life is over :[

[ali777]

Hey Ali, did you get your quote from the Maury Povich show? lol!

I haven't got a clue who that is.... Do you mean "Alfie is the daddy" quote? Alfie is the 13 yo British kid who allegedly fathered a baby...

It looks like it wasn't him... I'm not following the story much, but it still amazes me what some people get upto.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Just a talk show here in the states. Maury is married to Connie chung (the newscaster) and his shows seem to be only about two things, kids with severe deformities or paternal tests. Like "In the case of Latrel Johnson.....you ARE the daddy!" kind of thing. His shows are all the same but your quote reminded me of that.

 

[raj47]

yes buddy i'm also over 22 but seems to be hurt myself because when young guy is balding no one can feel his sorrow and depress about his life and hair and his community.

1.day by day he loose his faith and become lazy.
2.day by day he avoid to speaking to anyone or even from his community.
3.some their friends will irritate him about his head.
4.you will progressively lose faith in you like male pattern baldness.
5.when ever you go out people of your neighbors only see your head not for talks or thoughts.
6.concentration will lose.
7.main things you cannot attract people.
8.every time if you see in a mirror only lost hair will come in front of your mirror.
9.daily you will worry about that even in class rooms and while chating with others.
10.the whole world is upside down if you lose your hair in a young age ..

god please kill us everybody who is going to be bald in a young age..

because if this i lost good job ..and global recession making me worse .. trying to find job..or suicide

 

[Bald Dave]

i disagree. Snogs lead to numbers which lead to sex or maybe a rship. When i was 20 i had a bad split. I started to club alot. I slept with 9 women in about 6months all got from clubs. All students, all fit. My female friends started saying i was acting wrong and i stoped. Still kept the kisses going but cut out the playa stuff. Clubs and pubs .. its where its at. student nights. r u a student gboy?

I have gone to nightclubs and I have had many snogs and numbers off women but it never came to sex. I think once I met a girl for a drink afterwards but that was it. Maybe, they were drunk at the time of snogging me hahaha unk:

 

[Bald Dave]

Well, no luck this weekend.
Just went to visit a friend about an hour ago and got a bad comment about my hair.
It's funny how it can destroy entirely my whole confidence in a moment.

This is the biggest mistake you can make. Going out once doesn't guarantee you a girl. You have to hang in there for a long time until something comes along.

As I said, the easiest way of getting a girl is through becoming social. You meet people, then their friends, etc... One day something will come along.

It takes a major effort to get to that point... Now don't be lazy and live your life. Make sure you meet people regularly and that you socialise with them. Don't go into hiding because your hair doesn't look perfect.

I get shy only when I talk to someone I fancy a lot, normally I don't have a problem with talking to women but I don't go out much and I don't put myself in positions where I can get a girlfriend. I have a few regular female friends, they are a great bunch to be around and if I'm likely to get laid, it is going to be through them or with them.... You need friends...

I totally agree with ali on this one. I got my first number after asking about 30 girls and this was over a time scale of about 3 months. Persistance is the key. If first you don't succeed then try again.

 

[Smooth]

yes buddy i'm also over 22 but seems to be hurt myself because when young guy is balding no one can feel his sorrow and depress about his life and hair and his community.

1.day by day he loose his faith and become lazy.
2.day by day he avoid to speaking to anyone or even from his community.
3.some their friends will irritate him about his head.
4.you will progressively lose faith in you like male pattern baldness.
5.when ever you go out people of your neighbors only see your head not for talks or thoughts.
6.concentration will lose.
7.main things you cannot attract people.
8.every time if you see in a mirror only lost hair will come in front of your mirror.
9.daily you will worry about that even in class rooms and while chating with others.
10.the whole world is upside down if you lose your hair in a young age ..

god please kill us everybody who is going to be bald in a young age..

because if this i lost good job ..and global recession making me worse .. trying to find job..or suicide

Raj you are correct, this is exactly how i felt when i started balding, went from nw1-0 at 18 to nw3 at 22~, i couldnt make new friends, lost contacts with old ones, *luckly* for me i een to the army during this terrible 3 years... the army wasnt easy both physically and mentaly, but coming back home to the superfical friends in was even harder!! espicaly at that age (can you imagine a kid wanting to stay in a place where people die instead of coming home to be judged on hes looks!)... BUT (!... theres a *happy end* here) the difficult period only lasts untill about 23-24, you learn to live with it, you sick of feeling sorry for yourself and you start to live again.... just make sure you make the best out of these few years (20-22) get a degree, work out, when you hit acceptance hair loss wouldnt matter to you and to the people around you (as long as you dont let it get in your way!!).

 

[follicle84]

the difficult period only lasts untill about 23-24, you learn to live with it, you sick of feeling sorry for yourself and you start to live again...

Im 24 and i can tell you my hairloss still bothers me. Being a certain age doesnt make you stop caring. There is some truth in what your saying however. Its the adjustment to your looks every time you lose that little bit of hair that cause you to freak out. You learn to accept it after a few weeks and then it all kicks off again 2 months later because you have lost even more hair. Its a vicous cycle (like chinese torcha) but i too am sick and bored of stressing each time it happens and dont freak out as much. I think slowly i am begining to accept it. Im not quite there yet though.

 

[ali777]

i disagree. Snogs lead to numbers which lead to sex or maybe a rship. When i was 20 i had a bad split. I started to club alot. I slept with 9 women in about 6months all got from clubs. All students, all fit. My female friends started saying i was acting wrong and i stoped. Still kept the kisses going but cut out the playa stuff. Clubs and pubs .. its where its at. student nights. r u a student gboy?

I have gone to nightclubs and I have had many snogs and numbers off women but it never came to sex. I think once I met a girl for a drink afterwards but that was it. Maybe, they were drunk at the time of snogging me hahaha unk:

Finally someone agrees with me....

On a night out it's very easy to kiss the girls. Women like the male attention, and being relaxed after a few drinks, they are kinda up for it.... However, most of it doesn't lead to sex.

That first kiss brings the advantage of taking away the awkwardness of the second meeting. I mean, having already kissed, the second time you can kiss again and try to take it up one notch. That ice is broken, and you don't have to worry about her reaction

I'm not particularly interested in kissing strangers anymore... I had my days, now I go out mainly to socialise, everything else is a bonus... I'd rather talk to my friends, and if there is someone who is a potential one night stand, I might try to get close to her but that's it... I don't play the games

 

[Gboy2k8]

Well , a little update.


There's nothing new actually,
Since my last post I tried some pubs, about 3 parties,
Tried making basic eye contact or dance next to girls I like.
I knew I couldn't go with the super hot ones ,
Try mid - ones , no luck.

I try focusing on other things beside my hair and girls,
like snowboarding.
I'm not a top rider , just a beginner but that's actually the only thing in my life right now that brings me happiness.

 

[ali777]

Well , a little update.


There's nothing new actually,
Since my last post I tried some pubs, about 3 parties,
Tried making basic eye contact or dance next to girls I like.
I knew I couldn't go with the super hot ones ,
Try mid - ones , no luck.

Did you just stand there, or did you actually try to talk to any of them?

 

[raj47]

yes mr smooth

always my friends use irrtate about my hair ..

some times i felt my young age almost dead

my head look like corp ,,hmmmmmmmmm

i dont know wat to do...

but still there is a hope iam currently in NW2.5 anyway for the past
few months i had lots of shedding but now stopped and visible in lights
but i can see positive side effects such as a body hair shedding thinng on my hand ...

i read da bears story still there is a hope in my mind corner ..

 

[Smooth]

I try focusing on other things beside my hair and girls,
like snowboarding.
I'm not a top rider , just a beginner but that's actually the only thing in my life right now that brings me happiness.

Thats exactly it!! focus on things that make you happy! hell, make a list and follow it maybe...

 

[Gboy2k8]

updating
well
about 6 months on.. thinks look much nicer.

ye , I know the smile looks faked. it is..
though im working on it..

though... I think I've started developing alopecia areata.. (check my other thread)

As for the ladies issue..
Well . nothing.
Though, a friend set me a date with some really hot chick on thursday, wish me luck.

 

[Mens Rea]

hey mate

what are u taking for your hair? it doesn't even look like youre balding or thinning in that pic at all, im 23 and i wish my hair aws that good!

funny that because your hair is better than mine and youre atleast as good looking as me and im doing really well with women. its all about confidence

im still working on things in this regard myself but i notice that its mainly in my head - NOT my hair. Develop some inner belief in yourself - VALUE yourself for what you are. Believe me, most of the girls i meet im the one that loses interest not the other way about - you'll learn that girls are no different to boys, u just have to put yourself in teh postion to get to know girls etc first.

as i said youre a decent looking guy and should have no insecurities in that regard. looks arent even teh most important aspect that women look at too, i mean, im sometimes shocked at how girls favour me (or other people) for much better looking guys. Work on your social circle buddy and things will fall into place

 

[Gboy2k8]

dunno m8 ,
I really don't think looks is everything, but I believe it helps alot.

If I'm that fucked up with women, I guess I have a really shitty attitude..
plus I don't think I'm that good looking in real life.

Anyway im taking 0.5 MG propecia daily,
using nizoral 1% every other day and placing 5% minoxidil only at night before I go to sleep.
I can't really say my hair is like it was before,
It's much thinner but now I can maintain a much more full look.


Anyway I hope the alopecia areata thing won't continue cause it got me real worried.
right now it looks like my barber screwed up but who knows how it will continue developing.

 

[Petchsky]

Is there stubble in the bald spot, if so then yeah, he probably did screw up.

 

[Gboy2k8]

Is there stubble in the bald spot, if so then yeah, he probably did screw up.

I think I can feel some hair there I'm just not sure.
I swear to god I was playing with this place just a day ago and didn't feel anything how tf can that be.

I need to give it some days before Ill know for sure.
Anyway Ive already put some minoxidil there and made an appointment ....

 

[Gboy2k8]

I guess balding is a curse from the skies.
Just when everything started getting better... I got areata..

Cross your fingers for me that its only temporary... :Z Ill keep on updating and try to be optimistic.

 

[ClayShaw]

I guess balding is a curse from the skies.
Just when everything started getting better... I got areata..

Cross your fingers for me that its only temporary... :Z Ill keep on updating and try to be optimistic.

I know a guy with AU. AU/AT are about 1% of all AA cases, so the overwhelming statistical odds suggest you should be fine long term.

 

[ali777]

dunno m8 ,
I really don't think looks is everything, but I believe it helps alot.

If I'm that f***ed up with women, I guess I have a really shitty attitude..
plus I don't think I'm that good looking in real life.

You are a decent looking kid... If you have girl problems, you have to review other parts of your life as well.