told me that they would have loved to be stay-at-home moms, but that was impossible, because the societal pressure for them to go to work was too strong.

That's how I think I know, I talk about it to people who know. Groundbreaking.

Not surprising, before feminism, women were shamed for wanting to be like men, after feminism, women are shamed for not wanting to be like men.

Yeah but the years they went to work sucked hairy balls. Fetching coffee and getting *** pinched by over weight old men.
Got better in late 80s and 90s.

 

[blackg]

sl*ts ARE WOMEN WHO SAY THEY ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP, AND THEN THROW THEIR PUSSY AT AN ALPHA
BECAUSE THEY """"" HAD TOO MUCH TO DRINK.

A NON sl*t IS SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT FORNICATE WITH A RANDOM ALPHA

I seriously have never seen a women throw her pussy at anyone. This sounds like the ultimate sl*t caricature that simply does not exist.

And besides, that's not how the mating game works, no matter how excited a woman may be.

 

[blackg]

Yeah but the years they went to work sucked hairy balls. Fetching coffee and getting *** pinched by over weight old men.
Got better in late 80s and 90s.

This is true. Don't forget also being groped on the L train by lonely old men.

 

[hairblues]

I often time see many women in there twenties, thirties and even early fourties walking s


trollers with there other girlfriends any time of day through the parks and neihbours hoods. having fun, laughs and gossiping between all the ladies while there husbands are at work.



Please LOL


A little bit of work, husbands is on days off then her real party begins while they wine, dine and go on trips together with the family.

Keep in mind I live in a city where people who work at oil sites on average are making 75-150,000 as contractors. For those working for the actual client themselves 150,000-250,000.


Yeah such a hard life. Waiting for hubby to come home, cook him a little meal then repeat it all over again. Lets not forget the husband is the one who does all the yark work, and out door clean up. I am sure dusting the house or calling a filipino maid is very difficult!


Please, it's a big responsibility if we take in considerating the potential for divorce, but actuall work itself? I never knew raising a kid was considered a 'job'

Because they are all on xanax and drinking Chardonnay.

Seriously some women do like it but I know women who hate it. They Love their kids and husbands but hate being a soccer mom.
It's very dull existence not for everyone.

 

[hairblues]

This is true. Don't forget also being groped on the L train by lonely old men.

That still happens.

 

[blackg]

Then the woman really needs to say something. If not then who is really to blame?

The game.

 

[hairblues]

I said "many older women", you're being dishonest.

You don't have to marry and have children but that won't make you escape society's judgement for it.

God my feminist female friends can't shut up about this on their Facebook: "When will people stop shaming me for not wanting children!"

Despite all the cultural marxist/feminist efforts, society still think that people who can't marry and have children are loser who deserve contempt.

Why? Because going down that path is much harder than not taking any responsibility. There's nothing admirable about remaining childless.



No it's horrible, they're getting bored and unhappy! While all those childless women burning themselves out to climb the corporate ladder are living happy and exciting lives!

Only people to ask me about when I'm having a kid were foreign.
And 2 were much older men
1 was a Romanian man who drove a cab
Other two were Indian a woman and a man separately. One was a housewife I met at a party and the man was my makeup artist.
So you know not really making me feel shamed by society.

 

[blackg]

Seriously some women do like it but I know women who hate it. They Love their kids and husbands but hate being a soccer mom.
It's very dull existence not for everyone.

Well said, sister! Sing it from those Manhattan rooftops.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Only people to ask me about when I'm having a kid were foreign.
And 2 were much older men
1 was a Romanian man who drove a cab
Other two were Indian a woman and a man separately. One was a housewife I met at a party and the man was my makeup artist.
So you know not really making me feel shamed by society.

You've got a makeup artist??

The plot thickens..

 

[hairblues]

You've got a makeup artist??

The plot thickens..

Not like living in my closet.

this was about 8 years ago for a Halloween party.