If you ask me, it's pretty sad cherrypicking the internet for anti baldness threads. Don't get me wrong, we all know baldness affects how we look aesthetically and no ones saying you should join Slybaldguys or run down the street butt naked with a larry david horseshoe, but hiding under this thick blanket of negativity and cop out excuses is also living in denial.
Every bald guy has options, you don't have to look like a creep or a weirdo if you make even half an effort with your appearance. If after all that work, crafting and reinventing your image as a bald man, you're still not happy, or if you're in that unlucky 20% of bald guys who GENUINELY look really bad bald, then get some hair transplants or a high quality hair piece and be that full head NW1 guy that everybody on here jizzes over constantly. It's that easy!
If women are that simple and easy to please then a high quality NW1 hairpiece should = job done with the ladies, you will be instantly irresistable without even having to open your mouth, right?.... but we all know these people will never take action and follow through because lack of hair is just another cosy, cop out excuse for lots of guys who've never had any talent or charisma getting with women in the first place (even when Nw1s) to rely on and pin all their life failures on, to alleviate them of all personal responsibility.
Some people just need to take some f*cking ownership for their own failings (especially with regards to women), instead of living in denial and blaming everything on hair.
Okay I agree with you hole heartedly on your comment, but let me play devils advocate on someone whos on both sides of the coin.
I have vehemently said in the past with my even NW2 hairline I could go out and grab girls without even trying yet since its gotten to the point where you could tell its thin and combed around I get nada in the attention dept from women anymore. Yet again we are talking a few years of youth and a more confident attitude but attitude is also dependant on the past encounters with women.
Anyway
I DO NOT look good bald, it has been said to me by EVERY women I work with now that I started growing in my hair again. I can NOT use the drugs, I never recovered from finasteride fully. minoxidil does little to nothing. Dermarolling showed no signs of helping but time is key as well. I work out and eat right like a madman. Nothing worked for me.
I have done my first FUE. I know it will never equate to the hair I had or what my brother has but its all I can do.
At that point does someone have the right to blame the hair?
I do believe this thread itself is a pity party. Sometimes certain people need a pity party to hit bottom so you can rebuild.... in the words of a WISE MAN "Hitting bottom isnt a weekend retreat, Its a god damned seminar"
In the future these threads pop up maybe its just better to let them fizzle out if you dont agree and not try to play the other side. I commented here but it was more fun than anything else and actually took the side of the female. To be angry at the opposite sex for not liking baldness is a futile thing. You can be down about it but you can't hate them for it. You can try your attempts at correcting it with procedures, drugs, vitamins, dermarolling, hair systems working out etc etc but in the end if all you do is blame women you are going to end up with nothing but 30 dead hookers in your basement.
For every girl who dislikes my hair there is a girl who might not who I PERSONALLY dislike for certain physical aspects, its really a trade off. The MAIN thing that aggravates me about my male pattern baldness is that my brother will never have to deal with it. I see him out there still getting the attention and still retaining the confidence I once had. Had he also started losing his hair, I probably would NOT be on this forum.
