Women Hate Bald Guys Part II

[swingline747]

Hope? You wish. She had guys like I've just described, and lots of them. Like I said earlier, girls have this habit of telling me everything about them.

She told me she had sex with 29 guys already, and she was 26. And there were a lot of great-looking guys happy to have sex with her and to be in a relationship with her.

It's safe to say that after I got that information, I kissed her good night and never saw her again. No way I'm touching that.

We all hope to get models girls who have huge breasts. And how many of us are going to get that really? The vast majority of us can only blindly hope indeed.

The thing is, women, no matter how ugly they are, no matter how fat they become, they do eventually get the hot guy they want.

And what's the big deal? They will think they deserved it, because they got it. Women truly are the masters of the universe when it comes to the dating scence.

As a once hot guy I can tell you, yes the girl will get the guy.... well at least his c***. I can tell you though it wont last long or hes also plowing other girls. Most of the time a good looking guy (me) would settle for a "meh" girl because it would be easier to get them to be filthy girls in bed.

If that wasnt happening then neither were me and her.

Dont think the better looking guy is sticking around unless she ends up LOVING a*** or he gets her accidentally gets her knocked up.
Also its just ALWAYS easier for a female to get laid than a guy. A lesser attractive woman can grab a decent guy for the night cause he just wants to get his dick wet. Its VERY rare hes going to stick around if anything better comes along.

Ever think she had 29 guys cause she uses sex to TRY and land a BF but they never stick around long enough?

 

[Wolf Pack]

Hope? You wish. She had guys like I've just described, and lots of them. Like I said earlier, girls have this habit of telling me everything about them.

She told me she had sex with 29 guys already, and she was 26. And there were a lot of great-looking guys happy to have sex with her and to be in a relationship with her.

It's safe to say that after I got that information, I kissed her good night and never saw her again. No way I'm having sex with that.

We all hope to get models girls who have huge breasts. And how many of us are going to get that really? The vast majority of us can only blindly hope indeed.

The thing is, women, no matter how ugly they are, no matter how fat they become, they do eventually get the hot guy they want, even if it's for one night.

And what's the big deal? They will think they deserved it, because they got it. Women truly are the masters of the universe when it comes to the dating scene.

You raise some good points but I think you are looking at it wrongly. Even average looking women KNOW they can sleep with as many guys as they want, you rightly pointed this out. But this does NOT mean much to most women. In fact I was drunk recently and a fat bird goes to me that would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to. In the past a girl I casually dated said problem with men is they can't help themselves. Point I am making is women don't see sleeping with many guys as an achievement because they know most guys are up for it.

If they can date a hot guy, that would be something they would be proud of, see the difference? For us it's more about the numbers/trophy girl deep inside.

So no, the dating scene imo is not owned by women. We both have different issues and I would say the dating scene evens out. For many men, it's getting laid that's the issue. For girls, the problems usually begin after they open their legs. Will the guy stick around, does he really like me, does he really find me hot enough e.t.c. e.t.c.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Not true. She has an ugly face as well. She can lose weight but to change her face she would also need surgery. To be rid of the glasses she would need contacts or surgery again. To improve you appearance you could work out and dress nice. You would NOT (in most cases) be as attractive as you would with the hair option but it would still help. Her tits droop. Thats surgery, no working out will fix that. You see where Im going.

I dont think her face is ugly. Let her drop weight, and then let us see.

Glasses: they don't matter to me. I've never thought, man if only that girl took off her glasses.

Tits: It's not like she is naked in the public. And I would not ding a girl because of bad tits if the rest of her was ok.

 

[Fena2000]

Not all women think bald is ugly. My best friend, who's goodlooking, she always fell for bald guys. Her recent boyfriend is bald (NW6, started balding when he was 16), he shaves his head, which I think is way better looking then having some hair. I actually think he would be ugly with hair, since I know him without, kinda weird. If I would be a guy, I would shave my head bald. It definitely makes you look younger that way, I think. For a woman , it's a different story, not that many women walking around completely bald.

 

[Vim]

Not all women think bald is ugly.

We know that.

My best friend, who's goodlooking, she always fell for bald guys. Her recent boyfriend is bald (NW6, started balding when he was 16), he shaves his head, which I think is way better looking then having some hair. I actually think he would be ugly with hair, since I know him without, kinda weird. If I would be a guy, I would shave my head bald. It definitely makes you look younger that way, I think. For a woman , it's a different story, not that many women walking around completely bald.

Of course, because bald suits him, like you said. Your friend is probably falling for handsome bald guys or has a weak spot for bald, rough and muscular types like some girls have. What about the rest of bald men that don't fall in these categories; she falls for them too? Your friend isn't anything special nor worth mentioning here.

 

[Fena2000]

Just trying to be nice and say there are plenty of women out there who like bald guys, giving my friend as an example. Personality plays a big part in it. GRUMPY bald man, not attractive, maybe you should remember that.

 

[RoyD]

Don't give me that bull**** please. Many of us and the more experienced members in this forum know how important hair is in the dating scene. Just coz women don't want to admit it doesn't mean it's the truth. Actions speak louder than words so don't try to sound politically correct. At least not here.
And personality is just bull****! 1) Looks 2) Money. This makes up 90% of a guy's success rate in the dating scene. I'm sure there are very few girls who would reject a shy and awkward 6 ft tall prince with a full head of hair.

 

[Fena2000]

It's not bull****. I know plenty of girls dating a bald guy, but these guys don't seem to put the emphasis on their baldness. I bet you, if you shaved your head, put on some nice clothes, go out and act cool and funny, you would meet a girl within an hour. Now if you are going out and think about it the whole night, girls can smell it, and won't even look at you. A lot of it has to do with the way you act. I've known plenty of guys with a full head of hair and goodlooking, who I didn't like because they had no personality, and I've known guys who had no hair and were funny and cool, who I liked. There are plenty of girls out there like that, the ones that aren't they are just very superficial and you shouldn't be dating them anyway. You can call that bull**** or anything you want, try my advice and see if it helps, but you have to lose the a**h** attitude.

 

[2bald2young]

It's not bull****. I know plenty of girls dating a bald guy, but these guys don't seem to put the emphasis on their baldness. I bet you, if you shaved your head, put on some nice clothes, go out and act cool and funny, you would meet a girl within an hour. Now if you are going out and think about it the whole night, girls can smell it, and won't even look at you. A lot of it has to do with the way you act. I've known plenty of guys with a full head of hair and goodlooking, who I didn't like because they had no personality, and I've known guys who had no hair and were funny and cool, who I liked. There are plenty of girls out there like that, the ones that aren't they are just very superficial and you shouldn't be dating them anyway. You can call that bull**** or anything you want, try my advice and see if it helps, but you have to lose the a**h** attitude.

If what you say is true then I would like to compliment you for not being as swallow as other females. However from a lot of personal experience I can safely say that females in my age groups either don't care about your personality or they only care a little bit. They are pretty swallow and only care about looks, one major flaw and they start to ignore you (no jokes). Not that the males are any different though.

 

[2bald2young]

No need to sugarcoat the truth. 1% of women may tolerate bald men but there must be something wrong with these women.

Personality? Yeah right. Experiments have been made with pictures of male models on dating websites.

The truth is that they can be as rude and forward as they want and the girl will still give them their number and beg these NW1 guys to see them.

Suddenly us bald men have to be like supermen with awesome personalities? Just admit baldness is hated if we have to compensate so much.

Personality my ***. I guess I have to say it again: nothing will compensate for a bald head other than hair.

But then you have hair and you don't need to compensate for it .

 

[Vim]

Lets make it simple. If baldness doesn't make you ugly then you're fine. If it does, like it does to the majority of men then you are screwed. We all know the power of physical appearance, thats the reason we are trying to keep our hair. What 'liking bald' guys really means, is that they don't mind the lack of hair on a bald handsome guy who can pull that look, not baldness itself. You cant come here and simplify to the extent that some women like bald guys, nop. We already know when we shave our head and look in the mirror if we are in the lucky group of bald men or not.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Lets make it simple. If baldness doesn't make you ugly then you're fine. If it does, like it does to the majority of men then you are screwed. We all know the power of physical appearance, thats the reason we are trying to keep our hair. What 'liking bald' guys really means, is that they don't mind the lack of hair on a bald handsome guy who can pull that look, not baldness itself. You cant come here and simplify to the extent that some women like bald guys, nop. We already know when we shave our head and look in the mirror if we are in the lucky group of bald men or not.

Brilliant point Vim.

 

[Fena2000]

I didn't date that many guys, one of the guys I dated was balding, but I didn't like him anymore because he was very boring, not because of his hair. I also met a guy, looked like a model, but sooo big headed, didn't like him after 1 day. The third guy I dated , I married. He was skinny back then ,had a head full of hair, but I didnt really like him in the beginning until I really started to know him . His humor and intelligence is what did it for me, not his hair. I think it's the immature, dumb hihi girls that are way into the looks.

 

[Vim]

I didn't date that many guys, one of the guys I dated was balding, but I didn't like him anymore because he was very boring, not because of his hair. I also met a guy, looked like a model, but sooo big headed, didn't like him after 1 day. The third guy I dated , I married. He was skinny back then ,had a head full of hair, but I didnt really like him in the beginning until I really started to know him . His humor and intelligence is what did it for me, not his hair. I think it's the immature, dumb hihi girls that are way into the looks.

Well thats just seduction, which requires time, and unfortunately lots of bald guys are not given the privilege of time to seduce a women.

 

[CaptainForehead]

The third guy I dated , I married. He was skinny back then ,had a head full of hair, but I didnt really like him in the beginning until I really started to know him . His humor and intelligence is what did it for me, not his hair.

It is not that looks are the main selling point for guys with hair, it is that lack of looks is a deal breaker.
In your case, you dated your husband even though you didn't like him in the beginning -- you gave him a chance.
The question to ask is, would that chance have been given to him were he NW6 bald?

 

[doublebatman]

Keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better.

Picture your husband with a NW7 horseshoe, Danny DeVito style.

Would you still have married him? That's what I thought.

Sorry to tell you about the real world we live.

It's not the dumb girls only who are into looks, it's all the girls.



Exactly! Good looking guys kiss and get the girl while being clumsy, too fast, and doing plenty of mistakes, while bald men can be super smooth, charming and impressive for dates and dates and the very same girl would still deny them the kiss and put them in the friend zone.

Plenty of people get with men despite them having **** hair (> Norwood 4)

It's a bit presumptuous to think that this person wouldn't have got with her husband if he was a Norwood 7, and who nowadays seriously rocks around with a "danny devito"? If you had any sense you'd shave that **** down.

Yes baldness is ****, yes it's a handicap and it will make it harder to get with women but to assume that nobody is attracted to bald men is a bit much.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Yes baldness is ****, yes it's a handicap and it will make it harder to get with women but to assume that nobody is attracted to bald men is a bit much.

This I agree with.

 

[doublebatman]

Attracted? One can assume no woman is attracted to bald men, that would be like being attracted to fat dudes.

It would only be the case if some women had some weird kind of fetish. so 0,1% of the population.

No, women will tolerate baldness in a man, like I've said, it's a compromise. She would be attracted to the guy despite his baldness.

I think fat people are quite different. When women look at fat men they assume he is lazy, unhealthy, irresponsible in addition to being unattractive.

Balding can look creepy on some of us but I think obese people get stigmatized more (and rightly so)

 

[CaptainForehead]

Attracted? One can assume no woman is attracted to bald men, that would be like being attracted to fat dudes.

It would only be the case if some women had some weird kind of fetish. so 0,1% of the population.

No, women will tolerate baldness in a man, like I've said, it's a compromise. She would be attracted to the guy despite his baldness.

I disagree. Some dudes can pull off the bald look *very* well. As someone just said, it is about how aesthetic you are with baldness.

 

[Fena2000]

Women like goog looking guys.

If baldness doesnt suit you and you are going bald, that means you are probably not good looking. The worse looking a man is, the less attractive women find him. It's not like women in general hate bald guys.
It's that most of guys look so bad bald.


women would find this guy more attractive than most of the guys that has hair, even if his hairline went up:
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women are just not sexually attracted to bald men that look bad. Stop with this:"women hate baldness" thing.

Exactly Toms. Agreed.