I saw so many significantly balding men with attractive partners today

[Oknow]

I think you should have an arranged marriage. Keep it in your'e own culture.

You'll be more happier in the long run rather chasing women of a different background to you.

I think that I should be able to date whoever I want

interracial marriages are not new to my family

also I know white guys who find it easy to date women of all sorts of backgrounds, why can’t I do that same?

 

[Oknow]

Yeah, muslims and other cultures with arranged marriages have it easy. Approach the father of the girl you're interested in, hell the father might even respect you more if you look older with your NW3+. The girls of these cultures are also less hard when it comes to looks.


....lol, or I'm naïve about this. Someone from this culture, enlighten us.

Not sure if it’s any easier, @doubleindemnity can’t seem to get one

for the record I have no problems at all getting dates (I have 150 matches on the app I use , where I have 10 new matches this week and could go on a date this weekend)

I probably could have settled by now with a girl from a different background

part of the problem is me, I’m holding out

 

[Butterbean Head]

You very rarely see white people with black/indian/pakistani women.

From my extensive experience dealing with the aforementioned, I find most to be not happy in they're skin, hence the racial hatred they have for light-skinned specimens.

The amount of abuse I get on a personal level for having a beard that's blonde/ginger is incredible yet they're quite happy to sleep/date outside of their race.

 

[Oknow]

You very rarely see white people with black/indian/pakistani women.

From my extensive experience dealing with the aforementioned, I find most to be not happy in they're skin, hence the racial hatred they have for light-skinned specimens.

The amount of abuse I get on a personal level for having a beard that's blonde/ginger is incredible yet they're quite happy to sleep/date outside of their race.

It’s usually the men who date women of different backgrounds, not the women.

I’ve gone out with lots of white women in the past.

 

[Butterbean Head]

It’s usually the men who date women of different backgrounds, not the women.

I’ve gone out with lots of white women in the past.

Why?

What is about white women you like so much?

 

[Oknow]

What is about white women you like so much?

Find them attractive, pale skin

Funnily enough, I’ve met loads of white women who find darker skin attractive - guess it’s exotic and different for them

 

[Oknow]

Why?

What is about white women you like so much?

I don’t just find whites attractive, I’m into Arabs too, who happen to be Muslims

My success rate is much lower with Arabs, who tend to be a lot more prejudice against non Arab Muslims than whites. Yet happy to go out with white guys.

so basically I’m only restricted to Indians going by the logic here, whilst a white guy has opportunities globally

totally fucked up

 

[Butterbean Head]

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Find them attractive, pale skin

Funnily enough, I’ve met loads of white women who find darker skin attractive - guess it’s exotic and different for the

Yet you would berate me for the colour of my skin if we passed..............

The reason white women find dark skin so alluring is this gangster music, supposedly big penises, great dancers, criminal mentality that is perpetuated by the media. It's cool now to hate on white people. Imperialism and all that.....

When is the last time you saw a black man pushing his child in a pushchair?

 

[Butterbean Head]

I don’t just find whites attractive, I’m into Arabs too, who happen to be Muslims

My success rate is much lower with Arabs, who tend to be a lot more prejudice against non Arab Muslims than whites. Yet happy to go out with white guys.

so basically I’m only restricted to Indians going by the logic here, whilst a white guy has opportunities globally

totally fucked up

That's probably more due to religion than skin tone.

 

[Oknow]

O


Yet you would berate me for the colour of my skin if we passed..............

The reason white women find dark skin so alluring is this gangster music, supposedly big penises, great dancers, criminal mentality that is perpetuated by the media. It's cool now to hate on white people. Imperialism and all that.....

When is the last time you saw a black man pushing his child in a pushchair?

No I won’t, I actually find ginger women hot and not a racist

 

[Oknow]

That's probably more due to religion than skin tone.

Arabs are the same religion as me

 

[Oknow]

Some studies suggest it's harder for ethnic males though.

• 3.1 Women are more racist in online dating, and 92-95% with a "preference" exclude any ethnic men
• 3.2 All races agree that whites are most attractive, but women prefer whites far more than men
• 3.3 Women are more racist than men in speed dating, and find Asian men least physically attractive
• 3.4 White men get 11-14 times as much interest from women on Tinder vs. equivalent Asian men
• 3.5 Being Asian in the USA is a primary predictor of 'never being kissed'
• 3.6 Asian women marry interracially more than twice as often as Asian men
• 3.7 Asian men have half the relationships as white men due to women's 'racial hierarchy'
• 3.8 White and Asian women agree white men are 30-50% more attractive than Asian men
• 3.9 Women reply most online to white men and least to Indian men
• 3.10 Across America, women most desire white men, followed by black, Hispanic, and Asian men
• 3.11 Women enforce stricter racial requirements than men, advantaging primarily white men
• 3.12 Female p**rn actresses 'racially dodge' scenes with Black male actors or demand a premium
• 3.13 Whiter, golden, & rosier (ie. Caucasian) skin is seen as healthier and more attractive
• 3.14 An Asian face is more 'similar to that of an infant' than other races
• 3.15 Black men and women appear 'more masculine' than whites; Asian men appear 'less masculine'
• 3.16 Women who don't express a 'racial preference' in dating behave the same as women who do
• 3.17 Racism in dating is stable or worsening, not improving, over time

yes it’s harder but it’s not impossible

I’m living proof of this

 

[vondoom]

she is interested in me, probably could get something out of it

But her personality sucks

then pump and dump, or just leave it be and forget it...

 

[Oknow]

Some studies suggest it's harder for ethnic males though.

• 3.1 Women are more racist in online dating, and 92-95% with a "preference" exclude any ethnic men
• 3.2 All races agree that whites are most attractive, but women prefer whites far more than men
• 3.3 Women are more racist than men in speed dating, and find Asian men least physically attractive
• 3.4 White men get 11-14 times as much interest from women on Tinder vs. equivalent Asian men
• 3.5 Being Asian in the USA is a primary predictor of 'never being kissed'
• 3.6 Asian women marry interracially more than twice as often as Asian men
• 3.7 Asian men have half the relationships as white men due to women's 'racial hierarchy'
• 3.8 White and Asian women agree white men are 30-50% more attractive than Asian men
• 3.9 Women reply most online to white men and least to Indian men
• 3.10 Across America, women most desire white men, followed by black, Hispanic, and Asian men
• 3.11 Women enforce stricter racial requirements than men, advantaging primarily white men
• 3.12 Female p**rn actresses 'racially dodge' scenes with Black male actors or demand a premium
• 3.13 Whiter, golden, & rosier (ie. Caucasian) skin is seen as healthier and more attractive
• 3.14 An Asian face is more 'similar to that of an infant' than other races
• 3.15 Black men and women appear 'more masculine' than whites; Asian men appear 'less masculine'
• 3.16 Women who don't express a 'racial preference' in dating behave the same as women who do
• 3.17 Racism in dating is stable or worsening, not improving, over time

The thing about dating apps right, if you are an ethnic and your profile pictures are up to date, then anyone matching with you is likely to not give a sh*t about your race.

There are lots of white women who don’t give a sh*t, have had 10 matches this week with them.

 

[Oknow]

I think your chances are also higher with online dating since you have access to so many women (even if only a small part replies)

Interesting evolution

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yeah as I wrote above that’s why I use apps. The filters really help me weed out women not interested in my ethnicity.

in the wild, no way of knowing and more likely to experience rejection.

then as you wrote I focus on the ones who I can hold a convo with

 

[Feelsbadman]

wouldnt have a relationship with someone i met off an app dont care care how common it is now

 

[doubleindemnity]

I think he's quiet, reserved & introverted in real life. Smart guy though. Correct @doubleindemnity? I mean you go to the movies alone. Nothing wrong with that. Though combining this with NW6 + 5'6 makes dating near mission impossible for you

I'm not sure about that. I am some of those things but I have several times been told "I can't believe that you used to be shy as a youngster". I really believe that I am fine in social situations and certainly don't have any disorders. My problems are 100% due to my hair loss and the overall way that I look, in my opinion. Maybe I could be more fun or funny or spontaneous or adventurous or any of those things, but character traits like mine don't hold most guys back, as far as I know. Going to the movies alone is great and I recommend that everybody try it. What is maybe more sad is going to music shows or sports or plays alone, dressing up all smart and all. But the friends that I have are in different stages of life or aren't interested enough in things like this (like the sports that I like) to pay large amounts to go and see it. I'm absolutely miserable so I am not surprised nor indignant that I don't have a larger social circle. If a guy doesn't have social disorders then it's likely due to the way that he looks or a troubled childhood why he struggles. For me it's the way that I look. @Oknow has shown us that being Norwood 2 really does mean the world. Some of the stuff that he posts still doesn't seem like reality to me. More than 5 matches in a week? People not canceling dates? People wanting to see you again or wanting you to settle down with them? Seems like something from a different planet, to me.

 

[doubleindemnity]

wouldnt have a relationship with someone i met off an app dont care care how common it is now

Yes you definitely wouldn't because you're bald. How would it ever happen? I know that you didn't mean it this way but that's how I read it. Indeed, bald guys don't have much say or control of many parts of their lives.

 

[Oknow]

I'm not sure about that. I am some of those things but I have several times been told "I can't believe that you used to be shy as a youngster". I really believe that I am fine in social situations and certainly don't have any disorders. My problems are 100% due to my hair loss and the overall way that I look, in my opinion. Maybe I could be more fun or funny or spontaneous or adventurous or any of those things, but character traits like mine don't hold most guys back, as far as I know. Going to the movies alone is great and I recommend that everybody try it. What is maybe more sad is going to music shows or sports or plays alone, dressing up all smart and all. But the friends that I have are in different stages of life or aren't interested enough in things like this (like the sports that I like) to pay large amounts to go and see it. I'm absolutely miserable so I am not surprised nor indignant that I don't have a larger social circle. If a guy doesn't have social disorders then it's likely due to the way that he looks or a troubled childhood why he struggles. For me it's the way that I look. @Oknow has shown us that being Norwood 2 really does mean the world. Some of the stuff that he posts still doesn't seem like reality to me. More than 5 matches in a week? People not canceling dates? People wanting to see you again or wanting you to settle down with them? Seems like something from a different planet, to me.

I have had 20 matches this week, all white women, goes to show women are not as racist as people say they are.

I was previously getting less than 3 matches a week, found a way to configure my app to get more.

BUT what I will say, it is a numbers game, the reason why I am getting lots more matches is now is because I am getting 4x as many profiles to swipe right too, whereas before I would only have 6 or 7 profiles a week to swipe right too.

 

[Feelsbadman]

wouldnt have a relationship with someone i met off an app dont care

Yes you definitely wouldn't because you're bald. How would it ever happen? I know that you didn't mean it this way but that's how I read it. Indeed, bald guys don't have much say or control of many parts of their lives.

even if i wasnt bald i wouldnt
feel bad for guys aho i see in relatjonships with datjng app girls