Why are men struggling on here so much...

[Oknow]

this guy is one of the best trolls ive ever ssen tbh.

im not a troll

 

[Feelsbadman]

im not a troll

post pictures of girls you date?

 

[Oknow]

I'll be honest with you so again please take no offense because it's not my intention but given the stats/pics that you have given about yourself I do not doubt that I would find all the women you are dating unattractive. They may be attractive for you and that is fine though.

I'ts just not possible that you're getting 200 matches with a high rate of quality women in London. Now if you tell me that you're focusing on a niche of indian women who are +30 and one of the qualities they're looking for in a man is financial stability then I can see how you are getting matches...

stats/pics? I’ve never shown you my photos.
You also do not know what any of my matches look like.

 

[Oknow]

post pictures of girls you date?

no, I respect their privacy

 

[Oknow]

I love how triggered these guys are, meeting a dude that has defied the status quo and expectations

you are all narrow minded idiots to be honest, that’s why women do not want to date you

 

[vondoom]

I love how triggered these guys are, meeting a dude that has defied the status quo and expectations

you are all narrow minded idiots to be honest, that’s why women do not want to date you

obviously every dude who goes on dates can only ever be in dates with ugly women who want said dudes cash... what else is new here?^^

 

[Feelsbadman]

no, I respect their privacy

confirmed troll

 

[Feelsbadman]

hey guys i just banged a model in my ferrarri yesterday and im.bald
you guys are triggered

 

[Oknow]

obviously every dude who goes on dates can only ever be in dates with ugly women who want said dudes cash... what else is new here?^^

They don’t seem to understand that everyone is different, and has different preferences. It’s not as simplistic as they make it out to be

When I date women from different backgrounds, they are the open-minded, liberal types where I have met lots who actually find darker skin guys hot - where the women come in all forms.

The good thing about dating apps, is where it is a lot more of an effective way to filter out the closed minded people and open minded ones. The trick is to not hide anything in your photos.

So yeah, these guys make me laugh, talk a lot about being enlightened, but their mindset is so closed minded and rigid.

I also find it super annoying when people make comments about how dating within the same/similar race is easier, it isn’t, some of the women I’ve met with the worse attitudes have been Indians/Middle easterners.

 

[Oknow]

They don’t seem to understand that everyone is different, and has different preferences. It’s not as simplistic as they make it out to be

When I date women from different backgrounds, they are the open-minded, liberal types where I have met lots who actually find darker skin guys hot - where the women come in all forms.

The good thing about dating apps, is where it is a lot more of an effective way to filter out the closed minded people and open minded ones. The trick is to not hide anything in your photos.

So yeah, these guys make me laugh, talk a lot about being enlightened, but their mindset is so closed minded and rigid.

I also find it super annoying when people make comments about how dating within the same/similar race is easier, it isn’t, some of the women I’ve met with the worse attitudes have been Indians/Middle easterners.

on the last point @doubleindemnity is more active with dating Indians, from what he tells me, it’s difficult

 

[Oknow]

There is nothing for me to be triggered about.
I am aware that you have the best intention but your posts remain to be an unrealistic piece of advice that will yield little to no results to any young man.
It would be honest to admit that your dating pool is not appealing to many young men and that your results are highly attributed to this.

I will never understand why some people believe that some guys choose to be depressed and whack off for years on end if they could just download f*****g tinder, post a few pics and have a date with someone they truly like lol. It's offensive.

How the f*** can you make statements about my dating pool without knowing the details?

That’s you projecting your bigoted ideas and more of a reflection of your narrow minded perception of the world.

Thank f*** there are plenty of people out there who are different and a lot more open minded.

Posts like yours are dangerous, a young Indian man could read it and develop an inferiority complex with dating.

I’m successful because I have the courage to go outside of my comfort zone and create opportunities.

it’s not always been easy either, I’ve had sh*t periods too but I’m very good at turning things around.

 

[Oknow]

hey guys i just banged a model in my ferrarri yesterday and im.bald
you guys are triggered

get a system

 

[Feelsbadman]

How the f*** can you make statements about my dating pool without knowing the details?

That’s you projecting your bigoted ideas and more of a reflection of your narrow minded perception of the world.

Thank f*** there are plenty of people out there who are different and a lot more open minded.

Posts like yours are dangerous, a young Indian man could read it and develop an inferiority complex with dating.

I’m successful because I have the courage to go outside of my comfort zone and create opportunities.

it’s not always been easy either, I’ve had sh*t periods too but I’m very good at turning things around.

but why can't you post any proof or evidence that what @Descending Dog is saying is incorrect?

 

[fauxhawk]

Even attractive guys don't pick up chicks daily or have these "hundreds of options" just available to them

Lets use myself as an example here since nobody else wants to post solid proof
- im like maybe a 6 or a 7 after balding, i still manage to to have a decent appearance when buzzing my hair my hair off, 180cm height, good physique, lower then 10% body fat, good jawline, decent facial hair, green eyes etc etc

- i know for sure when i had hair i was higher on the scale maybe what you would consider a "chad" because i never even had to work out to get attention from girls, so im definitely less good looking now compared to back then- but those kind of girls were not matured an chased after looks

an im single for a while now , my gf even dumped me this year lmao. i dont go on dates every weekend or hundreds of matches of chicks wanting to hookup, i get rejected at bars and so on
its not as black & white as you guys make it out to be about 6ft chads vs us, everyone struggles on different levels. Those instragam influencers you think are getting all the women are getting unhappy/shallow wrecks
that you wouldnt want to bring home to your mom
Theres so much other factors involved, dating is just difficult at the end of the day wether your balding or not

 

[Feelsbadman]

Even attractive guys don't pick up chicks daily or have these "hundreds of options" just available to them

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Lets use myself as an example here since nobody else wants to post solid proof
- im like maybe a 6 or a 7 after balding, i still manage to to have a decent appearance when buzzing my hair my hair off, 180cm height, good physique, lower then 10% body fat, good jawline, decent facial hair, green eyes etc etc

- i know for sure when i had hair i was higher on the scale maybe what you would consider a "chad" because i never even had to work out to get attention from girls, so im definitely less good looking now compared to back then- but those kind of girls were not matured an chased after looks

an im single for a while now , my gf even dumped me this year lmao. i dont go on dates every weekend or hundreds of matches of chicks wanting to hookup, i get rejected at bars and so on
its not as black & white as you guys make it out to be about 6ft chads vs us, everyone struggles on different levels. Those instragam influencers you think are getting all the women are getting unhappy/shallow wrecks
that you wouldnt want to bring home to your mom
Theres so much other factors involved, dating is just difficult at the end of the day wether your balding or not

you look good bro

 

[Oknow]

but why can't you post any proof or evidence that what @Descending Dog is saying is incorrect?

So he knows more about my dating life than I do, without ever meeting me?

 

[INT]

do you think girls would turn down brad pitt because he was "too desperate"

Ever heard of this thing called ‘nuance’?

 

[Feelsbadman]

I'm not here to say that it's black and white or that it's over. My recommendation to anybody is to get to be the best they can physically and mentally and live life at its fullest.

The topic we have in hand here is "why some men are struggling so much here if Oknow is killing it as a 5ft11 indian guy in his 30's NOT particularly rich" - his words not mine. And obviously there can be a reasoning as to why that happens and it's all I tried to present. It's just dishonest and mocks my own struggle on finding someone I consider a good match making it look like it's my own choice not to be sleeping everyday with the girl that I like.

I find nothing wrong with admitting that I currently have certain limitations and I'm working on it...

This
It's offensive what they say and poison

Imagine playing in the NBA and then wondering why your 5ft 2 friend who is fat cant seem to make it to NBA level and he just needs to work hard and be positive and he will get there one day

 

[fauxhawk]

I'm not here to say that it's black and white or that it's over. My recommendation to anybody is to get to be the best they can physically and mentally and live life at its fullest.

The topic we have in hand here is "why some men are struggling so much here if Oknow is killing it as a 5ft11 indian guy in his 30's NOT particularly rich" - his words not mine. And obviously there can be a reasoning as to why that happens and it's all I tried to present. It's just dishonest and mocks my own struggle on finding someone I consider a good match making it look like it's my own choice not to be sleeping everyday with the girl that I like.

I find nothing wrong with admitting that I currently have certain limitations and I'm working on it...

I'm not singling anyone out, just giving a differing view to OPs statement that guys are struggling on this forum only.
You will find someone that is a match eventually, aslong as you don't become a serial killer or a pedophile offender one day - but even they get chicks. The world is pretty fucked up place

 

[vondoom]

They don’t seem to understand that everyone is different, and has different preferences. It’s not as simplistic as they make it out to be

When I date women from different backgrounds, they are the open-minded, liberal types where I have met lots who actually find darker skin guys hot - where the women come in all forms.

The good thing about dating apps, is where it is a lot more of an effective way to filter out the closed minded people and open minded ones. The trick is to not hide anything in your photos.

So yeah, these guys make me laugh, talk a lot about being enlightened, but their mindset is so closed minded and rigid.

I also find it super annoying when people make comments about how dating within the same/similar race is easier, it isn’t, some of the women I’ve met with the worse attitudes have been Indians/Middle easterners.

i wait til one of them posts here and tells us about the hot women they are getting left and right...

dont really know about races... in europe i of course had no issues... in asia it is way more difficult to get a relationship, especially on that lasts and isnt just to show off...
for what i see here recently is that foreigners date other foreigners like west/west, west/south asian...
lack of success and some just got tired of the locals antics^^


though i bet south east asia is a walk in the park for everyone...