Thread of women commenting negatively on baldness

[Deadman1]

Cant you see how pathetic this thread is? going through god knows how many forums looking for women who have insulted bald guys or saying bald guys are not my thing etc...who knows how many forums you guys have been in and missed out the women saying they liked bald guys or forums with nothing bad being said in them...you just looking for something to hate on...be different if you out and about and someone insulted you out the blue but its not the case...all you doing is stating the obvious some women dont dig the bald look? or there is shallow people? or there is people horrible to others cause they are bald? oh really? you dont say?...im not trying to be an arse here im really not or sticking or for people you are on about but this thread is stupid.

The only pathetic thing I see is someone sticking their head in the sand because they don't want to face reality. You know how many forums I went through to find the 6 comments I posted above? One. As far as missing out on all the forums where nothing bad was being said about baldness, look at all the forums where nothing is being said about murder, but that doesn't make it right. And you are wrong about "some women don't like the bald look". Most don't. The vast majority don't. Only some do, and that's because they are fat and ugly and have to accept it to get a guy.

You are trying too hard to convince yourself that your baldness isn't hated by women. Sorry but that just isn't the case. The tread isn't stupid, it is reality. Stupid is denying it.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Hair loss is stupid. I want to get smart and grow some flipping hair.:book:

 

[CaptainForehead]

Being unattractive is one thing but they make it out to be like these people are monsters or something... that is the hurtful inference that most people make. If anyone who thinks I'm a terrible human being and ascribes all of these negative traits to me because I'm bald then I know I am dealing with a prejudice, narrow minded a$$ wipe and that should be the end of that thought process right there. I don't care if 98% of the world thinks like that, it doesn't make them right.

Typically unattractive people are ascribed negative traits, unjustly. Holds especially true for women, they can be vicious. Three rules for not being a creep:
1. Be Handsome
2. Be Attractive
3. Don't Be Unattractive

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4

 

[uncomfortable man]

The tread isn't stupid, it is reality. Stupid is denying it.

No, stupid is believing that just because someone is good looking that somehow that makes them a better person, or conversely if someone is ugly that that inherently makes them a bad person. That is stupid.

There is no doubt much of the worlds culture is becoming more shallow and superficial. It may be the reality but the question is do you agree with it or not?

 

[DannyBoyy]

The only pathetic thing I see is someone sticking their head in the sand because they don't want to face reality. You know how many forums I went through to find the 6 comments I posted above? One. As far as missing out on all the forums where nothing bad was being said about baldness, look at all the forums where nothing is being said about murder, but that doesn't make it right. And you are wrong about "some women don't like the bald look". Most don't. The vast majority don't. Only some do, and that's because they are fat and ugly and have to accept it to get a guy.

You are trying too hard to convince yourself that your baldness isn't hated by women. Sorry but that just isn't the case. The tread isn't stupid, it is reality. Stupid is denying it.

Head in the sand huh? me back when i was in my teens with the lovely hair you would love to have when i was bullied by everyone hell even teachers had a go would laugh at that statement...nothing to do with baldness you may say point is why would i have my head in the sand now when i always been judged?...my look has always been "hated"...so that statement dont mean crap to me i stopped caring about what others think about me regardless a long time ago...but thats a different story and the murder thing? thats a silly example and you know it its always an excuse you seem to have convinced yourself the forums with no bald hate do have hate just not happened to be said...you are just assuming sure some in those forums could hate bald guys but i could use any subject and say that its just silly...and good for you you went to one forum but i wasnt just on about you...an please dont make crap up i never said baldness isnt hated by women...hell i pretty much said the opposite of this IN my message you even mention it in your message that i say "some women dont like the bald look etc" so you are no offence but talking out your ***...and only "fat" and "ugly" like the look? you really convinced yourself this havent you? cant you see how silly it sounds? and look at you who are you to judge people about being "fat" or "ugly" anyway? you no better then the people who judge bald guys...anyway please read this bit again you seem to have had trouble last time..."all you doing is stating the obvious some women dont dig the bald look? or there is shallow people? or there is people horrible to others cause they are bald? oh really? you dont say?...why you think i said this?

 

[Primo]

If you ask me, it's pretty sad cherrypicking the internet for anti baldness threads. Don't get me wrong, we all know baldness affects how we look aesthetically and no ones saying you should join Slybaldguys or run down the street butt naked with a larry david horseshoe, but hiding under this thick blanket of negativity and cop out excuses is also living in denial.

Every bald guy has options, you don't have to look like a creep or a weirdo if you make even half an effort with your appearance. If after all that work, crafting and reinventing your image as a bald man, you're still not happy, or if you're in that unlucky 20% of bald guys who GENUINELY look really bad bald, then get some hair transplants or a high quality hair piece and be that full head NW1 guy that everybody on here jizzes over constantly. It's that easy!

If women are that simple and easy to please then a high quality NW1 hairpiece should = job done with the ladies, you will be instantly irresistable without even having to open your mouth, right?.... but we all know these people will never take action and follow through because lack of hair is just another cosy, cop out excuse for lots of guys who've never had any talent or charisma getting with women in the first place (even when Nw1s) to rely on and pin all their life failures on, to alleviate them of all personal responsibility.

Some people just need to take some f*cking ownership for their own failings (especially with regards to women), instead of living in denial and blaming everything on hair.

 

[DoctorHouse]

If you ask me, it's pretty sad cherrypicking the internet for anti baldness threads. Don't get me wrong, we all know baldness affects how we look aesthetically and no ones saying you should join Slybaldguys or run down the street butt naked with a larry david horseshoe, but hiding under this thick blanket of negativity and cop out excuses is also living in denial.

Every bald guy has options, you don't have to look like a creep or a weirdo if you make even half an effort with your appearance. If after all that work, crafting and reinventing your image as a bald man, you're still not happy, or if you're in that unlucky 20% of bald guys who GENUINELY look really bad bald, then get some hair transplants or a high quality hair piece and be that full head NW1 guy that everybody on here jizzes over constantly. It's that easy!

If women are that simple and easy to please then a high quality NW1 hairpiece should = job done with the ladies, you will be instantly irresistable without even having to open your mouth, right?.... but we all know these people will never take action and follow through because lack of hair is just another cosy, cop out excuse for lots of guys who've never had any talent or charisma getting with women in the first place (even when Nw1s) to rely on and pin all their life failures on, to alleviate them of all personal responsibility.

Some people just need to take some f*cking ownership for their own failings (especially with regards to women), instead of living in denial and blaming everything on hair.

Bravo Primo, you have come along way in your words of wisdom. I have retired from here

 

[swingline747]

If you ask me, it's pretty sad cherrypicking the internet for anti baldness threads. Don't get me wrong, we all know baldness affects how we look aesthetically and no ones saying you should join Slybaldguys or run down the street butt naked with a larry david horseshoe, but hiding under this thick blanket of negativity and cop out excuses is also living in denial.

Every bald guy has options, you don't have to look like a creep or a weirdo if you make even half an effort with your appearance. If after all that work, crafting and reinventing your image as a bald man, you're still not happy, or if you're in that unlucky 20% of bald guys who GENUINELY look really bad bald, then get some hair transplants or a high quality hair piece and be that full head NW1 guy that everybody on here jizzes over constantly. It's that easy!

If women are that simple and easy to please then a high quality NW1 hairpiece should = job done with the ladies, you will be instantly irresistable without even having to open your mouth, right?.... but we all know these people will never take action and follow through because lack of hair is just another cosy, cop out excuse for lots of guys who've never had any talent or charisma getting with women in the first place (even when Nw1s) to rely on and pin all their life failures on, to alleviate them of all personal responsibility.

Some people just need to take some f*cking ownership for their own failings (especially with regards to women), instead of living in denial and blaming everything on hair.

Okay I agree with you hole heartedly on your comment, but let me play devils advocate on someone whos on both sides of the coin.
I have vehemently said in the past with my even NW2 hairline I could go out and grab girls without even trying yet since its gotten to the point where you could tell its thin and combed around I get nada in the attention dept from women anymore. Yet again we are talking a few years of youth and a more confident attitude but attitude is also dependant on the past encounters with women.
Anyway
I DO NOT look good bald, it has been said to me by EVERY women I work with now that I started growing in my hair again. I can NOT use the drugs, I never recovered from finasteride fully. minoxidil does little to nothing. Dermarolling showed no signs of helping but time is key as well. I work out and eat right like a madman. Nothing worked for me.
I have done my first FUE. I know it will never equate to the hair I had or what my brother has but its all I can do.
At that point does someone have the right to blame the hair?

I do believe this thread itself is a pity party. Sometimes certain people need a pity party to hit bottom so you can rebuild.... in the words of a WISE MAN "Hitting bottom isnt a weekend retreat, Its a god damned seminar"

In the future these threads pop up maybe its just better to let them fizzle out if you dont agree and not try to play the other side. I commented here but it was more fun than anything else and actually took the side of the female. To be angry at the opposite sex for not liking baldness is a futile thing. You can be down about it but you can't hate them for it. You can try your attempts at correcting it with procedures, drugs, vitamins, dermarolling, hair systems working out etc etc but in the end if all you do is blame women you are going to end up with nothing but 30 dead hookers in your basement.

For every girl who dislikes my hair there is a girl who might not who I PERSONALLY dislike for certain physical aspects, its really a trade off. The MAIN thing that aggravates me about my male pattern baldness is that my brother will never have to deal with it. I see him out there still getting the attention and still retaining the confidence I once had. Had he also started losing his hair, I probably would NOT be on this forum.

 

[Benjamin36]

Unfortunately some women and even men who haven't experienced hair loss think that treating it is as easy as using Propecia or Rogaine. They see the advertisements and think that every person who uses them will get their hair back. A friend of mine (girl) commented to me about her boyfriend's bald spot a while back saying that she keeps pushing him to get back on his pills (propecia). It was pretty obvious from the way that she said it that she was under the impression that if he took them then his hair loss would completely recover.

 

[VeprSuper]

Swingline, I'm no psychoanalyst but I think it's time you shanghai'd your brother and put him on a ship to China never to be seen or heard from again:woot:. If he escapes, sign him up for Mars One.

 

[swingline747]

Swingline, I'm no psychoanalyst but I think it's time you shanghai'd your brother and put him on a ship to China never to be seen or heard from again:woot:. If he escapes, sign him up for Mars One.

I keep telling him in going to sneak into his apartment at night while he sleeps and electrolysis out his hair little by little

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I keep telling him in going to sneak into his apartment at night while he sleeps and electrolysis out his hair little by little

Besides I put him on a boat and his lucky *** would probably end up on some treasure ship and be entitled to millions

 

[I.D WALKER]

Maybe we are dealing with a chronic case of self fulfilling prophecy.

 

[yadayada029]

Women are inherently self conscious. We spend so much time tearing ourselves down, and for what reason. When some woman, you find attractive, is putting you down because of your hair loss, tell her you find her beautiful, and mention her gunt as your favorite feature. That should fix her up.

 

[hellouser]

Women are inherently self conscious. We spend so much time tearing ourselves down, and for what reason. When some woman, you find attractive, is putting you down because of your hair loss, tell her you find her beautiful, and mention her gunt as your favorite feature. That should fix her up.

Just tell them your favourite feature is their makeup, because everything underneath all those layers of fraud isnt work looking at.

 

[CaptainForehead]

When some woman, you find attractive, is putting you down because of your hair loss, tell her you find her beautiful, and mention her gunt as your favorite feature. That should fix her up.

 

[Deadman1]

No, stupid is believing that just because someone is good looking that somehow that makes them a better person, or conversely if someone is ugly that that inherently makes them a bad person. That is stupid.

There is no doubt much of the worlds culture is becoming more shallow and superficial. It may be the reality but the question is do you agree with it or not?

Take a pretty girl with her car broke down on the side of the road vs an fat, old, or ugly girl and guess which one guys will stop to help. The topic is not about looks making someone a bad person. It is about looks making them attractive.

I am not saying looks determine if someone is bad or good. It's just that I don't want to sit there and look at an ugly person all day, and that is why women don't like bald guys.

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If you ask me, it's pretty sad cherrypicking the internet for anti baldness threads. Don't get me wrong, we all know baldness affects how we look aesthetically and no ones saying you should join Slybaldguys or run down the street butt naked with a larry david horseshoe, but hiding under this thick blanket of negativity and cop out excuses is also living in denial.

Every bald guy has options, you don't have to look like a creep or a weirdo if you make even half an effort with your appearance. If after all that work, crafting and reinventing your image as a bald man, you're still not happy, or if you're in that unlucky 20% of bald guys who GENUINELY look really bad bald, then get some hair transplants or a high quality hair piece and be that full head NW1 guy that everybody on here jizzes over constantly. It's that easy!

If women are that simple and easy to please then a high quality NW1 hairpiece should = job done with the ladies, you will be instantly irresistable without even having to open your mouth, right?.... but we all know these people will never take action and follow through because lack of hair is just another cosy, cop out excuse for lots of guys who've never had any talent or charisma getting with women in the first place (even when Nw1s) to rely on and pin all their life failures on, to alleviate them of all personal responsibility.

Some people just need to take some f*cking ownership for their own failings (especially with regards to women), instead of living in denial and blaming everything on hair.

It's not cherry picking. Do a search for bald and that's what will come up. Women probably hate hair pieces more than baldness so that is not an option. As for transplants. nothing has changed for the last 50 years despite the "advancements" everyone claims. Still a limited amount of donor hair to make it look acceptable.

You and others here are in denial. The quotes I posted prove women don't like the bald look. Not once did I find anything that said "I like the bald look but the guy doesn't have talent or charisma". Having talent and charisma doesn't change whether a woman is attracted to you.

 

[swingline747]

I find one thing worse than women commenting negatively on baldness.... the one who comment positively.

http://www.yourtango.com/2013200100/what-women-really-think-bald-men

look at this thread. See the comments by the two women who are more against it and the one who likes it. Hover their pics and look at them.

the ONE who says she likes it is utterly disgusting, on disability and apparently lives with her 90 year old father.

The other 2 are sexy. This is what I see more often than not. The ONE woman who says she likes bald guys is just gross. Yes Im being shallow but F**K it. I can be pretty pissed my options so drastically went from the top two women to that bottom one who probably has 8 cats.

 

[Primo]

It's not cherry picking. Do a search for bald and that's what will come up. Women probably hate hair pieces more than baldness so that is not an option. As for transplants. nothing has changed for the last 50 years despite the "advancements" everyone claims. Still a limited amount of donor hair to make it look acceptable.

Are you sure you're not "probably" just making excuses? If baldness is the great female stigma you claim, then surely anything including a hairpiece is better than a bald head. Besides, much less stigma wearing a permanent piece in a woman's eyes, than being outed for using daily hair loss medication or rocking a wispy looking combover style every day as most balding guys do.

You clearly despise the thought of being a bald man and jizz over the thought of being a nw1 every night, if then, you had any backbone at all you would realise that dream of yours with a high quality undetectable hair piece, which would give you the big floppy head of hair you obviously crave, but nope, you're too busy wallowing under that thick blanket of self pity and cop out excuses like most people here. Don't worry you're not alone.

You and others here are in denial. The quotes I posted prove women don't like the bald look. Not once did I find anything that said "I like the bald look but the guy doesn't have talent or charisma".

Thank you for stating the obvious, I think most of us have been well aware of this for years, but i hasn't stopped us living or having a regular, active love life. Maybe for your next bit of scientific research you could investigate if women like broke guys, short guys, skinny guys, ugly guys, or best of all, insecure guys who whine and cry make excuses for themselves all the time.

Having talent and charisma doesn't change whether a woman is attracted to you.

lol, you keep telling yourself that "Deadman", it's guys with your cowardly, can't do attitude that make the dating game so much easier to navigate for those men with any balls or backbone at all, who take what they want and refuse to make cop out excuses for their own failings at every opportunity (bald or non bald).

 

[swingline747]

We need more posters like Primo.

For Swingline who thinks that hot women despise baldness more than ugly women, I found the opposite to be true. Less attractive women will be more insecure and will want a "trophy boyfriend" that they can show off to their female friends. Beautiful girls don't care about that, they can virtually get any man they want, so they usually won't care if you're balding, as long as they find you cool.

Now that I have lived almost 3 years of my life bald, I can tell you the truth you don't want to hear Deadman: women simply don't care about whether you're bald or balding that much. If you're an interesting and funny guy that has some sense of style, they will be attracted to you. It's the same for hair pieces, they don't care about what you do, what you like or whatever, they care about whether you're confident about what you do and what you believe in. When my father told my mother he was wearing a hair piece: she just did not care. When I explained to my ex-girlfriends that I might have a hair transplant in the future, they were very supportive.

It's all about attitude, honesty and confidence.

Fred let me ask you. the girls you meet are they through others or just randomly out and about?
I find if you are meeting someone through a friend or mutual acquaintance its easier if you have some unflattering feature because they usually get to see a pic or get informed of it prior. Yet trying to get the attention of an attractive girl out and about enough to strike conversation without EXTREME effort is a different story.
Also still be aware we live in very different places. I know from personal experience the difference in female attention I used to receive to now. The attention my brother still gets to how girls will look right through me if we are together where it used to be completely opposite. I receive attention from a VERY different caliber of women now, and TRUST me I never went for 10's. I was always a tight 7 to 8 guy. A good body and nice hair is what I usually go for.

I also tell girls and ANYONE else I wanted/got my FUE done. To me it shows initiative to fix and change negative aspects of yourself aside just sit back and mope.

 

[swingline747]

This one is simple: I've never met any girl through a friend or a mutual acquaintance in all my life. Well, I made an exception this summer, and she treated me like crap.

But it had nothing to do with my baldness. She said I was too confident, and it was a shame because I was handsome. She then told my best friend I was a monster or something like that.

I like to go for random girls that don't know me at all or that aren't part of my social circle, I feel much more comfortable doing this because I can avoid the gossiping.

Yeah Im the same way. then when you break up there is no awkward social getherings



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