I saw so many significantly balding men with attractive partners today

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Best part is, he makes it out that it’s super easy for me when it isn’t

starting to pick up now but I was in a sh*t drought last 3 months where I kept on getting rejected and some of them were harsh - racial abuse by Muslim
Arabs (twice!) - anyone here telling me to date only Muslims can f*** off , they have preferences too

to change the odds in my favour I’ve updated my profile with more current photos, and a video of me, so women can see what I look like in a non static form, and also reconfigured my app filter settings so that I have more opportunities. Getting more matches now.

it’s hard work
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to add if I thought like @doubleindemnity and @Feelsbadman , I would have given up by now, blaming my ethnicity for my lack of success, physical appearance, hairloss and f*** knows what else
 
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Oknow said:
Best part is, he makes it out that it’s super easy for me when it isn’t

starting to pick up now but I was in a sh*t drought last 3 months where I kept on getting rejected and some of them were harsh - racial abuse by Muslim
Arabs (twice!) - anyone here telling me to date only Muslims can f*** off , they have preferences too

to change the odds in my favour I’ve updated my profile with more current photos, and a video of me, so women can see what I look like in a non static form, and also reconfigured my app filter settings so that I have more opportunities. Getting more matches now.

it’s hard work
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yeah if course... it isnt easy for most people...

see, that is why i dont date religious people^^ luckily i dont meet any of them anyway...

thing is you got to put in effort, nobody can tell me they are elephant man level ugly...

i also do understand struggle with online dating... ive said it before, i had zero success there in ten years... probably because i dont look good in any pictures^^ and for some other reasons maybe... if it works for you, go ahead...
i can only score in person apparently...

well and then come the actual dates... hook up is one thing, no big deal... but if you are serious about someone it is way more difficult, or you/i just make it more difficult than it is... most likely my issue...

in person you just have to be more interesting than the other dudes, which is not difficult at all these days...
 
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vondoom said:
yeah if course... it isnt easy for most people...

see, that is why i dont date religious people^^ luckily i dont meet any of them anyway...

thing is you got to put in effort, nobody can tell me they are elephant man level ugly...

i also do understand struggle with online dating... ive said it before, i had zero success there in ten years... probably because i dont look good in any pictures^^ and for some other reasons maybe... if it works for you, go ahead...
i can only score in person apparently...

well and then come the actual dates... hook up is one thing, no big deal... but if you are serious about someone it is way more difficult, or you/i just make it more difficult than it is... most likely my issue...

in person you just have to be more interesting than the other dudes, which is not difficult at all these days...
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online dating is one of those things where some apps work better than others, it’s weird tbh

when I use bumble get f*** all matches , but when I use other apps I get more
 
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Oknow said:
that just goes to show that your problem is that you have a sense of self-entitlement, you basically think that women should not have preferences and automatically like you, ignoring your flaws, as opposed to finding ways (like the rest of us average guys) to improve the odds in our favour. Don’t want to put the work in.

if you and @doubleindemnity think that hair loss is holding you both back, wig it and see if results change.

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i cant talk to you anymore i think you are retarded or something or a subtle troll
where the hell did i ever say that? where?
i was saying for some of us it takes A massive effort for an opportunity with women and that effort may not actually be worth it in the end
 
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Feelsbadman said:
i cant talk to you anymore i think you are retarded or something or a subtle troll
where the hell did i ever say that? where?
i was saying for some of us it takes A massive effort for an opportunity with women and that effort may not actually be worth it in the end
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you should get a system
It seems like you could pull before hairloss

problem solved
 
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Oknow said:
online dating is one of those things where some apps work better than others, it’s weird tbh

when I use bumble get f*** all matches , but when I use other apps I get more
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yeah i used about ten apps...
of course i am also a minority (still different, i know) and the women who are into foreigners never liked me... not even in non romantic situations... such is life....

it just became tedious and a waste of time...
can better go out and meet women, that usually guaranteed...
 
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yet apparently going by your other posts that didn’t stop you from getting women before hairloss kicked in...didn’t you have a GF?

something doesn’t add up

@DoctorHouse ?
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For the 100000 millionth time,
The only reason why i got women and a gf was due to extreme looksmaxxing to the point i was sacrificing my physical and mental health to improve my appearance for women.
 
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For the 100000 millionth time,
The only reason why i got women and a gf was due to extreme looksmaxxing to the point i was sacrificing my physical and mental health to improve my appearance for women.
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lol what did you do?

f*****g hell, I don’t need to extreme looksmaxxx and women fancy me

the women where you live must be the most shallow people on earth
 
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the women where you live must be the most shallow people on earth
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sounds like it somehow... at least sometimes...

at least here everybody knows they want cash^^ or bf to show off and then provider later^^
 
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Oknow said:
lol what did you do?

f*****g hell, I don’t need to extreme looksmaxxx and women fancy me

the women where you live must be the most shallow people on earth
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No you clown it's BECAUSE I'M UGLY AND SHORT
wear shoe lifts everywhere, toppik for my hair , tanning hormones, starving myself for low body fat (so my face looks better) 100% strict diet , sleeping schedule skin and so on on

i went from a 4/10 to 6/10
 
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Feelsbadman said:
is that what women really want?
a good looking guy to show off or money?
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asia? yes... like really a lot, if not most of them... most asian dudes want arm candy and a servant, so it levels out...
sounds worse than it is... sooner or later people realise that isnt all there is, but women still want some stability... preferably well off husband... that is culture for you^^

though its not like most would marry a total a**h** only because he is rich... its more that after late 20s, money is more important and they wouldnt date the dude they actually like, if he is too broke (doesnt sound too different from europe, though)...


im not asian so for me it is still a bit different (that doesnt mean that my gf doesnt expect me to pay for most, but its still on a moderately normal level)...
most foreigners get the women that want a green card (or some other exit strategy)^^
 
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