life is over :[

HatPrisoner91 · Feb 10, 2009

Quantum Cat said:
cleverusername said:

You aren't bald at all you twat but go ahead and kill yourself you pussy.

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that's not a very helpful thing to say, especially to depression sufferers :thumbsdown:

I agree with the poster about the OP not being bald at all but man that is a bit harsh.

follicle84 · Feb 10, 2009

Have you tried HTP 5? It isnt a drug but a supplement that works by speeding the production of seratonin (the hormone responsible for making you feel happy). Its claimed to be like a natural prozac but without the nasty side effects. It wont be great but it'll make you feel a little better without no repercussions. I have used it and can say it does improve mood.

barcafan · Feb 10, 2009

I heard 5HTP isnt effective because it doesn't cross the blood brain barrier. I actually heard it can be very harmful.

Petchsky · Feb 10, 2009

5HTP definitely works in the brain. It makes the brain more sensitive to serotonin as opposed to producing more of it. The reason i'm so sure is that I took alot of it during my rave days to tackle the comedown from ecstasy, and it worked a treat, but remember kids, only mugs take drugs :innocent:

follicle84 · Feb 10, 2009

Same here thats how i know about such supplements. I went slightly manic from these drugs and took htp 5 to help me out and it and it did. Thats in the past now and i regret doing it.

Gboy2k8 · Feb 16, 2009

ok,
the normal update.

Guess I got nothing to hide now ,
3 months and some days in.

Quantum Cat · Feb 16, 2009

that looks pretty good. you must respond well to the meds. Did you get any shedding from using Min?

Gboy2k8 · Feb 16, 2009

Quantum Cat said:
that looks pretty good. you must respond well to the meds. Did you get any shedding from using Min?

I think I had a slight shed at about 1.5 months but my hair was too short so I really don't know.
It's still way far from perfect, I'm doing the best I can to cover things up.
The wierd thing about my hair is that I never noticed any hairs fall out at all,
they just got thinner and thinner.

ghg · Feb 17, 2009

So that's a high hairline in your opinion? Haha, what the f*** is this world coming to? I bet no one would think your hairline is high. You want some kinda caveman look with no forehead? Is that cool in your opinion?

iwantperfection · Feb 17, 2009

why all the complaining about not geting girls? Your good looking guy (no homo). hair looking good. You look bit like james franco.

ali777 · Feb 17, 2009

iwantperfection said:
why all the complaining about not geting girls? Your good looking guy (no homo). hair looking good. You look bit like james franco.

That's because most of the guys that frequent this forum have issues, including me :whistle: . We should grow some balls, go out, and talk to the women...

I'm actually not that bad... I talk to women and there are a few potential ones in the pipeline, but I don't want to ask anyone out. I don't want a relationship at the moment, unless I fall for someone....

HatPrisoner91 · Feb 17, 2009

ghg said:
So that's a high hairline in your opinion? Haha, what the f*ck is this world coming to? I bet no one would think your hairline is high. You want some kinda caveman look with no forehead? Is that cool in your opinion?

I agree. It's like people who have some light thinning and claim to be bald. Oh wait, that's you lol.

iwantperfection · Feb 17, 2009

gboy u have what women love, dark features. get out and pull.

hatprisoner set up beautifully

Gboy2k8 · Feb 17, 2009

ghg said:
So that's a high hairline in your opinion? Haha, what the f*ck is this world coming to? I bet no one would think your hairline is high. You want some kinda caveman look with no forehead? Is that cool in your opinion?

The only reason I think that way is because of other's opinions.
I actually wasn't aware of my hair problem until many ppl told me im going bald.

Gboy2k8 · Feb 17, 2009

iwantperfection said:
gboy u have what women love, dark features. get out and pull.

hatprisoner set up beautifully

Guess looks is not all wantperfection,
I just don't know how to talk to girls, I'm the most boring idiot you ever met believe me.

Gboy2k8 · Feb 17, 2009

iwantperfection said:
why all the complaining about not geting girls? Your good looking guy (no homo). hair looking good. You look bit like james franco.

I do alot to keep it that way, and to hide what needs.
Why all the complaining ?
I'll be 22 soon , and have absolutly no experience.

I remember when I was 16 everyone started dating and things,
and I was just a loner.
I tried many times with girls with no luck -
pubs, parties, I dunno.
I have no relation to girls, the only girl I have her number on my cell is my mom, and we don't talk that much either.

I'm not gay , I'm always thinking about girls its just not working I simply don't get it.

Smooth · Feb 17, 2009

Well, you have the looks (confirmed by a model-boy above), the only ones that *might* tell you have some sort of hair loss (which i honestly doubt seing your picture above) are guys who losing their hair too, and really people like us...who obssesed with it, no way, no way, no way(!!) on earth that a women will make any commet about your hair line! get that into your head!
I think that the best thing for you to go out clubbing with a friend or 2 who know how to mess around, these guys usally love to "help" i.e show-off their "skills"... take notes, knock the first few out of the way and you'll be finshing in no-time..

s.a.f · Feb 17, 2009

Gboy2k8 said:
Guess looks is not all wantperfection,
I just don't know how to talk to girls, I'm the most boring idiot you ever met believe me.

Not many young guys are playa's.
Maybe you'll never do that well with the women but it happens to alot of guys.
You need to realise that you're taking a totally pessimistic view things are'nt anywhere near as bad as you're making out.
Your main problem is that you're taking your lack of success to harshly just relax abit.
Everybody knows how it works - go out hunting and come home alone, just go out to have fun and you always do better.

ali777 · Feb 17, 2009

s.a.f said:
Gboy2k8 said:

Guess looks is not all wantperfection,
I just don't know how to talk to girls, I'm the most boring idiot you ever met believe me.

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Not many young guys are playa's.
Maybe you'll never do that well with the women but it happens to alot of guys.
You need to realise that you're taking a totally pessimistic view things are'nt anywhere near as bad as you're making out.
Your main problem is that you're taking your lack of success to harshly just relax abit.
Everybody knows how it works - go out hunting and come home alone, just go out to have fun and you always do better.

The first time is the hardest, that's why SOME young guys lack confidence. I've been there as well... Once the ball gets rolling things get much easier.

I didn't used to pay attention, but I started realising that lots of people around my age get involved in "temporary" relationships. I'm not talking about pulling a girl from the bar or having a one night stand with a friend, I'm talking about "friends with benefits" sort of a relationship. Most of the single girls I know are desperate and willing to try short term relationships rather than being alone.

I'm kinda working on one of them, but I don't know how to make the move :dunno:. Maybe I should just ask her out on a date :woot:, she knows I don't want anything serious, so if both of us are after the same thing....

Thickandthin · Feb 17, 2009

You know that in your recent pictures your hair looks exactly the same as it did in that picture you posted from when you were 18, right?

You are probably not balding at all.

You probably have Body Dysmorphic Disorder, along with a whole host of other neuroses. You need to get your sh*t together NOW while you are still young.

I am by no means a perfect male specimen and really don't even have that much "game", but I've always got a few options when it comes to women (even if they aren't my ideal). I just act confident even when I'm not. And confidence (or atleast, knowing how to fake it) is bred from experience.

Get with some girls who aren't 10s. sh*t, go for some 5s and 6s. They'll probably respond very well to you even if you are awkward. Bone a few of em. Just get some experience under your belt...because the longer you wait for "the right one" to come along (and that's exactly what you are doing, whether you want to admit or not) then the harder it will be to break out of your fantasy zone and start living your life. Let go of your unrealistic expectations about women and yourself, and look around at all the ridiculous couples you see. They can find somebody - so can you.

In summary: Stop making excuses about your failures in life, take charge and get your sh*t straight before its too late.

life is over :[

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