Confidence And Charisma More Important Than Hair?

[SmoothSailing]

Anita Sarkeesian is a contributing factor. Everything is sexist. Everything is racist.

A symptom of the problem more so than a cause. Dumb c**** have likely always existed. It's only now that their voices can actually have an affect on things.

 

[hellouser]

Did not know who Anita Sarkeesian was, so I googled her. Came across this picture..

That's just the tip of the iceberg... but Anita Sarkeesian is the slime of humanity. Now, to put things into perspective for some of you guys;

She's from Toronto.... and there are MANY women like her here. Now try being a balding guy around these parasites.

 

[hairblues]

Do you think that with each decade, society just tries to 'one-up' the previous decade with essentially everything? Looks, attitudes, fashions, music, etc and go to the extremes? I find that women we're more subtle about things in the past whereas now it seems be a free-for-all overload of everything SEX oriented. I can't imagine what's to come in the next decade...

I think there have been periods where it goes back and forth a bit I dont know about 'now'.

But you had roaring 20s even some early films were like 'soft p**rn' compared to films in 30 40 and 50s when censorship came about.

you also had time or roman orgies and then you switch to puritanical times when women were burnt at the stake as 'witches' if they did not fit in I assume men too actually burnt as witches actually.

 

[F2005]

True, attractive people may have other problems, but they have an absolute HUGE leg up on the competition when it comes to being treated like princes and princesses in society. As I've said before, I've seen attractive people lie, cheat, talk about out of their *** all the time, and behave extremely badly, yet they still get beautiful mates and will never be lonely. Because they are physically attractive and beautiful people are put on absolute pedestals in today's society.

Being physically attractive (and for many of us that entails having a full head of hair) has a direct correlation to our emotional and even physical well-being. When we look good, we feel good, and when we feel good, we are more prone to being more thoughtful, generous, kind, outgoing, and motivated to become successful. When I feel that I look bad, it feels like a huge weight is driving me into the ground. And who can function happily in that state of mind?

It seems like lots of the people do not realize the correlation between good looks and quality of life are the ones who have virtually no hair loss whatsoever, or at least are low enough of a Norwood so that baldness does not erode their looks at all. Yet I've noticed that the higher Norwoods, the ones whose looks are truly affected by hair loss, are the ones who truly realize the importance of outer looks in today's extremely visual society. You don't know what you've got til it's gone and you never truly realize something's devastating effects until it happens to you personally.

 

[F2005]

People can make up problems to attract attention.

I know, I know.

It just pisses me off when problem invent problems (with solutions).

That first sentence is very true. I think that kind of speaks to why some members on here are so extremely active in posting, yet they barely have any hair loss whatsoever (if any at all). I think it's just insane. And I agree with what you said about the "chemical imbalance nonsense". Don't get me wrong, I do believe that some people's depression is a result of chemical imbalance. Yet I also believe the psychiatrists try to attribute every single problem to a chemical imbalance and try to put you on various drugs as a result. I remember when I saw a psychiatrist as a result of my depression due to hair loss. He tried to put me on one of these drugs. I do not have a mental problems, what I have is a normal reaction to the permanent and very noticeable deterioration of my outer looks.

 

[Dench57]

In the UK they say our generation of under 25's are the most boring and safe in 40 years.

Reports suggest they:

-Get in less fights
-Drink a lot less
-Go to pubs and bars less
-Have less sex per week (though have more partners)
-No discernible youth movement (like grunge, punk, rave etc).

They might dress in more revealing clothes but their lifestyle is pretty timid for the standards of youth.

 

[resu]

That first sentence is very true. I think that kind of speaks to why some members on here are so extremely active in posting, yet they barely have any hair loss whatsoever (if any at all). I think it's just insane. And I agree with what you said about the "chemical imbalance nonsense". Don't get me wrong, I do believe that some people's depression is a result of chemical imbalance. Yet I also believe the psychiatrists try to attribute every single problem to a chemical imbalance and try to put you on various drugs as a result. I remember when I saw a psychiatrist as a result of my depression due to hair loss. He tried to put me on one of these drugs. I do not have a mental problems, what I have is a normal reaction to the permanent and very noticeable deterioration of my outer looks.

Usually there's a cause but some people really are depressed due to chemical issues on the brain, my aunt was perfectly fine until she got surgery and now she's bipolar.

 

[CopeForLife]

just imagine wake up as a guy from my pic

will u feel depressed after you will see ur perfectly sculpted face in mirror during morning routine?

will u feel depressed while getting constant validation from random people every second?

will u feel depressed about thoughts that u will be center of attention in every company and every girl will eye f*** you?

will u feel depressed about possibility to make huge money just doing f*****g photos?

looks are requirements to be happy

"more important" are not the right words, it is not mathematically correct

you cannot value something objectively "more important" than another, thing can be required or not, zero ore one

or you will fall in logic pitfalls like "he was so handsome but he was an a**h** so I dumped him! See, looks don't matter!!!" — in this case guy HAD required look but hadn't personality

you cannot derive from above that ugly baldcel with perfect personality will make it better because he will not pass looks requirements condition

again, eventually it is all about zero or one — do u meet condition and pass it or no

 

[CopeForLife]

confident fat girl

u see that overcompensating bodypositive semi-feminist landwhales with dyed hair

do their confidence and inner beauty will compensate their disgusting looks? hell no

same for man, girls admire our bones and hair and if guy also has "confidence" it is the best if no they will still admire and eye f*****g him

handsome incel it is oxymoron

I went out with handsome guys a few times it did leave a psychological trauma on me

white, nw0, tall and average+ face

prime young girls approaching them, guys are talking about haircuts, asking exact height, sharing drinks with them — they respect every f*****g word and move from handsome guys — probably they use secret pua body language technics

what the f*** is confidence you slybaldguys retards...

if u go out with guys like this they "clean up" and nobody will look at you because they are genetically superior and you are genetical subhuman trash

their life is amazing, our life is miserable

 

[CopeForLife]

online dating is shallow they say

make more social photos don't make selfies blabla

I did a fake on asian (asian chicks dig into white guys!!!) dating site once with one face photo on the phone of NW1 blue eyed guy I got from the /soc/ (he rated as 6.5-7) he got like 40 messages with compliments and asking contacts (I did't write anything)

I did an exact photo of myself with same lightning, same clothes (black t shirt), distance and angle

guess what? I got one message from single obese asian mom working in mcdonalds

same conditions but the first guy was more confident probably

go out more in clubs they say

read my prev message no point to go out in places where prime women look for hot jocks

the friend of mine slays a lot hot girls from tinder on almost daily basis — he isn't aware about shallowness of tinder he just fucks

6'6 nw0 average face and nt

he tells me every time... just do it! it so easy! (literally!)

Guess power of my coping skills when I listen his slay stories and stay mentally fine

 

[tellersquill]

In defence of some fat women - I've had my fair share of them and have enjoyed it. Some people are okay with fat women - I just require a decent face and a good personality.

I don't think everyone is attracted to the stick thin ideal of beauty - especially not in 2016. Its okay to like whatever you want.

 

[DBW]

In all honesty, I'm surprised we're still debating this thing - @hellouser skewered the confidence myth years ago: it's a "by-product of predictability". Sure, you can try and fake it but women aren't dumb, most of them are going to see through it and even if they don't, the odds are you're probably going to end up overdoing it and risk coming across as arrogant - not a problem if you're insanely good-looking, but an overly confident loser is going to be resented somewhat rotten, people think you're having ideas above your station or something. This has been the case from my experience at least. If you want a convincing argument for the predictability effect, look no further than an ex girlfriend of mine. When I first met her she was a virgin, didn't get much attention from guys and was naturally quite shy and insecure. A year later (after we broke up) she got scouted by a top modelling agency and came top in the year in her 1st year exams at university. Funnily enough, she's now one of the most confident people I know. Seriously, she will literally walk into a club these days and pick up anyone (boy/girl whatever) she likes, just tells them that she's going to f*** them tonight and that's that. It's a pretty depressing thing to see to be honest, people just roll over and beg to please her. It's also pretty ironic, in the way that it's as much this girl's 'aura', her charisma, that attracts these people to her as her physical good looks. But yeah, without any of the validation she would never of been able to cultivate any of it. As with most things, confidence is a case of the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, I'm afraid.

 

[CopeForLife]

"Creepy".

That word can be applied exclusively to males.

Honestly, can you remind a single time when girl behaved "creepy"? I didn't even knew THAT meaning of this word before.

Weird – yes. Annoying – yes. But "creepy" – wtf is this? Still do not know.

Also, can you reject a girl who behaves "creepy" but meets your attractiveness standards? Rhetorical question.

 

[CopeForLife]

You may want to read this, Fred. I went out tonight with some friends, and I noticed that almost every couple I saw was NOT looksmatched; all the girls were 1-2 points uglier than their boyfriends. When I saw a chubby 4/10 girl with an athletic 6/10 I felt sick and wanted to puke. They were all in their 20s; but the cherry on the cake was this: I met five guys, all of them were 24-25, all were severely balding (Norwood 4-5), and they were better looking than me. They were the only ones completely alone (excluding myself, of course). I never felt so frustrated and depressed in months, and I barely slept tonight. If even 7/10 guys are forced to settle with 5-6/10 girls, what chances could I possibly have?

Female hypergamy, nothing to say. Apparently not many couples of people in their 20s are looksmatched after all.

I lol at hypergamy – I see 7-8/10 Chads with obese gf's everywhere.

I was amazed by aussies they are literally all Chads... By looks and by behave. They are LOW INHIB 10/10. I remembered some of my fellows from Europe like Belgium, Germany or Dutch they mostly behave like incels BUT their genetics save them. f*****g 6'4+ everyone with amazing skull/hair. Shrink them to 5'8 and inject balding gene into their DNA they will be nothing more than incels.

Looks can save you even you ruin communication.

 

[N003]

In the UK they say our generation of under 25's are the most boring and safe in 40 years.

Reports suggest they:

-Get in less fights
-Drink a lot less
-Go to pubs and bars less
-Have less sex per week (though have more partners)
-No discernible youth movement (like grunge, punk, rave etc).

They might dress in more revealing clothes but their lifestyle is pretty timid for the standards of youth.

You may want to read this, Fred. I went out tonight with some friends, and I noticed that almost every couple I saw was NOT looksmatched; all the girls were 1-2 points uglier than their boyfriends. When I saw a chubby 4/10 girl with an athletic 6/10 I felt sick and wanted to puke. They were all in their 20s; but the cherry on the cake was this: I met five guys, all of them were 24-25, all were severely balding (Norwood 4-5), and they were better looking than me. They were the only ones completely alone (excluding myself, of course). I never felt so frustrated and depressed in months, and I barely slept tonight. If even 7/10 guys are forced to settle with 5-6/10 girls, what chances could I possibly have?

Female hypergamy, nothing to say. Apparently not many couples of people in their 20s are looksmatched after all.

Time to change your country mister. I was many times in London in clubs and saw many balding guys with a girlfriend.

Maybe you just living in a wrong country.

 

[CopeForLife]

Time to change your country mister. I was many times in London in clubs and saw many balding guys with a girlfriend.

Maybe you just living in a wrong country.

I think his problem is his bones and hair aren't good enough to enjoy life. Not the f*****g country.

A lot of guys are doing well in Italy. But their genetics are better.

 

[N003]

Maybe its a special mentality of the countries.

I was i spain madrid, valencia and sevilla.

Soooooo many hot girls with an amazing ugly or just f*****g normal boyfriend.

USA is very special. In some states appearance is everything example :
California, Abilene Florida, NY.

A very superficial culture!

 

[CopeForLife]

I see some of guys who has a hot gf's.

Rich friend of mine is balding (wears hat) and has a quite hot slavic wife maybe 7/10 and 8/10 for someone who likes tall girls.

He is like 5'8 NW3 with a big frame AND do a gymcelling.

When we went with him to that aussie Chad bar he confessed to me that he felt uncomfortable among them because they are tall and bigger framed that him. Gymcelling doesn't help him albeit he isn't twink.

Even if you got a hot gf as ugly baldcel you will still feel inferior your whole life when see a goodlooking man.

Let alone your hot wife/gf will dump you when you will loose money or get sick.

 

[blackg]

I do not have a mental problems, what I have is a normal reaction to the permanent and very noticeable deterioration of my outer looks.

Exactly! This is a very noticeable condition, but once you mention the effect balding has on our mental health..
Well, the problem must be something else!

 

[tellersquill]

Maybe the UK is more accepting of balding people but it is impossible to say.

If I had to suggest a theory it would be that british people don't tend to be that attractive in the first place so we cant afford to be so vain. Honestly, this may sound like I'm bashing my country but when I'm in Italy, france, even Holland, they dress better than us and tend to be prettier in the face.

Perhaps, its more okay to be bald because we aren't to hot to begin with.