As someone who's had roughly 90+ first dates in his life, I can confirm this, with enough experience, you can definitely tell the difference.
Lightness, sweetness, trust, joyfulness vs. heaviness, cynicism, blank stares and distrust.
Sorry if that triggers women like
@hairblues .
Casual sex does not exist for women.
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The more successful you were at one, single long relationship, the better you are at managing relationships.
If you have one failed relationship after another, the problem is definitely you, not all men / women.
It takes a while to get there, I've failed my first relationships miserably.
Then it got better and better
because I learned from my mistakes.
If you keep failing you're not doing that.